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9.3.11
New sex experience: phone sex
This is written a courtship is similar. First, you tell your partner how much you miss him (her), and how much you hope he (she) by your side. And then ask your partner to soothe himself, close your eyes and imagine you soothe him; when you soothe their imagination when he touch you. Conversations with each other and taking turns giving responses, occasionally describe how you feel, or tell your partner that you imagine what he is doing for you, or what are you doing for him.
Finally, make love in this way to think of each other are, perhaps, you can use the lubricant. You can with masturbation, then in full swing.
While this approach-not quite the perfect sex, but not far from each other. Remember, do not timed or you can plug in the phone, they will interfere with your phone sex, after all, this is your most secret moment.
Scientific standing-what does making love
Positive way
When used this way, man can hold a woman\'s waist, women are vacant, vagina at a man\'s penis, and then inserted mainly by men. When used this way, because men make love, you want to use a lot of strength holding the woman, psychology and strength is concentrated. If a woman is too heavy, man you want to use more force and more attention on how to hold steady above the woman. And for a man, make love penis plug itself requires a high degree of attention. Dispersion of attention causes the men weakened to control the process of making love, in serious cases, perineal stems soft, cannot continue to make love. So when you make love in such a way, relative to a man, a woman must be little point or man may rush, make love process is not smooth. In addition, when used this way, but when men hold woman, it is more difficult to insert the penis into the vagina. It is a good idea in front of the stand for love, such as in bed, men on the penis into the woman\'s vagina. And then the men and women \"as one\" bed, stand for love. When used this way, man holding a woman\'s waist. Women can hold a man\'s neck, you can have sex and men kissing, said some men \"come on\" mind. However at this time because of woman to man the total commitment of the entire body, man is more difficult. In addition, women can also be used in another way. The ground covered with a thick pillow or a folded quilt. Man holding a woman\'s waist, women body down, head to pillow quilt. To do so, due to blood flowing backwards and plug man penis, stimulation and pleasure mix, women feeling high. But this woman is not in a position for too long, or blood reflux is not a good thing for a long time. And in this way, men have a certain degree of difficulty.
Adopt positive stands for love, or both to stand face to face, man the penis into the woman\'s vagina. In this way a certain degree of difficulty. One mainly to men more difficult to insert the penis into the vagina of a woman, two even after insertion of the penis, is more difficult to control in the vaginal plug in. So when used this way, women should be slightly bent knee, legs apart, it easier to let a man\'s penis into the vagina. After the man inserts the penis, at the time of vaginal plug in, women also are keeping knees slightly bent, legs apart attitude. While men do not blindly penis jammed plug, so happy. To constantly adjust its posture, maintain penile smooth the vaginal plug in. Accidentally sliding out from the vagina or penis, that is in trouble.
Before the female after men
In this way. -Main is a posterior, man inserts the penis from the woman behind the vagina. When you do, a woman stood, before the upper body to dip, the hands can hold the knee. Because when a woman stood, vagina in contrast is lower. At this time women should try to bend down, two legs, so that man can compare well with the insertion of the penis. Men sometimes some twists and turns to find vagina on contributions. When you plug in the penis in the vagina, man can double walking with a woman\'s waist, also according to a woman\'s hips. In this way, to more easily than a positive way. When a woman stood, vaginal stimulation of the penis of men to be larger, men ejaculate more easily, require men have a certain degree of control.
Rupture of Hymen did have also continued to have sex?
Then, when that happens, what should I do?
More for the average blood loss, instantly with a clean gauze or handkerchiefs to plug in the lower vagina and vaginal mouth, tied with menstruation; packing of hemostasis or pressing with your fingers; or with a small bottle of Yunnan baiyao (37 powder can also be) cast into the wound, and then sterilized gauze plugging. Bride to clamp double side thigh, side rest, remove the gauze after 6 hours, most of the bleeding can be stopped. But should no longer have sex lives within 3 days to prevent the wound ruptured again. If the amount of bleeding a lot, or above when Haemostasis is not valid, you should immediately go to hospital for examination and treatment in obstetrics and Gynecology, do not delay. Before they reach the hospital, should still use of hemostasis, rushed to the hospital and by vehicle, stretcher or bike, do not let the bride walking so as not to cause excessive bleeding due to shock and life-threatening. After suturing hemostasis, healing is not available before sexual intercourse.
So, how should occur to prevent massive first sexual intercourse?
The crux of the problem, mainly the groom to be patient, be gentle. Should slowly insert the penis, slowly expanding too tight vagina, lift and thrust not too deep too quickly. If the intercourse is not a successful, can be graded, and note in the sexual intercourse before the bride fully in touch. Brides have to learn some knowledge, eliminating tension, can make genital fully relax, avoid vaginal laceration.
Wonder how to grasp before ejaculation tipping point
Women\'s ability to have multiple orgasms as recognized by the world, but there are still a lot of women are a one-time peak has not been, it can be said to get multiple orgasm are still a long way to go, to go through the process of study and practice hard. Men actually had no multiple orgasm is controversial.
China\'s Taoism theory and fine not ancient fangzhongshu are publicity shot, but not against female sexual intercourse, and believes that as long as no ejaculation but women are also more good physical and mental benefits both sides, or even word become immortal. This is sexual pleasure without ejaculation, known as the \"without relief\". Westerners believe that ancient Chinese people a very clear distinction between non-ejaculatory orgasm and ejaculation. Successfully mastered the technology required to reach the latter to avoid that a difficult time, so as to allow them more time to embrace, along with many non-ejaculatory orgasms.
Had the year before last to visit Shenzhen world famous predecessors of weilianhateman to the author of a book called the all men do (Anyman Can) book is actually describes how masturbation methods of training, and finally have access to many orgasms without ejaculation, the orgasm has been laboratory confirmed by the study. A very interesting question are those who claim to have multiple orgasm without ejaculation man is a person who normally masturbation without feeling guilty about. Taoists of China 2000 years ago rather than relief are from the masturbation practice is not known, but the control of access to training is clearly beneficial to many orgasms.
Some scholars point out that in the past, about 18 years old man due to the shorter refractory period after ejaculation can be when there are no weak penis completely, recovery ability to ejaculate again, so you can repeat sex, access to many orgasms.
Female orgasm is divided into the clitoris, vagina and mixed, and vaginal orgasm-also known as terminate-orgasm, with satisfaction, no longer want sex, similar to the refractory period, only clitoral orgasm to recurring, so main female multiple orgasms are directly or indirectly, to stimulate the clitoris. Of course too long time sexual intercourse can occur more than once of the vaginal orgasm. This is because women are not similar to the male penis after ejaculation weak such problems exist, you can have sex for a long time enough to drag the \"refractory period\".
Men to have multiple orgasms through masturbation or sexual intercourse in the process of continuous training, find the critical point before ejaculation, with obvious pleasure, do not stop when you reach the ejaculatory threshold of sexual stimulation, so over and over again many times, the last ejaculation, is equivalent to several orgasms without ejaculation orgasm and ejaculation. Women should get more than a clitoral orgasm, eventual vaginal orgasm, the former mainly as a means of caress in the process, which is the real sex.
Sex tips for men with the tongue
Your breath of male and female genital contact known as cunnilingus. Ancient China image compared to blowing it fungus. From the physiological and anatomical terms, this behavior has the reasonable side, because the female sexually sensitive areas including the clitoris and labia, and clitoris that can act as a stimulant to stimulate regional, can also be used as the final orgasm stimulating site.
Clitoris tender, in the case of no lubrication fluid secretion, rough finger stimulation may cause pain. Oral with can play a lubricating effect of saliva, soft, flexible tongue makes the clitoris feel extremely comfortable and enjoyable, stimulating reaches a certain level, to promote female clitoral orgasm occurs, this is very beneficial to women, to make women more input to next act of sexual intercourse. If you exclude the effect of morals and traditional values, the vast majority of women are happy to receive cunnilingus.
Cunnilingus for male role of arousing sexual desire, can fully bring the men to sexual excitement, for intuitive visual effects of female genital mutilation is the best sexual stimulation. Your good feeling was caused by contact with female genital mutilation has further enhanced the intensity of the stimuli. Woman receiving cunnilingus feelings and reactions will also cause sexual stimulation to males. For some men with premature ejaculation or ability to control ejaculation weak men, acts of cunnilingus to extend sexual life time, and the first women after the clitoral orgasm is reached, then sexual intercourse, even before the woman did not achieve vaginal orgasm in the form of ejaculation, females will not care.
Some men think that vagina are dirty, so the denial of cunnilingus, this is understandable, because there is no difference between right and wrong such acts, individual taste aversion on female vaginal secretions, so naturally not receiving cunnilingus. Can this premise of sex between husband and wife are both husband and wife to accept this behavior and the ability to get happy.
Beauty often experience the sex of the top ten
Sex can destroy 1, pressure, dissolves tension:
In the process of sex, human hormone release makes it impossible for us to feel pressure. This reaction can even last for a few hours ago, until the normal levels of the hormone level of reply to the entire body system.
2, sex can help you to sleep:
Physical efforts when sex and emotional high will be perfect engine, introducing you into sleep. Muscle tension in the excited, and reply to relax afterwards, this process is obviously conducive to rest and sleep.
3, can keep youth sex:
United Kingdom doctors and counselling of drug research center expert John s if you don\'t use your genitals, it tends to degenerate. Sex can increase the degree of vaginal lubrication and moisture the vagina.
4, can increase the confidence of:
You have a regular sex life for you and your partner is in love with each other. When sex is easy to reach orgasm will feel more attractive, improve your self-confidence.
5, can change the appearance of your sex:
When sexual stimulation and cause of adrenaline. These hormones can increase the transparency of the skin, make it look brighter thorough, who also prettier.
6, sex makes you and your partner closer, including emotional and physical:
When the relationship between you and your partner prefer good development, your sex life will be better. You can communicate to each other as well, thus more affectionate.
7, sex may relieve menstrual pain:
Sex hormone that is released when relaxation of menstrual pain caused by tension.
8, sex can help prolong life:
There is evidence that marriage happy live longer than single and divorced, and the life of a good marriage and a great relationship. Regardless of the physical and psychological, for love is good for health.
9, sex on cardiac and circulatory benefits:
Sex can increase your heart rate and blood pressure. If you have a fierce campaign can be a good exercise on cardiovascular system. Alan Smithee said, occasionally accelerate your heart rate will not have any harmful effects, which is another way to stretch your cardiovascular system.
10, sex burning calories to help stay slim:
According to surveys, a warm Kiss burned 12 calories, and the ten minute touch may burn 50 calories. Even the most sluggish sex, can burn 200 calories per hour; in contrast, if in the process you are very enthusiastic and excited, burning five hundred or six hundred calories should be no problem.
Related to sex and sleep
Answer was Yes. United States physiologists have done a lot of investigation, found that sexual life is not perfect is the cause of insomnia in some people. When a person is in a period of strong sexual desire and are not carnal vent for a long time when nervous system in a high State of excitement, anxiety, irritability, and insomnia come one after another.
That women were more prominent. This is because the male and female sexual desire, orgasm and sexuality is a large gap on the retreat in an instant. Male sexual desire fired soon, and entire can quickly reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, orgasm regression of libido and soon after. Therefore, as long as once they reach orgasm in men (even after masturbation) can sleep soon. Women are different, launch of female sexual desire to have a long process, \"platform\" and also longer, even reached orgasm after regression of libido was slow, so more difficult for women than men during sexual intercourse to achieve perfect harmony of degree, so that women more prone to insomnia. Therefore, the United States psychologists made, lack of normal sex, or sex life harmonious imperfect is female important cause of insomnia.
Therefore, the perfect harmonious sexual life to sleep promoting effects. Because passionate sex after the nervous excitement of the body to relax, stretch in the tired muscles after the meet to heart to relax after a pleasant wander. Therefore, the married couple that required a common experience of enjoying life, and then sleep with Qin, sleep together.
Man room sleeping sickness is not indifference
In fact, this is a misunderstanding. After sex, overturn sleep not only exists in the individual men, but a widespread foreign scholars call \"room after syncope\", its performance for men\'s sexual life within a short time after a remarkable sense of fatigue, drowsiness to deep sleep, different in each individual the time and performance. Previously considered sexual exertion may be the major causes of fatigue occurs in men, but recent studies have found that this lack of accuracy. United States of a item sex investigation display, sex Shi of heart rate average in each minutes 120 times around, and daily life in the of highest heart rate also can reached each minutes 100 times around, if plus some minor of activities (as fast go, short distance bike,), heart rate can reached each minutes 120 times or more high, that is, sex of physical strength equivalent to daily life in the of some manual, but also not caused so of fatigue performance. So where is the reason?
Recently, foreign scholars have found in penile erection process, enhanced levels of black pigment in the cortex. Black pigment in the cortex is the secretion of substances in the brain tissue, in normal circumstances, the secretion peak occurs at night before sleep, the main regulating the body\'s sleep, the people have a sense of sleepiness in turn promote human to sleep. A few years ago, United States also developed a synthesis of this type to promote sleep drugs, worked very well, this explains the phenomenon mentioned above. Penile erection in the process, this should be a night to sleep ahead of black pigment in the cortex of increasing phenomenon occurs only when there, equal to men in sex at the beginning of taking a \"sleeping pills\", coupled with a certain amount of physical exertion, sex after the whirring sleep it is not surprising. Therefore, women should not be this due to the indifference of her husband.
Need to be reminded of is that it is because of this phenomenon is the emergence of a physiological reaction, so must be avoided in everyday life and afterwards engaged in the work of the high concentration of attention needed for a short time, such as driving, because a high degree of sleepiness people driving on the road, the danger is obvious.
Too attached to sex frequency formula no need
To 30 people, for example, his (her) sex frequency should be \"3x9=27\", that is 7 times within 20 days of life, about once every 3 days.
The afternoon of October 24, pace, in the Hall of Chongqing University of medical sciences, Professor at the China Society of Xu Tianming made a wonderful speech here. His speech, he details a sexual frequency formula. In more and more people have the courage to talk about sex, but sex frequency is declining today, this formula makes many people feel, there is a need to revisit their own lives.
Frequency formulas have a certain scientific
Professor Tsui mentioned the sexual frequency formula is long overdue, it is a foreign scholar based on the effect of age on ability to make a reference formulas. Calculations, as long as their own age ten-digit multiplied by 9, derived from the product of ten-digit number of days that a sexual cycle is continuous, while the single digits for some sex frequency.
To 30 aged of people for cases, he of sex frequency should is \"3x9=27\", is 20 days within to had 7 times sexual life for health, about each 3 days a times; more than 40 aged people of sex frequency should is \"4x9=36\", is 30 days within had 6 times sexual life, about each 5 days a times; and more than 50 aged of human \"5X9=45\", is 40 days within had 5 times sexual life, about each 8 days a times.
2004 China Society of sexual medicine and Chinese medicine man and Science branch of the IPCC common in Sina online for more than 40,000 males aged more than 26-40 of doing surveys show that their average sexual frequency of 6.48 per month. The results and evaluate basic line of the formula, so this formula is a certain scientific.
Frequency of the frequency of old age when I was young
Nevertheless, the designer used a formula to calculate the number of times each month sex life, this would seem less scientific in the eyes of many people. Because sexual life is a love which, to a large extent by passion and strength around the matter, could not follow the rules of restraint. Professor Tsui also said that in addition to reference formula, their feelings are most important.
Indeed, for many tired by life, work and the frequency of sex who dropped considerably, to achieve this formula requires sex frequency is indeed a difficult trick. However, medical research tells us that the frequency of intercourse can often determine when the young old frequency of sexual activity during the period.
In other words, if you like when you\'re young as formula calculation, a larger proportion of sex life, then to the old stage, his projections of demand of not less than the above formula. But if the young sex frequency is low, then to the elderly, of the calculation formula will not reflect its activities.
Three elements are the root cause
Sex frequency formula to reflect the capacity of, but to think low libido problem, but also to seek a decisive love frequency of root causes. From the physiological point of view, decisive love frequency of three elements:
Feelings. On the partner\'s feelings are determinants of sexual strength. If he (she) is no longer interested in, and even full of resentment, libido is not high.
Mood. A depressed, all the people living in stress, anxiety, difficult interested in sex because sex needs passion and relaxation.
Age. Research shows that male sexual desire between the peaks in 18-25 women between the ages of 35-45. Since then, sexuality inevitably weakened.
Cannot be attached to frequency
Once the frequency formula calculation results with your sex sex frequency is very different from, do not worry. United States study of famous author of the book of the life of the plan, said: \"you\'re not wrong, because the frequency of sexual intercourse is correct according to your preferences. ”
If husband and wife in different ages, sex frequency is likely to be inconsistent. At this time, the couple should understand and support each other. In fact, sexual frequency formula reflect not just the frequency of sexual intercourse. Health sex including masturbation, sexual dreams, without sexual intercourse sexual climax of the play, and other, all of them can lead to orgasm experience, so it should be considered within the frequency of sex.