Let the children have a healthy personality

A philosopher said that in a Word, a person\'s fate in his character. Whether a person\'s life, success, happiness, decisive factor is often character, not intelligence.

United States psychologists pushed Bangladesh has made a long-term follow-up study on proof of this: he and his assistants from the 250,000 children elect 1500 better intelligence in children, their follow-up, 30 years after the children have become celebrities, experts, scholars, and others down and, begging on the streets.

Personality is a people person, on the matter, expressed on a more stable manner. Such as themselves are confident or inferiority, self-acceptance are self-denial; treat people is warm, caring, is cold and unsympathetic; treated are hard to learn and work hard, also is perdition; treat property is frugal, treasure, he wasted, and wantonly destroy products of nature.

Where hard work hard, have a sense of belonging to the power factor, self-confidence and self-acceptance are regulatory factors. These two factors is particularly important for healthy growth of the child, is like a boat propeller and rudder.

United States Psychology Home Eriksson think, children a was born if are better of care and feeding, on will on around world produced sense, otherwise will produced suspected sense; from children began crawling and walking until 5 aged this paragraph period, children performance out active exploration around world and everything are to own to do of tendencies, this tendencies if are protection, is to formation initiative and independent sexual, otherwise on will produced guilt sense and shy sense.

Many parents whose only child was young, I was overly concerned and overprotective. When a child has certain activities, parents fear that was accidentally hurt, fear of wrestling, afraid of knocking, \' everything to monopolize, do not let the children feed himself, afraid of dirty clothes, splash splash Sub. Do not let the children themselves take off footwear, too slow, too troublesome. When stubborn children insist on doing so when poked in trouble, lost his temper with parents upset, blame and scolding the children. Under this form of education, children\'s initiative and autonomy of the long-standing contusion, tend to show too much of the blame, guilt and shame, even consider myself a bad boy, being fed.

A study made by the Beijing Academy of educational science shows that 6.6% of the first-year primary school children in school, you think you are a bad boy. With a serious inferiority in school, they dare not speak in class, afraid to go to your teacher. Could have done things well fear and dare to do. Often said \"I can\'t, I can\'t do\".

These children are the victims of excessive attention and overprotective parents. Change this character education so that children can be described as difficult. To this, parents in cultivating healthy personality of the child cannot but arouse the high vigilance.