Focus on children\'s mental development

Mental disorders in patients ages now getting lower and lower, less than 30 patients has been as high as 54%. Younger trend of outpatients were deeply disturbed by psychological clinic doctors, experts urge

World mental health day October 10 is the 14th, mental health day theme this year is \"mental health happy life\". Beijing friendship hospital psychological outpatient Neurology chief physician said Bai Xiaoli, now daily reception of mental disorders in patients ages getting lower and lower, less than 30 patients has been as high as 54%. Younger trend of outpatients were deeply disturbed by psychological clinic doctors, to that end, expert, and mental health is the cornerstone of a happy life, family and community must start with children and adolescents, is very concerned about children\'s mental development. For the people who have emotional disorders, in particular children, requires people to devoting more attention and help.

Bo doctor says, some parents say to doctor \"children fight sometimes deliberately playing truant, gas was nothing adult.\" It is understood that the real causes of this phenomenon is that some parents on the emotional needs of children has been \"overlooked\", even on a child\'s control, \"abuse\", and lack of respect for children, resulting in a parent-child mother and daughter while in close proximity, spen.

Some parents say, child classes frequently \"there\", attention is not focused. This is because when a child has been seen in the eyes of no surprises, novelty and happy, but helpless, indifference and sorrow. Catch up with its root causes, parents impose excessive expectations of young children, misunderstood self exists only the children make parents happy. In this way, children will not have the ability to feel happy, not going to enjoy a carefree life. Therefore, the parents, to fix some concepts in a timely manner, to lead their children to establish a high degree of self-worth.

Love children go astray

Bai Dafu to keenly aware of the advice that parents, to grasp the true meaning of love, out of the mistaken ideas of education.

Bo doctor believes that sometimes well-meaning practices would inadvertently harm the child. Parent or child to others due to various reasons, convert children or frequently rely on the relationship of trust, which will make the children grew up in a separation anxiety. Parents of young children can\'t understand with great pains, but as again and again was transferred, strengthened not cute, no one likes their own inferiority. A young being various foster care places several small a Grandma, deep feelings about this, she said that her parents never without the deep feelings for neighbour grandmother that she does not understand why the parents \' behavior, thus the concept of the family are not profound.

Bo doctor said as a qualified parents, should be good at cultivating children keen awareness, from the subtle changes in, from the p, find a problem to solve the problem. Parents must learn to read children, help children to recover and build up their confidence. Many take the child to visit parents understand their children\'s problems is the reaction of family issues, but they numb your feelings, refused to resolve its own problems, so that difficulties cannot be a final solution. Parents should understand that what the problem is occurring in the family, what should we do? Should understand that you have changed the magic power of destiny child. When you yourself from guilt, heritage free of blame and anger when you saved your child. Instead of \"I for you, for you, pay you the best schools, what do you want? \"And so on, such as similar method instead of the redemption of their devotion to the child emotionally, this is extremely wrong.

Bo doctor also reminded that the parents should learn to communicate with children, to learn how to work hard to listen to, accepted in good faith and give up commanding posture. Also learn to control their emotions. When children encounter, often expressed anger, angry, don\'t want to go to school, lack of politeness and so on, in talking with parents, the children will bring this bad mood to parents when the parents have to what you need to do, don\'t let your child frustration transmitted to you, their out of control. Often seen in the clinic so that parents, because anger led to anger than children of parents of the child, even go and swing arms.

Here, I must advise all parents, don\'t give up easily because of the child\'s emotional, maybe child is to test the tolerance of parents. When reporters asked about \"mental health\" friends of Shi, Bo doctor quite proud, he said, this is the psychiatrist of the hospital was founded by friendship, a group of people with mental health insight, as well as to the cause of Beijing\'s first mass consisting of self-help groups, has been set up to 4 years. At present, \"mental health\" friends has evolved into a warm home.