Xu Bo is a second grade student, corporal punishment in response to parents \' education, he took great pains. Shortly before the school left language simulation results, the more was Xu Bo do nothing. When he thought of his father is about to shake up the whip and mother severely scold the sound, a chill cannot help the heart. After a series of measures for the brood Xu Bo out a not approach, while the last few days of rainy weather, white shirt he was wearing thin, fully in outdoor shower of rain in the afternoon, this mode of working that night, Xu Bo high fever of 39 degrees Celsius, this way not only no corporal punishment by his parents, also enjoy unprecedented first-class treatment.
Reporter\'s visit, found that children like Xu Bo, in order to evade parental corporal punishment, and select some unexpected moves there, and even some children will make runaways, suicide and other extremist acts. Chinese people often say, \"no not lumber, sticks out under education. \"This is a valid, let Your Advice Please consult education stakeholders.
Sticks is not a means of education
Mr Luk is the head of a large shopping mall, in chat when children should play, he said to look like a pair of very experienced, \"fight, of course. At home children are listening to me, I won\'t generally corporal punishment of children, but let him remember. \"Remarks to observe are creepy, believe that the child was playing even more horror.
Changjiang road, Hefei, Vice President of the second primary school Yang Lixin believes that better not corporal punishment of children, from the perspective of human nature, beating is an act of violence. Children were playing, often more of a fear, it\'s hard to understand error prejudicial to the child\'s physical and mental health. Parents and children, if lack of communication, Exchange, and often with a stick instead, the consequences would be unthinkable. Education experts have noted that \"children grow up is to constantly make mistakes. \"Dr principal said,\" when the children make errors, parents should lower their identities to communication with the children, on children to be full of great compassion and patience to understand him. Empathy, children know you made a mistake, psychology is also very scared. ”
Academic achievement is not good, not playing
\"Corporal punishment because of the decline in school children, is totally undesirable. Such behavior, not only failed to reverse the learning achievement of children, but lack of confidence will allow children to learn more, final loss of the will to learn. \"Hefei 50th middle school teacher Zhang bin said. In his view, should not, in principle, corporal punishment of children, with the growth of age, if the child has two cases, first, stealing, truancy and other moral issues and second, award-winning teach offenders, reason not to listen to, you can take moderate corporal punishment in education. Children encounter corporal punishment Hou, mood natural will is low, at this time parents to society improve own of emotional, by Yin go fine, placed low tone tried to and children communication, language Shang to encourages mainly, as \"you usually performance are quite let we satisfaction of, can this you of practices too let we disappointed has sth sth\" by correct boot let children slowly know and awareness errors, reduce on parents of hostility. If necessary, you can also use schools and the media, for example, children long addicted to Internet cafes, parents are welcome to get in touch with teachers first, cutting off their source, let the children don\'t have the time and opportunity to the Internet. Recycling newspapers and on television on the Internet reports of adverse events, to make reference, reason.
Finally, the teacher would also like to remind parents to \"not to teachers ask you to come to school, would take it that the child has to fry your face, child meal without forethought corporal punishment, which not only caused tension in the relationship between teachers and parents, is an invisible injuries to children. ”
Correctly treat \"age errors\"
Unity Village kindergarten director Tang Shuying stated that \"1~3sui of children has changed very much, parents should promptly correct guidance, is particularly important, blindly stick education is clearly inappropriate. Some parents in a bad mood, playing children, play of light may be the children forgot, heavy, child will produce dissatisfaction with parents, opposite emotions. In such cases the parents want to ease the atmosphere, maintaining equal manner, to apologize to the children. \"Tang Director said,\" for children of different age, committed errors to take a different attitude. Behaviors of young children, may not all be wrong. For example, kindergarten children push or gave other children, it is not out of a malicious act, but he (she) friendly way, its meaning is I want to make friends with you, to play together. Because of this age children are unable to use language to express clearly their intent, so only use actions to express. If parental corporal punishment of children, it is not. ”
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