Internet entered \"isolation generation education\" 4 a Word, we does not difficult found such a group data: currently, Shanghai 0-6 aged of children in the has 50%-60% belonging to isolation generation education; in Guangzhou, accept isolation generation education of children accounted for new definitions today, of half; in Beijing, accept isolation generation education of children up to 70%; in lanxi, by progenitor parents or grandfather grandmother with of children also number many. And the younger children, and the higher the proportion of grandparents living with.
During the early childhood is the key to physical and psychological development of children in recent years, many people began accusing the intergenerational education, think generational many negative impact on education to kids. Facts as if as some media have said? It is understood that the long-outstanding United Kingdom mathematician, philosopher Bertrand Russell, nearly won the Olympic gold medal Liu Xiang are the generational models of educational success of children. Thus, generational education may not be the one destined to lose the \"battle\", as long as the note method, will give children a better future.
Advantages of generational education
First, the generational parents to grandchildren with affection and love, are any institutions or nanny is incomparable. They have plenty of time and effort, and willing to sacrifice for their children, which will benefit the child access to psychological support and emotional stability, disarmament for parents to worry about.
Second, the generational parents in the upbringing and education of children has a wealth of practical experience.
Again, the high divorce rate in the city so that many children grow up in single parent family, generational parents could well make up for this absence of gender roles in the family, which has a positive effect on gender awareness of child health.
Disadvantages of generational education
Intergenerational education, reduce the burden on the young parents, but the old man with children, various malpractice can also occur. As many isolation generation parents see shall not children was criticism, and scolded, more alone beaten has, was too tolerance and protection of children, more easy habit bloody wayward of character; many to children long-term to the elderly care of parents found children and own does not parents, and indifference; some elderly fear children problem, strictly control children of action, does not let children run, and jump, results bound has children of hands, delaying has children of development, even hinder has children of cognitive and so on.
Check leakage filling \"three-win\"
Whatever shortcomings exist, mind is always a simple kind of intergenerational education. Therefore, as long as healthy growth of children as a starting point, two generations of parents to work together \"checking leakage filling\" generational education will certainly be able to do better.
★ Check leakage: some overly doting on children for the elderly.
Filling: young parents to communicate immediately and the elderly, reminded the elderly that attitudes towards children, help the old man loves but doesn\'t spoil children.
★ Check leakage: intergenerational aging parents may conception, knowledge, influence children receive new knowledge.
Filling: generational parents not to blindly superstitious experience, should be good at listening to the views of young people, through books, TV shows and training awareness idea, keep abreast of the times in education practices and ideas.
★ Check leakage: intergenerational education easily lead to young parents and parent-child relationship faded.
Filling: However busy one\'s work, and parents back home to accompany the child, keep abreast of the situation of children in kindergartens, schools, and children to share ideas, make children feel the love of parents.
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