8-year old little girl Wai Chan broke his father\'s brain. Both asked her to wear clothes, wash your face is to eat and go to school, she will be conditioned as vehemently against adults will. A small thing can greatly touched her, crying, crying, swearing and wrestling thing is staged scenes at home every day, at least two or three times a day. Father attempts to discipline, Wai Chan emotion more intense, once even flushed to cry while outflow had bleeding, father does not know how to do anymore. In school, Wai Chan is also a State teacher always reflect that she is not ready to speak, do not like to answer the question. As long as the out of school, Wai Chan become unscrupulous, shouted for children also, unable to get along with. Father does not understand that a child as a child, so cute, how suddenly like that?
Whether the child screams \"says\" what? To sum up, several of the following conditions:
1, children born temperament types. Some children are active like cry some more. Poor child behavior control, sometimes called called, want to touch anything you touch something, scream of this kind are not independent, meaningless.
2, there are also some child brain development in itself a problem. Part of the brain responsible for emotion, like some child\'s temperament, others do not. But it\'s hard to check out. Attention parents should promptly consult a doctor.
3, the normal case is expression of children screaming is a cause of emotions, such as excitement, dissatisfaction. But it screams should not too frequently.
4, also caused some children to parents concerned about noise, because many parents too busy, no time to take care of the children, concern children want their parents, parents should take time with accompanying children. Lack of communication, children easily cry.
5, cry of the children may also be because pressure, likely parents themselves stress affects children or parents for children may be too high. This case depressing not to let children out there not, sometimes shouting is necessary decompression, but always so parents will be asked a why.
6, also some children\'s scream was caused by some bad habits and mental. Wang Linghua doctors talk about the case: only five years old, but very smart, good at observe. At home she is normal, only going out to the public when she knows she\'s loud behavior aroused the concern of many people, can let parents embarrassed, she can take the opportunity to require parents meet the requirements. Over time, every time out the door, Jia Jia will be shouted and raised unreasonable demands at a time.
Wang Linghua pointed out that, if a child regardless of occasion, slightly screamed, parents should pay attention as soon as possible. Especially children cried often accompanied by other problems, such as the angry, aggressive behavior, mood disorder (fear, anxiety, forcing). Guangdong Provincial Institute of mental health chief physician Yu Ruili also reminded parents that if a child cry along with the bad sleep, attention is not focused, appear of other symptoms such as hyperactivity, these children may have psychological or emotional problems. Serious emotional disturbance in children growing up develop into psychiatric problems, such as depression or anxiety. Parents in early child should pay attention to conditioning a child\'s emotional, avoid children throw a tantrum. Children with ADHD and autism in children are easier to cry.
Children scream may also be because the language barrier, so only use shouted to express. Experts remind parents to carefully observe children called out of reason on the one hand, on the one hand, induced by parents to children with language expression.
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