According to psychologists argued \"shy\" is a personality trait. This trait some people are born with; some people are affected by the acquired immunodeficiency syndrome caused by. Actually shy kids, also can be changed in the process of growing up, learning.
Shy is when kids meet strangers and unfamiliar environment, natural responses such as anxiety and embarrassment.
Child worry don\'t know how identity, how to action, and degenerate, closed their own.
Retreat and shy child active enough so that peers mistakenly thought they are not friendly, is not easy to get along with people, leading to poor social skills, interpersonal relationship is not good. More serious or even peer rejection, cannot be integrated into community life. If you have \"too shy\" or \"within\" of children, parents may consider helping children out of the shadows of life from various sources.
Understanding personality, support accept
Parents must understand the child\'s personality, and recognize the shy are natural facts, without fuss or haste. When children need parental support or assistance, given extra attention and understanding.
Encouraging breakthroughs, culture independent
Encouraged rather than force change, accept the child\'s personality does not mean that excessive protection and appeasement. When the children trying to break through, there will be a little embarrassing, at this point will only encourage more needs to be parents, and then take a step forward. As long as the child\'s behavior is slightly changed, regardless of how the performance, praising his courage and independence are encouraged.
Change by exercise
Parents at home to practice more interpersonal communication skills with the children, prior exercises conducted in a relaxed atmosphere, guiding children respond to leads, principle of life to people, make children consciously prepared to, reduce blasts panic. For example children in schools met \"came to report\" of course, parents should assist the exercise to skilled, my sense of accomplishment. If you are experiencing setbacks also knows how to be.
Building self-confidence
Children\'s self-confidence is usually founded on a pleasant experience. Parents should help children find their own expertise and features, some expertise. For example children are interested in drawing, painting tools to him, introduced him to painting and craft arts classes, performance opportunities to children.
This process is necessary to pay attention to respect for the interests of the child, parents try to avoid excessive interference or forced children don\'t like to do things, so as to avoid children\'s disgust.
Friendship of support
Too shy children make friends more easily on was hampered, poor peer relations, parents should promptly adaptability and tolerance of children from \"one-to-one\" relationship of friendship to the development of good social skills. In dealing with excessive shy child issues, not with undue haste to avoid negative of strengthening child shy to moderate boot is conducive to the child out shy of shadows, and in the integration into community life.
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