Guiding children engaged in working in the past that children of parents how much weight, but that children\'s participation in the process. Although some of the children in adults eyes trivial simple household, such as finishing newspaper, buy a bottle of soy sauce, wipe clean the table and so on, but for a child is of great significance. Children in the process of doing the housework, housework skills not only master the simple, develop good work habits, and conducive to the cultivation of sense of responsibility and a sense of obligation. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the use of domestic work to educate the children.
First, assigned to the child can do the housework
Characteristics of parents should address the child\'s age and physical condition, assigned to the child can do the housework. In General, three or four year old child can do some newspapers, such as finishing work of MOM and dad brought slippers and other simple labor, but the thing is to let children observing adult labour and work, such as MOM\'s delicious meal, father of drag-and-clean floors, desire to inspire children to do the housework. Four or five years old child can do some of the more regular housework, such as cleaning the room when he wiped the table and Chair, let him retracting at table tableware, children gradually realized in doing good things. Child labor skills of raising the age of five or six, you can let them finish the housework, such as ears and chopsticks, ears handkerchief. Assigned to the child the housework, be sure to pay attention to safety, some dangerous thing, especially with respect to the electricity, gas, water and other labor trying not to let the child do, and also on the intensity and time should not be excessive and too long, so as not to make the children tired or afraid domestic labor.
Second, transfer to child-related work skills
Doing the housework needs to acquire the relevant skills, the parents should be patient and detailed explanation and demonstration for children, the children learn how to do it and why do. Let the child table, to teach children to roll up their sleeves to avoid wet clothes; told the boy wash cloth without water is sprinkled all over, in order to avoid slipping; should be along one direction, put to the whole desktop; after the wash cloth to be hung. So while the model side explained, let your child see understand, he will learn to do, and gradually acquire these skills.
Three, and children doing domestic work
Of the child is prepared to with his family to do the housework, such as trim vegetables washed dishes together with my mother, your stack of clothes, and clean the room with my father, finishing plants; dumplings with my family for the holidays. Working with parents and children, can increase the interest in child labour, harmonious family atmosphere, close parent-child affection, but also fostering children\'s cooperation spirit. When working with children, parents should set an example to their love of labor of love to infect children, set a good example for children. At the same time, parents should also observe the child labour situation. Due to the poor children self-control, coupled with the work itself is a hard thing, so child labour interests easily transferred, often doing things cannot be A friend in need is a friend indeed. Parents should remind the child in time, and help the children overcome the boot child conclusion through domestic labor.
Four, on child labour to be commended and encouraged
On child labour to be commended and encouraged a positive reinforcement. Children very much hope that their work can be accepted by the adult and certainly, the parents should be sure children work in a timely manner, enthusiasm for protection of child labour. But because of the limited capacity of children, of doing things are not perfect, sometimes even good intentions bring about something bad, on this, the adult must not ridicule or berate, but in recognition of merit on the basis of the requests for improvement. \"Today was clean sweep-sweep, is to forget to sweep in the corner, tomorrow you will certainly be more clean sweep. \"Encouragement of child domestic labour, should be encouraged with the spirit, but not exclude appropriate material rewards, a child like toys, a good book, could make children happy for further experience to bring labor. But, material rewards not abuse, with more has on lost has attractive, and material rewards not abuse, with more has on lost attractive, and material rewards not promised in children labor zhiqian, and should placed in children after hard efforts better to completed has a item labor zhihou, such on not makes children think is to are a things talent housework of, they on domestic labor of obligations sense on does not was weakened.
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