In the traditional notion that father in front of the children always maintains a serious image of indifference, giving children wash diapers, feed, look after the children, such as housework or contact with the father of the man\'s image not together. Today, however, a new role for subversion of the traditional family values--\"full-time father\" began to appear. They in order to support the work of love, they make career sacrifices in play to their intelligence, in family life, busy and happy.
\"Full-time father\" appears
\"Now, by father families with children have more and more. \"Introduction to Tianjin infant education expert Jianguo Guo, a few years ago on Beijing when tracking a 1000 families with infants, only three or four families with children by the father, nearly a year, an upward trend in the number of the groups, about 2% per cent of families with infants selected by father look after the children.
\"Full-time father\" 5 reasons
\"Full-time father\" select \"return\" the family, on the whole, there are 5 reasons: first, their work prospects are not very good, and good working conditions and income of his wife, so choose a back service families. Second, their success can temporarily get out enjoying family happiness at home. Three female job-seekers is considered to have the so-called \"35 years Gates\", wants to help his wife of 35 years ago somewhere in his career. Four I think my life really stronger than wife, wife more fit to be a strong woman, on the role of the family so two-for-bit. Five is his job to Home Office, work childcare instead of compromising. All the \"full-time father\" had expressed confidence in themselves, they believe that when children enter kindergarten, and then return to the workplace, they still could have done a good job.
\"Full-time father\" face test
For \"full vocational father\" this a family role, different of people has different of views, author in some 30 aged around of married crowd in the do has random of investigation, found although has 80% above of people does not agreed traditional of \"men main outside female main within\" of life concept, but, only 10% around of people can accept own or lover do \"full vocational father\".
Full time dad to pass psychological level
At present, the community on \"full-time father\" have different views on the \"full-time father\" is also a test of their psychological endurance capacity. Has done more than a year \"full-time father\" Mr Chan said: \"some people think that men do \' full-time dad \' very face, so to do \' full-time dad \' first of all, is to overcome their psychological level. Then I told myself this obligation of a father can do, and so love no worries focus on work, both as family best. As long as the psychological obstacles to overcome, family harmony and happiness. What people say is in fact nothing. ”
Wife: family stronger
\"I do husbands family reunification is hopeless, his sacrifice was a great help to me. \"This is a mother to do the\" full-time father \"affirmation of love. The majority of \"full-time father\" have access to support and praise of his wife. Work of these young mothers are very valued now, therefore, the husband would like to thank. Because her husband has contributed to the family, family structure is more solid, more harmonious relations between husband and wife, also reduced the nanny of the family and other expenses. Most wives believe that children grow up, love can also play their abilities in his career again.
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