Around us United States friends and families who have children, almost every family on Saturdays, Sundays are arranged to \"full to the brim\". Our good friend Dr alaixiou has 4 children. Her children are from 3 years old to participate in gymnastics training. Such a small age, of course, learn what is simply learn the turn a somersault, raise their hands, bend bent over or something. Sometimes simply let the kids continuously jumping on the trampoline. But alaixiou have never let your child is absent.
Dr alaixiou and take the child to learn skating. See three or four children learn skating very interesting. First child put me in at all on the ice, coach on a plastic Pier to each person, to let children hold the walk on the ice. A season train down, most kids are learning to skate.
When children grow up to four or five years old, started football training. In this age, in different seasons, there is softball, swimming, basketball. Throughout the year, spring, summer, autumn and winter of each sports season, every child must attend a, or campaigns.
Last year, Dr alaixiou\'s largest child aged 10, minimum of 3 years. In order to bring the child to participate in training and competition, she and her husband Gu Ruike busy as a mess. Almost every Saturday, Sunday was spent in various sports. Even so busy, she and her husband have also volunteered to serve as a great daughters softball team coach, small daughter and younger son\'s football team coach, son\'s basketball team coach of sth
Most American families, pay attention to children\'s sports preferences and development does not aim at cultivating sports stars. I had discussion with Dr alaixiou this problem.
I asked her: \"do you think your child will appear in one or two sports stars do? ”
She is the doctor of physical movement, on this road are studied. Her answer was simple: \"based on their physical condition, is simply impossible! Children take part in sport, to their personality, physical, intellectual, coordination, self-esteem, and so on, there are benefits, benefits for life. ”
Dr alaixiou and her husband Gu Ruike on cultivation of children\'s sports, reflect United States social value orientation of a general State of mind: it is robust to the United States, advocating strong physique. This value should be said that originated in ancient Greece culture. Ancient Greece aesthetic standards of the people, is based on the robust for the top of the POPs. Modern inherit and carry forward the Olympic spirit of the idea. United States as a modern developed economies, from a socio-psychological level, also fully accepted this view.
Due to a \"strong wind\", and the sport in the United States has a special status in modern life. Take a look at United States youth community for \"cool\" understanding is shown.
In United States schools, academic achievement, however good, if sport does not have any expertise, you can only include NERD---\"neural class book worm\" ranks.
United States men, are often proud of them, pieces of uplift on the arm muscles. United States girl body strong pursuit of no less than boys. Different is that they like is slender limbs, plump breasts, the strength, speed, flexibility and no less than boys. Body strong, bring self-confidence and self-esteem.
Chinese kids \"play\" less and less time
And the United States, and Japan compared to other developed countries, I noticed a very strange phenomenon in modern Chinese society. One hand is a modern \"life is motion\" way of life of Chinese adults and the elderly community. \"Movement\" has become more and more older persons, adults an integral and important part of life. However, on the other hand, it is traditional \"gentle atmosphere\" prevalent in the lives of young people in China. \"Sport\" is the Fuke, is one of the most important subject.
Some people have done surveys, found that more than half of the students \' learning time out, lack of sleep, in addition to physical education, in the time spent on training of pupils in school average less than half an hour a day.
In the eyes of most of the teachers, parents, learning should be a child\'s \"job\". Young people \"of the gentle wind\" is worth a year for one year. Children increasingly younger age of wearing glasses, \"sprouts\" build growing number of children, children\'s sports \"like\" less time for sports activities, even for \"play\" less and less time to sth
Why is there such a situation it? \"Sport\" of one-sided understanding, should be an important cause. \"Sport\" still at \"the movement of non-exercise for the purpose of\" understanding level. My child is from no big disease. Or for children to eat better, have it repaired on the line. Don\'t have the so-called \"sport\". It can be said that this is a very common attitude.
In fact, \"sports\" in \"body\" including physical strength, fitness, body, and so on. It contains more than just your physical health, also includes personal state of mind, psychology
。 Sport is promoted by a spirit of vigorous competition, an indomitable fighting spirit, an open and enterprising spirit of innovation.Compared with domestic peers, United States child and not only learning achievements in, or on the first evaluation of location. In their evaluation criteria, a person\'s independent spirit, self-esteem, willpower, face struggle, competition, and so on, there is an extremely important position.
\"Eliminating competition\" realize many things
United States only to high school Interscholastic football game between. Can take part in the school team, unlike domestic determined by the physical education teacher or coach, but fully respecting every \"social people\" equal competition rights: that any child can enroll, but finally can stay in the team, you see if you can use called \"eliminated competition\" testing.
High school boys football team can as a very important matter. Friends of mine and his junior maide, c in order to attend school football team, has long been ready to participate in the \"Elimination of competition\" test preparation.
\"Eliminating competition\" to begin July 16. The sun beats down, but to participate in a variety of sports teams of trial training by the bustling. I am wearing shade hat, also to withstand heat, drilling under the shade of the trees, wife is simply to stop teaching building over there.
School football team to assemble a, b, c, is generally by age and skills unit, but in order to encourage competition, lower body, good technical players, can also be \"promoted\" to the senior team, each team needed 25 full player, but about 200 people participate in the trial training.
First Central school run might have 1500 meters, a lap down, mine run, in the Middle: followed by three groups of 400-metre race, mine is better than the average and then four half-way-run 100 meters, mine is also good, about four, between the fifth place. I think probably almost a bar, watching the children tired the sample, the crooked one, endurance speed is known, the eliminated who\'s who eliminated. Who knows, trial training does not end, and two rings the school run, three groups of 400 metres, four groups of half-way-run 100 metres sth This round down, straight look appalled me, thought should end it. Absolutely is not material, and the third round sth
I do not see his face, anyway, his wife\'s face was pale. With children collapsed on the field, cramp with children, have children vomiting sth I really want the children to call back, not to try, the team also is not the end! But through this huge Stadium, under the eyes, called back---the first child or are active people who retire but one by one, and it is difficult to resolve.
Son, I don\'t understand it, the teacher is not selected you are on your own, to fall back, and there is room for! Furthermore, this is a little Rooster a group of boys \' schools, and failed to make a young go through fire and both beautiful and gentle eyes of sth
Finally, how much children ran, we do not have children remember it. I\'m confused. Watch face was ghastly pale, turn turn son, heart pain! Really want to verbally advised him, but his son did not return, I couldn\'t say. So, I turn Waner: \"those running behind, have looked at there is no hope, why not just back?! ”
Son didn\'t look at me and said, \"Dad, pulled out and selected is not different, you can quit the football team, or you can quit the tennis team, back to back, where you can return it? No to the last minute, who will also have the opportunity. Ran in the previous or next, is not it?! \"These words, I had never told his son about. Is he in this opportunity, competitive United States society \"understanding\".
Chinese traditional respected scholars, is \"gentle\" and \"civilized\". Scholars of \"gentle wind\" is a positive image. When some parents boast of his son to me, is to use \"play wind and string instruments can be broken\" to describe the child\'s \"cream\" and \"bainen\". Facing the challenges of modern society, we keep our \"an inexperienced youth\" are robust?
We need not only a man\'s body, and even man ownership, self-esteem, willpower, face struggling, competitive attitude. To cure \"gentle\", need to reinvent the---starting from the day when our child is born, as they provide a lot of \"growth vitamin.\" This \"growth vitamin\", is a variety of sports games.
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