Intergenerational support is good or bad

Raising children is the basic function of the family, but how to implement it, each family varies, such as generational child-rearing in is one of a select. Mostly working families in the city, after the children, most have no time to care, or a long vacation, or a nanny, and most economic and most cost-effective assured is to let the elderly, which led to arguments: intergenerational support is good or bad. On this topic, the families of some enthusiastic readers to put forward their views.

Intergenerational support is beneficial for three generations

Guo Wei in Siping city, Jilin province readers think, generational dependency benefits in three generations have. First of all is the elderly. Elderly people tend to enjoy the life of leisurely comfort as the only standard, in fact, not. In fact, running water does not rot, cover for did. Looking after grandchildren is also a useful work of the elderly, keeping important notice \"though not to great struggle, but to a small thin\" Millennium ancient maxims. Followed by parents, young parents often face at the moment and the dual responsibility of families, children spend less time, you can put more energy for other, more meaningful to devote to more \"burden\". Again are children, many parents often bring up children on grandparents there is little love, because to a large extent caused by the limited contact between them. Generational conducive to child-rearing grandparents as soon as possible establish a family feel, this is an important aspect of healthy child personality.

From childhood by Grandpa and Grandma of Wuhan readers growing up in rural non-this indicates that, while the grandparents were illiterate, but they have a rich life experience, I know the truth in life. At the age of 7 I went back to working parents in Wuhan. In his view, the generational support has four benefits. First, the older generation to the experience of raising children, more and more young parents can ensure the child\'s health; second life experience of the older generations deep, and have the time and patience, it\'s good for their children\'s education; in the third, intergenerational support, more traditional educational content, this will reduce the generation gap children grew up with his parents, and the raising of children of the older generation special respect for the elderly.

Generational raising is not conducive to children\'s healthy growth

Shaanxi readers Yang Zhongmin, Ling Yunnan Jiangxi readers think, intergenerational support more harm than good. Carry on feudal consciousness for thousands of years, so that many elderly people such as grandchildren \"eye\", many \"little emperors\" is the grandfather of her grandmother, Grandpa and Grandma pet out. To please a child, whether right or wrong, whether reasonable or not reasonable, ancestors are all child-centered, it\'s easy to make children formed arrogant, self-righteous, effeminate: a character and quality. Their children do in every possible way, but are often concerned about excessive. This unknowingly too accommodating, easy to develop a child bad habits such as fussy.

Guangzhou readers think stars, due to historical reasons, each generation environment, conditions are different, their Outlook on life, values and the pursuit of all different, reflected in the education, tending to children also differ. Poor living conditions in the past, \"diced vegetables is a good man\", on the child feeding patterns of the older generation tends to follow the old ways, less reasonable matching of various nutrients, if challenged, they will confidently say: so not raising several children in the past?, lack of parental knowledge of science, is one of the main shortcomings in the intergenerational support.

Reader made Zhang Haiju in Lanzhou, fierce competition in the modern society, thereby contributing to the development of the child put forward higher requirements. And the elderly often conception, lack of advanced consciousness, that eat the baby clothing even fulfilled our duty, when outside the number of children attending schools such as musical instruments, painting, calligraphy, computer, English, in the industry to leave du for future study will lay.

In jiangjin, Chongqing reader MUI pod believes that education of generational lag relatively conservative, to the disadvantage of child\'s success. There is a generation gap between generation and generation, it is inevitable, different requirements for children to grow up, a different emphasis, trained child\'s qualities are different. Ancestors have education parents \' generation, and intergenerational support, natural means and methods of education is bound to cultivate a generation of similar parents, leading to similar habits, temperament, thinking this \"internal clones\" is clearly not conducive to \"waves\" the process of human civilization.