How to guide children to respect the elderly

Respecting old jingxian is the fine tradition of the Chinese nation, is the ancestors left us a valuable asset. Today, we should forward this virtue, one generation to continue.

However, in daily interactions, often find many children to old people is not respected enough. As contradicting the elderly, do not obey the discipline; with a gruff attitude command for him to do this and that for the elderly. So, how should parents to guide children to respect old people?

First, playing the role models of education.
Parents should take the lead, do respect the old leader. Children know shallow, poor judgment, lack of independence, psychology with suggestive and imitative. In their eyes, parents \' behavior is a ruler, that parents do, he will be able to do; parents what to do, what he should do.

Therefore, parents and the elderly (their parents, mother-in-law, the wife\'s parents and other elderly), care, caring attitude should be humility, courtesy, concern, such as delivering water to tea for the elderly at home, in public, to the seats to the old track. Parents \' words and deeds, children see in the eyes, bear in mind in terms of their actions, they would like parents treat the elderly. May also use hero model figures, real life and the good behavior of the characters in literary works for children set a good example.

Second, the practice in their daily lives, habit.
Exercises are effective means to strengthen memory traces only through practice to good behavior into practice, maintained for a long time. In our daily lives, adults must be noted that children from \"trivial matters\" starting with foster. Such as: often let the children help the elderly to do things, use polite language and communication for the elderly (\"Hello\", \"Goodbye\", \"thank you\", \"slow\"), concern, sympathy sick old man, and so on. Repeated training, over time, will gradually develop good habits for children.

Third, use the Festival, implied.
Using the old birthday, Chung Yeung Festival (Festival), new year and Spring Festival and other favorable opportunity, through conversation, instruction, suggests that induce good behavior. Asked the child: \"tomorrow is section XX (XX days), what should you do? How to make a grandfather (Grandma) happy? \"A child would have to be serious:\" I help Grandpa cut the cake, I wish happy birthday to my grandfather, health and longevity \",\" I send Grandma a gift \",\" My Grandpa and Grandma happy new year \"sth

IV and correct bad behavior, a stitch.
Children easily impulse, poor self-control, their behavior is often emotional control, prone, often make the elderly offensive moves, such as on the old man lost his temper, throw things, ignore, and so on. Once these problems, adults must be willing to discipline, and serious criticism, patiently persuade, make children realize the error. Especially do not let off \"first\", strictly. Accommodate more fault tolerance can only be incurred, so that children develop bad habits.

Finally, it is recommended that old people and children, promote mutual feelings.
Some children are not kept for the elderly, are indifferent, this is often very little, deep emotional reason. In intercourse, often under the parents reminded only acted with, very passive, such as for the elderly to move stool, say \"Goodbye\".

To this end, as the elderly, should be approachable, attitude kind; care for child growth, talk with the children, reduce the psychological distance for two generations, because of different interests, commanding. Only for the kids \"with feelings of\" in order to make it active concern and respect the old, consciously obey the old man teaches, and strive to be good boys they had in mind.