Once one day suddenly found children experiencing problems, parents felt bad thing finally came. They are pushed to the responsibility of all children, to vent anger on children. In fact, it is not fair, because their parents do not have to provide them with necessary sexual education.
With the development of society and open sex education for parents of children should be referred to the agenda. Indifferent attitude is no longer ashamed of problems and lie, but relates to the healthy growth of children can be major problems.
What about the children of what kind of feeling?
Modern psychological research and a lot of experiments showed that after the birth of the child will have the pleasure of the flesh. Although the ways and means of access to physical and functional pleasure of infants and adults are different, but with natural features, don\'t feel a day come upon us. Psychologists believe that child care ready to be touched, such as itching, cuddle and Kiss, which have significant components with instinct of color.
Children to the age of two, will feel that their excrement is fun, this is a very common phenomenon. Some young children after Isaac urine will hold small branches on the urine is zoned to cross out, he did not think manure ugly, bad, sometimes proud.
In such cases, some parents will be reprimanded or blocked out loud children. Because of the genital and excretory organs closely, parents of rudeness may cause the child sick of his body and body products, leading to sexual sense of mystery, crime and mental disorders.
But he will not give up on exploration, but without his parents secretly continue with it. With this sense of mystery and crime, once you have the opportunity to get rid of parental controls and monitoring of children will without the proper guidance on could have avoided a wrong road.
As the body of a child growing up, he will find that genital mutilation is most easily lead to pleasure place. Parents attitudes on this issue should be: recognizing child find facts, he could get the pleasures of the flesh and not feel guilty. Children need parent\'s guidance at this time, let him know that pleasure is without prejudice.
If one day, girl found her clitoris certain special feelings and told her mother, mother should Frank expressed confidence and agree, to impose warnings don\'t make a fuss.
Mysterious attitudes strongly influence of parents on children\'s psychology. On sexual knew little of parents education out of children, because was does not to correct of guidance, psychological Shang often to bear huge of pressure, in parents of attitude and body of facts Zhijian, psychological Shang contradictions numerous, eventually, or breakthrough parents of ban, keep with parents bold attempts to; or abide by parents of admonished, on sexual holding errors of attitude, serious effect character of development and interpersonal exchanges, character solitary, difficult to gregarious, to effect intelligence of development.
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