Baby you want to buy this buy what

Letter from Qian Liu

Performance now 23 months in my family, I and his father often took him to the store or supermarket to buy things over the weekend. However, little performance see toys often come to play, to buy, to ordinary supermarket 忙活a kept, what is put into the cart. And he said not to listen, and sometimes even lying excuses; really up to, he hurt to cry, made us feel embarrassed, not knowing other mother this is the case, what is?

Imperceptibly, avoid \"directly\"

My son has just started to go to the supermarket, is also in trouble. Always he took, I turned back, but his father patience, often at his side on, son to carry something, or are interested in what when carefully explained to him what it is, what, do we need to buy, and so on. Now, sometimes I go shopping with son, his education me, don\'t buy this, waste and the like. (Hefei panpan mother)

Resist your baby\'s lying behavior

I think sometimes the child is not what you want to buy is not available, parents began to severely declined, child psychology, or after the lie because MOM and dad before, you can get what they want to. As long as slowly teaches, the kids a little bigger is better.

But the baby is lying is should not be tolerated. When he was through normal channels cannot meet the aspirations, and baby naturally try to go \"heresy\", and once after you taste blood, is likely to let the baby develop to achieve their goals, lie or unscrupulous bad habits.　If your son is found lying behavior, be sure to harsh suppression, child by lying to achieve purposes must not be allowed, but the baby\'s reasonable requirements are also to meet, does not meet to clarify the truth. (Jinhua Fan Ailin)

Fight \"against\"

My daughter is 3 years old, before this. Always around you, or tears watching you, make you buy are not available. Later, before I took her out at a time, lay the \"against\", clearly want to go to the store to buy something, go out to obey or later does not take her out. In this way, she even if what you want, will also be convergence, once you do not agree, she cannot act shamelessly, because after the fight out of qualification! (Haiweiwei on Ma)

Disperse the baby\'s attention

A good friend taught me, if children wander in the toy counter does not take it, you can try other delicious temptations or condition he, for example after going out to eat ice cream and the like. Children are very smart, he knows you not to buy him a toy, but can eat ice cream, generally insist on for a while before they are compromises. (Beijing Coke MOM)

Appropriate cryogenic treatment

Children of this state of affairs often grates on me before, one time, Feng Feng in the market must buy a remote control car racing, say not to listen to, my pique, they threw him out in front of the counter, find your own way. We have lost, anxious I turned round. After the broadcast, I found my son.

Parents are stricter, but cannot take extreme methods. In shopping malls in the cryogenic treatment or go home after the cold treatment is appropriate, or is likely to give their children leave shadow hearts.