In some families, children in front of Dad very submissive, obedient, and when the mother is asking a child to do things and the child then tumble, do not listen to mother. To change the children of this bad habit, parents should do the following:
1, parents should educate children. Education is the common responsibility of parents, fathers children plays an irreplaceable role, so fathers should help mothers to analyze the cause of children spoiled and disobedient, measures, in line with the coordinated education, good children.
2, parents grasp the sense of strict and tolerance.
Strict father to children should be, but is not equal to severe does not mean that we put on a solemn face, reprimanded at every turn, as well as children seem daunting, Backoff alienated. It is the father of Yan, which makes children prefer to mother spoiled. If the mother is distressed, take their children, are easy to make children develop bad habits.
Mother of the child cannot be pampered and indulged, mother of love should be modest, measured, sensible and unreasonable demands on children without principles, never compromise or concession.
Parents should change rearing, without Li, Yan and love; and mother shall be done in love, love without drowning. Hold the propriety of strict and tolerance, in favour of children good habits training.
3, mothers should establish authority.
Prestigious parents were children of a high degree of respect, trust firm and cordial attachment, to follow their persuasion and convincing. Children are not listening to my mother, because her mother in front of the children lack credibility. To establish credibility, mothers must be strict requirements on the basis of his love child, regulate his conduct refused his unreasonable demands. When the child is threatening to cry, to down to ignore him, willing to let the children eat, it\'s good for the kids good behavioral habit forming.
4, mother not father to frighten children.
Some mother children afraid dad, when a child is disobedient, often says: \"your father comes back up you!\" Frighten children will only diminish the mother in this way the children\'s place, the loss of prestige, but won\'t do much good.
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