Disciplining children differently no matter

In terms of disciplining children, occasional disputes between husband and wife is natural, because we have inherited from their parents of children grow up, a different philosophy. Following these recommendations, perhaps helpful to you.

▲ Education children have no relationship. You and your husband have a different form of education to their children, and children can benefit from. See you on the issue in a debate with her husband, children will learn to use a different point of view problems.

▲ Parent parties will never reach the United Front. Although both parents education child has a different way is good, but no obvious conflict both sides to show it. Argue in front of the children how to discipline children, this will only force the children both parents to make choices. For issues to be settled at once, such as kids go to bed or children are fighting, between husband and wife as far as possible to discuss how to resolve these problems in advance.

▲ To find your way to accept compromises. Don\'t need to wait for a problem, then debated between husband and wife. Sometimes, the compromise means that you agree on a number of things in accordance with the husband as a solution. Children need information only is both parents supported such a decision. Between you and the husband can distinguish between the responsibility of each other: mothers responsible for supervising children complete job, father to oversee the child time to eat and sleep.

Make pipe child fun (Kate-yalishanda, Ohio)

In the tube when children children cooperation, in order to not become our own rage, we came up with a way to family fun piggy. Is this the way to specific: If in disciplining children when children are very obedient, kids can put in jars and 1 cents. If we have patience when disciplining children, they don\'t listen, they must take out 1 cent from jar. Jars filled with time, children can choose a fun family event, like camping in the back yard, telling a ghost story mentioned late in the evening, or whatever they want to do it.

Find out what is you have to deal with the problem (Julie-Hamel, California)

Select child 3 things makes you the most headaches--for example, children are fighting, jumping on furniture, shouted at home. You selected your attention focused on the 3 most headaches on the behavior of the children, other children (of course, in addition to those children at risk behavior) on the side. In this way, you\'ll never make the children feel you always, oblivious of their discipline will no longer turn a deaf ear to you.