Easily handles small problems

Children will always be big is small, say small is not small \"problems\", as a parent, would you do? head? sigh? anger? call? is not necessary to raise a big Rumpus-

Easy to deal with these \"xiaomao disease\"

1, play far

When children play too excited, sometimes get carried away, are difficult to control.

Strategy-

Cold treatment: If the child was playing in an event too excited to quiet down, then proposed he moved from one place to another place quiet for a while.

Warning: for excited children due to trick or treat, you can calmly told him that only he calmed down, to enable him to continue playing.

Flattered, you can also give recognition to activities he is doing, and then quickly lead him to a more quiet activities.

Migration: you can say: \"I am happy with your active enthusiasm, but we have to take a break, let us lay down, imagine we have become a cloud. \"Then it is best to let the children work with you to take a deep breath.

2, no interest

When a child in a bad mood, have no interest in all activities.

Strategy-

Attention: pay close attention to children, through watching, hugging, holding hands, to express your love to him.

Encouragement: under his eye, said on his activities to encourage. If he is a little frustrating, you can encourage some aspects of his, such as the efforts of willingness to participate in activities, activities; if he is to participate in the activities of the sense of insecurity, for their lack of confidence, it may be because he is not ready to participate in activities, you can let him sit by himself for a while, let him play when he wanted to play. Never let children feel a feeling of being neglected, abandoned.

Share: to explain to the children you understanding of he Sing the Blues.

Body check: do not ignore the physical condition of children, their health situation should be carefully checked.

3, dainty

Children like to talk about in a criticism of the way others.

Strategy-

Understand: first this expressed understanding for the kids, because when he comments in a criticism of the way when others, might he be wanted to prove that he is correct.

Boot: can a child in some ways on their satisfaction with the activities, helping him in a positive way to comment on his words and deeds, accept their own advantages and disadvantages.

Hint: in addition to guiding the children to the advantages and disadvantages, to explain to him very hard for anyone, who wants to hear praise themselves, so he has to learn to appreciate others.

4, difficult to share

Children refuse to share toys.

Strategy-

Penalties: you can take the toys away, until the child was playing alone, also is to play or take turns to play with others.

Restrictions: must be separate for the kids to play with that toy time limitations. You can try a fun way, that is to let him play clockwork toys, when the wind stops when the toys will be passed on to another child playing.

Laissez-faire: let the children themselves who should decide this toy to play with, so that they know, they are able to solve the problem.

5, want to be lazy

Children do not want to try something, just say \"I won\'t do\".

Strategy-

Watch: from the perspective of children to examine the active content. By observing the performance of children in various activities, to which you may understand why.

Conversion activity: If a child is mainly to give up writing or painting activities, like sports or listen to the story, it may be because he was not confident with little muscle exercise performance, you can discuss with him the significance of such activities.

Providing choice: provide options for several activities for children, let him select a coming from these activities. It is a very effective incentive methods.