Two or three years of a child, began to have a mind of his own, is no longer the servile Goody. At this point, what had loaded in their small naodaiguaer what? How to understand some of their parents and different manners before it?
Your \"servile\" baby, now grown up start Montreal rampant small \"dangerous elements\", together with your body growth, some make you feel weird demands, wishes and capabilities. All this makes likes to control everything orderly parents began to feel a strange sense of failure.
But you also don\'t have to worry, in regulating one or two under, although you cannot change a child\'s \"live\" performance, but you can change how you view their \"differences\", here are 12 let you know more about two or three years of a child\'s behaviour and mentality of \"secret\".
1, fun, baby\'s \"Bible\"
When children at the age of two or three, thinking that life is rendered by the endless wandering tour, consisting of sweets and toys, to embrace and love. They are used to experience very simple pleasure; out, ride a carousel for the first time, went to spring for the first time. Sometimes you catch up with a two year old child when Montreal running, he would feel that they are the happiest people in the world. So they sometimes converse, wayward is also understandable, because a unhappy things may be a departure from his trip to the beautiful life, imagination.
2 boundaries, one foot in, one foot outside the boundary
Although baby has a independent consciousness begin germination, but they can easily be some new situations and emotions got out of their wits, which is often at this age. So children need parents specifications for their lives, need to have a clear and consistent information, to tell them what you can do, what not to do.
Exist to provide children with a sense of the boundary, but at the same time boundaries should also be in conjunction with age, do not expect a two year old children can keep quiet in the classroom or library, it is a myth.
3, child\'s slogan is \"Let me come on! ”
Whether it\'s shoes, strength, is also Sung porridge, in short, many everyday things always attract a small baby, want to personally demonstrate. Two or three children began to have a want of their own thoughts: as long as he had just learned to walk, that he had a \"lone world\" skills. He felt that I could do this, else not baffle me.
At this time do not use your management wishes to, whenever possible, they should let him to do it by yourself, and don\'t be afraid of him to do wrong and stop him or help him replace him even so you blocked is not just a trifle, say something serious, will kill he experienced as confidence.
4, children not only like some want to turn on special, and took
Two children under the age of imagination could surprise you, they can have their own way, and will be very happy you trust and understanding. However, when their imagination when you start to grow up, some of other feelings: such as fear, anxiety and nightmares also came. Don\'t the turns or belittle them, the fruit children need our help. If a child ghost said under the bed, then tell him that you kicked it out of the window, he can be good in bed by now.
5, \"Jung pear\" nature of non-child
Children like to play with other children of the two or three years, together with Jah, very pleased with oneself to a dance, and play games. But don\'t expect that they will voluntarily share toys, know how to share and not human innate nature. So you need to boot and tell the child to take turns to play with children, and not hegemony to grab other children\'s things, so when children will play with children, not \"game of war, be wounded in battle ended\". Then a quarrel does not let the children approach is enough--to each child\'s toy.
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