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Children destroyed rooms things to do

Children accepted during confinement and reflect on, the opportunity to destroy something in the room, what should I do?


To date, nature of children usually impeccable. Most of them will not knowingly destroy the room. Only very few children are disappointing. For example, if they were forced to shut in a room, it will throw things around, make room in disorder.


Also some \"little devil\" implementation of destruction is shocking. They deliberately destroyed their own bed; they put on shoes, kicked out of the pit, large and small walls. No matter what the children do, you must have countermeasures to be taken. You to be as \"preventive measures\". You can blame everyone sighs: \"Oh, God! My child is the devil incarnate! Now what should I do it? \"No, you must not be at its wits \' end. Your attitude is very clear: \"you are my children, I am your elders. I love you. But if deliberately and me, I will not hesitate to you. Tuning into your reasonable, obedient children, it is my duty. Of course, I will not ask you to make errors, perfect. If you deliberately and me on the spot, I\'m going to take penalties. ”


A few years ago, there are a couple to my clinic for consultation. In my Office, and their 8-year old son, looks are cute, do not see any unusual signs. Change in other places, there is not the case. With his words of parents, children at home or silent for a moment. He ran around, jump up, often snuck out of the House. On his feet was fitted with the pulley-like. This \"stood on the pulley of the little monsters\", parents, and even such impulsive idea: best posted his home address on the forehead. So, if he should one day run lost, can also be found people mailed back, save them to a separate \"for placing search notice\". They also often called the son \"Road King Yi Shisi\". It is clear that the couple is intolerable.


They don\'t want kids to become even more courageously. They appeal to me a good idea. So, I recommend \"magic 1-2-3\", and taught them how to use. After the home, \"King Louis\" still going their own ways. His parents then cast magic. Count to 3 by parents for the first time, and was put in confinement when he can\'t believe it. As for the parents to get him back into the room, I do not know. But just be put into the bedroom, the children act immediately--to turn the room into a garbage dump. He was pulling out drawers, broke everything down on the floor. He pulled down from the bed Pillow Towel and bed sheets, mattress spring out again. He yibuzuo, erbuxiu, aggressive open wardrobe, clothes hanging out with one another and threw them all is. Next he put toys out of the closet. Finally he gasping, Judah was not completely on the climb to the curtain. He exhausted strength great curtain pulled down.


All this to his parents about to faint. They whisper to planned punishment, or even thought of giving children in most severe punishment. Action at the last moment, their core concept during confinement, the vast majority of children do not take the opportunity to \"havoc\", was not ruined the room looked like. However in case of situations like that, you have to keep calm. Children are children! Using \"magic\", you can surrender them. Finally down quick temper, not burst forth. According to my point, they clean the room did not give their children, did not remind the children that he should be their own clean up. Anyway, their \"King Louis\" there may be recurrent power. As in the past, as long as the son of disruption, and they continue to number on the number of children. As long as the count to 3, they continue to implement the closed for the kids. They certainly didn\'t count: 2.5, 2.7, 2.9, sth This count results, will no doubt be tragic. Children were sent back to his own room, had to face in the piles of garbage.


When sleeping, he had to pick out the trash in my pajamas. He had to re-order beds for themselves, because he won\'t let myself sleep in rugged on the baseplate. Because the room is too confusing, when children go to school the next day, sometimes even the uniforms were too late to find out, look sloppy, was laughed at by partners. Soon this \"King Louis\" understand that his parents no longer, as in the past haore. If he insists all, or claims for less than what other magic strategy do cheap--parents have. About after more than 10 times the closed, finally tame the children down. When he was able to calmly reflect on when parents begin to help him finish the room. Since then, the children begin to dislike intentional disruption, and aversion to running around in the room, sick of being parents grasp the handle and number on the number of their own. The children now is very cute. He more and listen to your parents. He also performed much better than before in school. A large extent, this is because of teachers also use magic.

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