Baby how I had become so bad? parents good words vulgarism, carrot, why doesn\'t work? If you feel this way, then it means that the baby is secretly to challenge your authority. Why should not he do to you \"to blame an essay\", \"disobedience unfilial\", but try to figure out what is the relationship between man and man? What permissions are the adults \', which permission was a child? Between \"spheres\" is what expansion and contraction?
Tung Tung recently a bite injury has teacher, father mother injury through has brain, moment does not know from what said up, 2 aged of when Tung Tung Shang has day-care kindergarten, separation anxiety makes was badly, first week on sick has, fever live into hospital a week, father mother was toss was tired was, simply please a nanny at home care got, so Tung Tung back Park has. The small classes on time, are catching up with \"atypical pneumonia\", nature is also better to stay at home. Then \"helicopter\" Manager, Tung Tung natural odds, at kindergarten where you will be free at home? Then advised coaxed son to kindergarten every morning as a father and mother of the first \"work\". One day Dad hit upon: \"son, let a \' stone, scissors, cloth, \' I win you have to kindergarten, you win with it. \"Tung Tung natural game approach is happy result dad win, Tong Tong wept, and Dad Love:\" all right, don\'t cry, I don\'t go to kindergarten today. ”
Since then children in kindergarten has become more difficult. Over the summer, Tung Tung to class on the. The first day of school, mother to get him ready to go in the class, Tung Tung followed behind her mother, the teacher quickly with his arm to stop him, his holding arm gave take a bite of the teacher, teacher pain couldn\'t help a loud cry, laying him. MOM turned, see teacher\'s arm is bitten bleeding, busy saying \"sorry\", and let the teachers see her arm, was bitten by a son of the above packages small packets, appalling.
2 start with the parents for the children of power
Tung Tung bite bad behavior is a painful thing, of course, but more worrying is the correction of Tung Tung faced a very big problem---this bad habit of MOM and dad weak education authority. Not saying education authority of the father and mother in front of Tung Tung lost, but you can say Tung Tung in the eyes of the father and mother are \"be weak and easily bullied\", he has been used to challenge the authority of parents, and know how to make a final \"winner\".
On father this large partners,, although by do game is decided select right of a interesting approach, but Tung Tung found lost has also no relationship, can with crying of approach makes father abandoned winner of right, to to own from \"losers\" becomes \"winner\"; against mother of way on comparison simple directly has, willing to on followed mother, does not willing to on does not followed, if mother requirements was comparison tight, on take \"statement\" of approach forced mother follow own of views.
Parental status and prestige in the eyes of the children is that they accept corrections and proposed psychological basis, once the authority of the parents or shaken by \"trauma\", becomes is not smooth cooperation between parent-child relationship, the two sides also often have unpleasant.
After 2 babies begin to understand parents are with their aspirations of the different people
Before the age of 2 babies only knew that they desire, and that his desire is the desire of others, he knows adults now has his own wishes, when he feels does not meet the requirements and their aspirations when he always wanted to check that out: this is why? I could make his wishes to become my wish? I have to give it a try, therefore, his various questions and resistance are the psychological reflection of the driving forces of.
Aware followed, and crying, and rolls, and tore bite, behavior is a control people of means, yiqian of baby is is \"pure\" of, own full by physiological function of dominated, cold has, and hungry has, and wet has, only will with cries attract parents, own of physiological need meet has also on does not makes has, if also has what body outside of idea, at most is wanted to let adults on own \"Squeak\" while, now on different has, he of \"idea\" and \"mind\" more has, does not Ruyi of when and regulation bad own, so he on attempts to focal adhesion adults, if adults does not compliant own, on resorted to various \"trick\" to control parents.
From the age of 2 babies into the first period of resistance: obedient baby often becomes impatient, not obedient, naughty
Most parents know, baby first revolt of the prelude from the age of 2, may continue to 5 years old, children of this period to do everything, docile obedient baby two years ago often becomes impatient, not obedient and naughty. Do not let him do things he must do, parents of sacred education authority he would challenge. In short, began to challenge the authority of the parents is a baby found \"different people have different aspiration\" of reality, in the contradiction between self and they need to do? Not give the baby the instinct of nature, mainly to see parents what kind of freedom and the rule limits the transfer to him.
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