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Wife deliveries, husband mind?

The later stages of pregnancy, especially when giving birth in about, husband most like to the following questions (which speaks to you some worries and concerns, while others are deep in his heart, does not tell you):


1) men, but unwilling to say the most serious concern is the health and safety of mother and two of them, since the two people he loves, is an important part of his life.


2) see the suffering wives look, wants to help alleviate their burden, but is overwhelmed.


3) sees wife unstable, cannot understand why this is, I do not know exactly what to do.


4) do not know when his wife\'s pain and discomfort from start and when to end.


5) felt was superfluous, because his wife is the protagonist of fertility.


6) to shoulder increasing responsibility full of worry, worry about future lives will be affected.


7) worry about having a baby spend enough money, particularly afraid of mistreated children and wife.


8) is known to himself the father of somehow believe that feeling, psychologically difficult to accept the sudden arrival of a baby.


9) worried that children come to break the original life, himself from a life of the protagonist to a supporting role, as service by the service provider.


Stayed outside waiting for a message in the delivery room of husband will be the case in General Psychology:


1) see doctors, nurses and out, imagine suffering wife lying on the operating table, and was extremely nervous.


2) thought\'s on the bloody situation you shudder, and worried for the safety of the mother and health status.


3) the best time to worry about missed deliveries and deliveries, fear of surgery was not successful, what particularly worried doctor mistakes or omissions.


4) afraid to face his wife suffering, Haggard look.


5) provide a means of helping, but I do not know what to do.


6) gender of the birth of children is what you want to, but not much hope. Consolation: boy or girl are the same, boy boy benefit, advantage girls girls.


7) imagine children crying should be like, when children are out of what.


8) after brooding a smooth production should do those things, in case of bad and what to do.


Above is the negative psychological reactions to man. Of course, make them active, excited and happy about many.


During pregnancy:


1) maximum joy is the father, became a small look at the life of an object and a person who have a greater responsibility, always encouraged to make more efforts.


2) looked at his wife\'s belly day like day, will be very exciting.


3) when listening to FM, or when with his wife in the hospital and learned that everything is normal, his eyes twinkle with pleasure.


4) inform relatives and friends wife is pregnant, will soon have a new family member came out.


5) seeing friends and family to his wife pregnancy care, support, help, admire and praise, will be very happy.


6) to prepare for the arrival of the child and pre-, including physical and psychological.


His wife during childbirth:


1) shiyue pregnant, finally until the production of this moment, previously many of the concerns and misgivings vanished, there is a feeling of relief.


2) heard the baby\'s first cry, be ecstatic.


3) when the nurse the baby out, when you see the appearance of children for the first time, will be even more exciting--this is perhaps the most to his happiness and excitement of the moment, some men will delight out of tears.


4) to pass the news by phone to all concerned relatives and friends, let them share happy with yourself.


A point worth noting: long time husband and wife have been looking forward to the arrival of the baby, and to the moment of delivery, but I can\'t believe this is actually true. Juggling in decay, bewildered. So delivery is best to have a number of older, a maternity experience of relatives and friends for help and company, she gives good advice and help.

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