Wedding night for men and women differ?

Wedding first night is the beginning of sexual life, is also a deeper understanding and love between husband and wife of the most important ways, both husband and wife glowing deep love for each other and thaw to come. But because this is the initial come, usually because of some common psychological characteristics, affect the libido and sexual pleasure in varying degrees, leading to success or failure of the first night, or straw mat astringent and deeply etched in life or sweet memories.
　　
Sex psychological difference: because of the physiological characteristics of different men before marriage have a strong desire to physically combined with his sweetheart, wedding night, would easily show can\'t wait to have sex with his wife. Under the impulse to this strong desire, sometimes appear rude, rude behavior. The first time in the life of men is almost without exception, is in Active status. Women are not, who for a long time was only drunk in the spirit of Exchange and on the integration of the mind. For life, psychological sense of shyness and tension.
　　
Sense of shame. Due to the impact of traditional values and other factors, even long time love of lovers, first sexual intercourse both with a certain degree of sense of shame, and this sense of shame women and to men. Husband to take the initiative through the emotional climate of discourse and caressing break this shy, eliminate psychological obstacles of oral sex.
　　
Tension. The newlyweds first sexual intercourse, because of lack of knowledge and experience, it is not possible \"acquired\", and is prone to a self in psychological tension, such as sexual intercourse is not smooth, or because of bleeding and pain resulting from rupture of Hymen, will further strengthen this sense of urgency. Eliminate emotional interference as far as possible, learn to relax themselves, successfully for first sexual intercourse and sexual pleasure is very important. In addition, the husband be gentle, good thoughtful care, prevent gross, is even more important for eliminating new wife of nerves.
　　
The sense of satisfaction. The newlyweds first sexual intercourse, if successful, harmony, joy, you will get satisfaction, new happiness and sweet taste. If a bad or difficult to achieve, someone will have a sense of disappointment. If repeated, would even shake the emotional foundation of the perfect marriage.
　　
At this point to remind the newly married couple, due to the harmonious and satisfying sex life affected by physiological, psychological effect of several factors, not wished to achieve. Wedding night first sexual intercourse is not smooth was absent, newly married couples typically after 3-4 week to achieve the degree of satisfaction with sexual intercourse. Not because of a bad, not satisfied with the heart disappointed, not cannot complain about his wife or husband is incompetent. The correct attitude is that both sides should lower the first night expectations, by constantly sum up experience, improving methods, coordinate closely in the shortest time to bear fruit of satisfaction.