If forever means never cheating train, following strategies relating to marriage life run like make a accurate schedule. Because the marriage did not originate from the chance of success, the so-called seven-year itch is not groundless. For those married men, they need to plan for a year by year have a more valuable, not just waiting for a good life.
1th year: enjoys pleasure.
Wedding is the most wonderful time of life, married a lovely woman, what feelings do you have planned for 7. Over the years!
Hug and kiss sth
2nd year: develop House rules.
Marriage in the respective standards for men and women like each other, but strangely enough they never developed a mutually understanding and approval of the rules, contradiction is also derived from this mutually informed of tyranny and resistance. In fact, in the midst of a happy family, rules does not mean that limit, it is prompting both should bear the responsibility and the limits on the same understanding of things. Therefore, the 2nd year of marriage, you need to begin immediately after the passion with his wife developed a set of effective, both sides recognized family of articles. House rules should include: their share of family responsibilities, rational use and distribution of family property, attitude towards family and friends, their work arrangements, and so on.
3rd year: establishing household.
Head of the establishment of the symbol of a family of internal and external manners as well as the tendency of dependent spouses in the marriage. Whether you, or your wife, the goal is to have the marriage to have a solid point of support.
Prerequisites for outward, courage is not established, such as the head of household, the key lies in who is able and willing to always bear the heavy responsibility of family or engaging in endless trivia, who is more calm and rational attitude. Establishment of heads was actually a kind of family relations established, is an important premise of both men and women to maintain a balance.
4th year: appointment to the future.
Women romantic never because of age and abatement, will not give up because of the reality of marriage. A long-term dream does not need a man to woman what, but it can make them feel happy, but also to make them easier to accept the man\'s faults and deficiencies on the supply of men on marriage. You might as well try to your wife describe the beautiful blueprint for future, tell her you are planning a 1-month \"second honeymoon\", telling her silver wedding Palace under your package when the Crystal Hall of the hotel, told her that after you pay for an unskilled labourer to help her with the housework, so she can sit by candlelight and you enjoy a family dinner of sth Anything can be, as long as she feels romantic, let her believe that tomorrow will be better.
5th year: self-recognition.
After 4 years of baptism, you have no reason to blame themselves do not understand the marriage. Is the time to ask ourselves some realistic question: what is a happy marriage? What do you think the ideal of marriage should be included? What have you done for your marriage? You are not satisfied with what in your marriage? Do you strive to make your marriage happier?
You should be aware that you jumped on to the North of the train, cold weather and not as an excuse for you to escape. You are a mature married man, you should be careful to protect your marriage for themselves for the lovers to live happily.
6th year: Add, subtract, multiply.
In its 6th year of marriage you may seem Burnout, even had to rely on from time to time to read \"forbearance\" words came into the family home. But did you know? Happiness is never others simply give, it is impossible to remain complacent people. Your marriage can survive happily, but because you are lazy and Miss positive impetus. If you try \"arithmetic operations\" approach to marriage, perhaps you will learn about marriage is very interesting.
Addition: engage in new activities, break new ground. Constraints into opportunities in life. If you think something that limits you in marriage, and that things cannot change, you can be passive to active.
Subtraction: give up the life has become something you, termination of something you don\'t like.
Multiplication: expanding the exchanges and contacts and others and the life around.
Division: will you or her duties into more manageable parts, and some part of the commissioned agent.
Happy marriage varies, the road to happiness is not the same. If your problems are indolent, dull or lonely, by addition and multiplication are benefited; if you are busy all day, tired, you can improve with subtraction and Division, the most important thing is to act.
7th: happy potential investigation.
Despite being together for 6 years, but you may not know, reality of marriage and there is a gap between the ideal situation is expected to remain. If you are able to develop effectively in the 7th year of marriage in the marriage happy power potential, you will no longer be as it was now worry. The spouses can be estimated to the status of their marriage, making a score, so you can understand what your marriage is in condition to take measures to make smoke never lack happiness in marriage dynamics.
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