Child shy of what

In front of the kindergartens, there are always some parents irritated but must pretend smile kid who cries refused to admission of a child. Psychological treatment center in Fujian coal mine Sanatorium, also often have some parents brought children for consultation, for example, there was a little boy, aged 6, naughty at home, in school, but timid and overcautious; the other a girl brought up by her grandmother, a partial eclipse, shrinks from meeting strangers, poor language skills sth

This age of children interpersonal relationships poor, may has following several factors: a is intelligence or basic ability has problem, that does not know how expression own meaning, or expression bad, shy of laughed at, so more timid; second is due to dating frustrated, led fear and people exchanges; three is no dating of motivation, does not think friends has what benefits, think own playing also can, or purely personality within, does not like and children playing.

As far as the external factors, there is the following: building instead of the courtyard, current needs of the neighbourhood; fear of children out of danger for the elderly, do not let the children go out to play; nanny in place of the parents work, but can\'t make up for the parents \' emotions, to children\'s emotional hunger sth

How can I help children no longer \"afraid\" and others?

In daily life, can train child communication capabilities. For example, to non-authoritative parenting, let children have a chance to express themselves more, let him try to answer \"what do you want to\" sort of issue. Sometimes, he would also say some parents knowing smile humour, such as my daughter answered \"Kangaroo bag is used to do in front of\" issue, her answer was chocolate!

For children to encourage, build their confidence. The other hand, can ask him at school or kindergarten, he reports the dynamics of her classmates, such as children complain when someone is bad for him, to ask him: \"How do you think should be on students better? \"\" You don\'t like him you so, is there and he said? \"Let children think that how exactly to express yourself, let others understand his emotions and ideas; and child\" simulation \", and what to do under the circumstances, say.

Also often took the children out of one \'s, such as weekend with children to good friend\'s home for the night, make children appreciate one\'s happy mother will try to bring their own children, although children cannot speak, and also to communicate with his more embracing and caressing the child. If there have been communication problems can be solved by mental training, such as children in the mat. Crawl, with soft hair brush child body, let the children rode a jump ball jumps, seriously, you need to help of the psychiatrist, with special psychological training.