Allow children to make their own choices

Many parents are \"for the child mind\", and many parents pay more attention to children in foreign countries made their choice.

In the United States born little Tony grew up fascinated by car, parents to let him keep this hobby, always try to meet the needs of his collection, often to buy him back to a wide variety of toy cars, they think this hobby is very favorable to his growing, therefore strongly support him, and to share this happiness with and children. One day, Tony go shopping with my mother, mother to buy him a new blue \"car\". With car excitedly Tony and MOM walking home, no sooner had the door, neighbors Bob and Mi Li about his children to play, mother told he never lost the car. When the children happily returned home, hand car was gone, turned into a small cartoon pictures. Mother very angry, really wanted to immediately called to the children, but she forced her biting back and calmly to the children about the car\'s whereabouts. It turns out that Tony children see a play has a picture of the same cartoon pictures, hearts also want one, he lived another child of persuasion, car and somebody in the hands of a card, home, a and he is for his other children the same card and happy. Mother blamed the child, but quietly said: \"this small card is so exquisite! ”

A few days later, when Tony to his beloved car formed when rows to admire, MOM aside and said: \"If the blue car also came in with them, nice! \"Until then, his mother to the son shows cartoon pictures and the value of the car, should the vehicle for card issue and by the children themselves to thinking. Here, mother while very distressed children lose the car, but she respects the child\'s choice. She did not go to scold the child, to avoid children embarrassed, nor forced child automobile back, when children understand the value of the car and card and two things for themselves, what is more important, maybe he will be back to automobile, maybe he won\'t do such \"silly things\".