We all know, the family is the source of a child\'s happiness, learn the most effective in children in a happy state. Well, you know how to make the family happy for the children to add force? How to become happier parents? Perhaps the following text will give you some inspiration, and inspired.
1, take the \"praise of glasses\", thankful.
Experts found in gender relations, long marriage is a fundamental characteristic of both husband and wife are willing to openly praise the other party. Marriage is not just a paper certificate, or ring, but always have to face the choice, to express, to share, go to the show. If you can get all thankful for what, then, your happiness is very close.
If you can find children\'s benefits and praise him in time, such as when when he drew a good picture, you can praise him in time, and very specific: \"you painted dinosaurs tails are really very vivid. \"For children, this is a great gift, his face will surely bloom touching glory, to help children build self-confidence can make him optimistic attitude to face the new challenges of the future. Keep the children happy nine secret
Dinner for 2, love VS small snacks.
A life full of sincere love of children within the family is the most happiness. United States renowned relationship expert pointed out that: feast of love refers to three times a day, each time for at least three minutes to take the initiative to express love for companion, on children. Snacks there are many kinds of love: can be a kiss on the forehead, a word of heartfelt praise, a message of love small note, thanks, not many time-consuming, but fantastic. Whether meal or small snack, you have to be absorbed and concentrated sweetness, appreciation and gratitude, make each other\'s experience to plenty of \"nutrition\".
3 the humor, from small start training
Do you know? Experts in children\'s education initiative, United States many parents and even as early as the baby was born before 6 weeks will start their unique \"early humor training\". Humor is the power of infinite, around 1 year old baby is sensitive to the facial expressions of others. When he steps fell, it may be him doing a face to appease, at this point he will be playing you face smile through tears.
According to United States experts of a thematic study, sense of humor is an important part of EQ. Most of the children with a sense of humour cheerful and often more to please the teacher likes, interpersonal relationships are much better than the average child. Humor can help the children better cope with the pressure and pain in life and learning, they often have a relatively happy, also able to more easily complete their studies. To know the person\'s sense of humor about 30% is born, remaining 70% keep to nurture.
: Are you one of the parents with a sense of humor?
4, wisdom is power.
Raising children is not only knowledge, more wisdom. Every child is different, as the leaves on the trees. How to make your children maximize their potential? Wisdom is more powerful than knowledge. There\'s a story: a MOM in the kitchen washing, hearing that her son kept jumping in the yard, MOM asked him curiously: \"you are playing with nothing to you? \"The child replied:\" I go to the Moon! \"At that time her flicker for a moment, but she is very intelligent, she gently said:\" Oh, don\'t forget to come back! \"Many years later, the boy grew up, he became the first person to land on the moon on our planet, his name was Armstrong.
Getting along with your partner too, walking with wisdom, bad emotions also transformed.
United States former President Ronald Reagan in the early term, once was shot injuries, bullet in the chest, in case of emergency. In life be connected pledge, Reagan came to see the wife of the first sentence is: \"honey, I forgot to escape. \"The United States when people learned that the President was seriously injured, still has a sense of humor, convinced that he should be imminent recovery, thus also stable might be injured by the President and volatile political situation.
5, learn communication skills, learn to know each other.
Many couples \"love in my heart hard on\", poor communication between the husband and wife or parent-child, is the main cause of the problem of the vast majority of families. How to communicate more effectively? The author believes that communication is entering the other side of the channel, let know. But before the communication, to know yourself first and then to understand each other, because behind every kind of emotion that has some sort of motivation, and often has a positive motivation behind a child\'s emotional.
In the process of communication, language only the 7% efficiency, we want to know more through the facial expressions and body language, and is particularly important to infants. If the husband and wife quarreled, likely to affect a child\'s personality development, and good communication skills not only help to family well-being, personal development, establishment of contacts are useful.
Copolymerization of 6, family time is sacred.
Many people recall their growing experience, the most wonderful time tends to be family reunion time. Such as dinner time, holiday activities, which have the potential to become the most precious memories of child life. You eat is how to get along with love, children? There is an old adage might yet far-reaching: \"family dinner is a debate or talk was praised also was reprimanded, is a good measurement of gauge, it can be seen in this family is in alienating separation also is getting close. ”
No distance to each other if you want to create a happy family, that started from the dinner table!
7, a Festival of joy is a family of \"decoration\".
Study found that heart close relationship of husband and wife, often through the Festival ceremony is deepening, strengthening. Researchers come up with 120 couples for at least one school-aged children, asked about the Festival ceremonies and a sense of happiness of the family, such as \"
Do you often laugh? \"Sort of issue, results are interesting, what the whole family to do a Christmas tree, with a small decorative home accessories, or play Easter eggs hidden family, harmonious marriage relations over General and his wife.For children, happy childhood is the Festival of the most fascinating highlights.
8, happy life is a right, but also an obligation.
In a family, if a mother is not happy will not only affect the child\'s emotional, physical and psychological development, also affects the normal operation of the entire family. Some say that can sense the happy woman is beautiful. I very much agree with this view. Have a great example of two eyes glow a girlfriend talks about her husband: \"you do not see him fat, his muscles are very strong; see his bald, clever so much in the head; others are not high, but with Napoleon. \"Such a woman must be happy and beautiful life.
When we have the women \"positive interpretation of life\", optimistic view of everything that happened in my life, also have a sense of happiness.
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