Human intelligence is a coordinating role in a complex manner, multiple intelligence theory that way for everyone to enrich their unique talents, each baby has its own strengths and weaknesses, so as long as the development done right, they are an aspect of doing very well.
4 prerequisite for raising well baby
1, give the baby a positive frame of mind
Psychologist Dale camegie the Guidebook warned us of the success of science, difference between successful and unsuccessful only a Word. Winners are positive, not successful mind negative. A positive frame of mind will have a positive action, overcoming the courage and perseverance and self-confidence, finally to be successful; negative mentality of people, their behavior is certainly negative, tend to lack self-confidence and overcoming courage and perseverance, easy retreat in face of difficulties are, complaining, naturally it is difficult to succeed. Therefore, to raise a successful baby, parent first to give the baby a good positive attitude.
2, next to the baby properly positioning
Success have different interpretations, but I think that success does not necessarily have to be the inventor of the spaceship, not necessarily to be a winner of the Nobel Prize, such a winner after all, is one of the few. The saying goes, line the very best. If a person is poor learning abilities, but he likes to cook and eventually became Super chef, this did not succeed? Successful road qianwantiao, therefore, as parents, we didn\'t have to make sure all the baby were huddled on the same difficult path, but should be based on the baby\'s intelligence structure characteristics, provide more opportunities for the baby to do their thing of interest, rather than in accordance with the wishes of the parents baby wishful constraints. Baby a happy childhood, so he really be his own, his future will be more happy and successful.
3, with a healthy psychological groundwork
To make a baby successfully, in addition to note mental structure, but also pay attention to the psychological development of the baby. Mental health is a guarantee of success. Psychology is the function of the brain, is an objective reality of the response, under the influence of human psychology is in the outside world, through the activity of the brain. Psychological process including cognitive process--intelligence factors (IQ), emotion, will and behavior of non-intelligence factors (emotional intelligence), and so on.
Health Psychology is best developed when young. 1995 United States Harvard University psychologist Daniel Goleman points out that \"emotional intelligence\" is the individual most of survivability, is a kind of emotional potential excavation, using emotion influence all aspects of life and life\'s key quality elements for the future, was acquired habit of human communication. It formed in the infant stage, stage of maturation in children, adolescents. High EQ stressed the unity of theory and practice, unity of sense and sensibility, the overall unity of thinking and dialectical thinking.
4 EQ, IQ is not discriminatory
Comparison of the IQ and EQ, IQ is the Foundation, EQ is guaranteed. To baby from a focus on cultivating non-intelligence factors of (EQ) is more important. Training ability of baby, ability for independent thinking and creative thinking, does not follow the trend of the crowd, have their own characteristics, train baby social skills and the ability to adapt to society, and so on will have a very important influence on the future of baby. Aharlis Schwab has said: \"ten baby has nine due to communication and smart. \"Let baby experience the joy of success and experience learned in frustration. Baby I believe a high EQ, IQ is not bad, and we in the parenting process, often biased intelligence factors training and neglect the development of non-intelligence factors.
Parenting outstanding baby 4 policy
1, according to the characteristics of baby aptitudes
Human intelligence is the coordinating role in a complex way, multiple intelligence theory that way for everyone to enrich their unique talents, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, seven intelligent all-round development of man is a very small number. Therefore, from this point, every baby is a potential of individuals, and only awareness and understanding of intelligence structure characteristics of baby to find baby where there is a talent or potential, to suit your baby characteristics of education and training, in accordance with their aptitude in order to maximize the potential of mining baby, raising a baby successfully.
2, the potential of the discovery and mining of precious in life
Parents can take place in everyday life to baby observation, through observation about the baby\'s uniqueness. Such as baby like drawing since childhood, when he was just doodling, and what you can see he crows like a James, what are the characteristics, has a talent for painting. So that you can seize the opportunity to create the conditions in accordance with the characteristics of baby take the individual education plan to train baby. If baby does has painting of talent, that on created conditions let baby in painting in the experience success of joy, and not non-forced with baby learn some parents think good of 4 General; if baby just like mess coated mess painting, but on painting lack feeling force, that let he mess coated mess painting good has, not non-forced with baby in accordance with the adults of requirements behave to learn painting. Baby, what kind of talent, create conditions were good in this regard by baby development well, why not to baby comprehensive development?
3, give baby set reasonable goals
To the baby not to raise expectations too high, has seen the baby after a certain effort can achieve good. If people feel that their baby is a more comprehensive, have the potential to become a dragon into a Phoenix, it may be with Jackie CHAN as a baby Phoenix standards to require, let him reach higher goals if found in the implementation process, the target for baby, too much stress, it may not achieve the desired purpose, then adjust education programmes as soon as possible, avoid harm the baby. I advocate education on baby should be \"let nature take its course, a little guidance, never pull up seedlings to help them grow. ”
4, let the baby a little progress every day
Parents do not take the baby with the weaknesses of other people\'s strengths
Than, the enthusiasm of this will virtually give up the baby, upset baby confidence. Smarter than to take the baby and the parents of his own, taking baby than today and yesterday, as long as there is progress, even if it is a little bit, but would also like to commend and encourage timely, so as to help baby to establish confidence, let him maintain a pleasant mood and positive attitude. The positive frame of mind, can have positive action. Some scholars warned us \"precious things grow slowly. \"Therefore, just try, try, try, never give up, you will be successful.
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