Don\'t trick your children

Spoofing is a means of adult story children. Some adults were children unruly, frequently to keep on at delicious, fun or children interested in things or things to attract children to get out of trouble and children to endless entanglement. For example, children crying to go to work with my mom, mother says \"don\'t cry, MOM came back from work to bring you delicious\"; when her grandmother, entangled with the children to be my grandmother tell stories, Grandma said \"don\'t make, Grandma takes you to the Park to play later\" and so on. Child was attracted by the good wishes, do not cry nor making noise, had become stable and docile, child looking, waiting for sth However, adults without taking himself seriously to heart, even no intention at all to realize their promises, and just saying, think child small, trick that\'s OK, after a while the children will forget. This spoofing practices on the child\'s physical and mental development of children is harmful.
Trick of cheating nature boy is foolish, but deceive not. Because behavior and moral quality in early childhood period, children are good at imitating, deeds children not only in the eyes of his parents, but bear in mind, and to their parents \' words and deeds as their learning by example. Therefore, parents always, always gather together his words and deeds, not because children inadvertently stain their own pure soul. Educator makalianke once said: \"the requirements of their parents, parents respect for their own families, parents guard of their deeds; this is the first and most basic method of education. \"Parents are the first teachers of children, child on parents unlimited trust and love, in the eyes of children, parents are the most trusted, they mean, authoritative. Therefore, they are not only willing to listen to your parents, but also to do as parents. If parents deeds, will makes children disappointed, especially 3 aged around of children was parents what of fool Shi, they will was grievances, and angry, even will temper, and and parents confrontation, will said parents \"you lie, you lie\", to lost on parents of trust, time long has, not only spoof of means will failure, and children also will imitation parents and habit lie of problems, dang parents then to criticism education children Shi, he also will to criticism accused parents, this is most sad of, corrected up difficulty also very large.
Therefore, parents must not trick the children, when wayward children, entanglement, offer all sorts of unreasonable requests, should adhere to positive education, conciliation, persuasion, implied, and incentives to ignore distraction, actively guide or take temporary \"cooling\" and other methods to deal with.