Parenting outstanding baby 4 policy

Human intelligence is a coordinating role in a complex manner, multiple intelligence theory that way for everyone to enrich their unique talents, each baby has its own strengths and weaknesses, so as long as the development done right, they are an aspect of doing very well.

4 prerequisite for raising well baby

1, give the baby a positive frame of mind

Psychologist Dale camegie the Guidebook warned us of the success of science, difference between successful and unsuccessful only a Word. Winners are positive, not successful mind negative. A positive frame of mind will have a positive action, overcoming the courage and perseverance and self-confidence, finally to be successful; negative mentality of people, their behavior is certainly negative, tend to lack self-confidence and overcoming courage and perseverance, easy retreat in face of difficulties are, complaining, naturally it is difficult to succeed. Therefore, to raise a successful baby, parent first to give the baby a good positive attitude.

2, next to the baby properly positioning

Success have different interpretations, but I think that success does not necessarily have to be the inventor of the spaceship, not necessarily to be a winner of the Nobel Prize, such a winner after all, is one of the few. The saying goes, line the very best. If a person is poor learning abilities, but he likes to cook and eventually became Super chef, this did not succeed? Successful road qianwantiao, therefore, as parents, we didn\'t have to make sure all the baby were huddled on the same difficult path, but should be based on the baby\'s intelligence structure characteristics, provide more opportunities for the baby to do their thing of interest, rather than in accordance with the wishes of the parents baby wishful constraints. Baby a happy childhood, so he really be his own, his future will be more happy and successful.

3, with a healthy psychological groundwork

To make a baby successfully, in addition to note mental structure, but also pay attention to the psychological development of the baby. Mental health is a guarantee of success. Psychology is the function of the brain, is an objective reality of the response, under the influence of human psychology is in the outside world, through the activity of the brain. Psychological process including cognitive process--intelligence factors (IQ), emotion, will and behavior of non-intelligence factors (emotional intelligence), and so on.

Health Psychology is best developed when young. 1995 United States Harvard University psychologist Daniel Goleman points out that \"emotional intelligence\" is the individual most of survivability, is a kind of emotional potential excavation, using emotion influence all aspects of life and life\'s key quality elements for the future, was acquired habit of human communication. It formed in the infant stage, stage of maturation in children, adolescents. High EQ stressed the unity of theory and practice, unity of sense and sensibility, the overall unity of thinking and dialectical thinking.

4 EQ, IQ is not discriminatory

Comparison of the IQ and EQ, IQ is the Foundation, EQ is guaranteed. To baby from a focus on cultivating non-intelligence factors of (EQ) is more important. Training ability of baby, ability for independent thinking and creative thinking, does not follow the trend of the crowd, have their own characteristics, train baby social skills and the ability to adapt to society, and so on will have a very important influence on the future of baby. Aharlis Schwab has said: \"ten baby has nine due to communication and smart. \"Let baby experience the joy of success and experience learned in frustration. Baby I believe a high EQ, IQ is not bad, and we in the parenting process, often biased intelligence factors training and neglect the development of non-intelligence factors.

Parenting outstanding baby 4 policy

1, according to the characteristics of baby aptitudes

Human intelligence is the coordinating role in a complex way, multiple intelligence theory that way for everyone to enrich their unique talents, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, seven intelligent all-round development of man is a very small number. Therefore, from this point, every baby is a potential of individuals, and only awareness and understanding of intelligence structure characteristics of baby to find baby where there is a talent or potential, to suit your baby characteristics of education and training, in accordance with their aptitude in order to maximize the potential of mining baby, raising a baby successfully.

2, the potential of the discovery and mining of precious in life

Parents can take place in everyday life to baby observation, through observation about the baby\'s uniqueness. Such as baby like drawing since childhood, when he was just doodling, and what you can see he crows like a James, what are the characteristics, has a talent for painting. So that you can seize the opportunity to create the conditions in accordance with the characteristics of baby take the individual education plan to train baby. If baby does has painting of talent, that on created conditions let baby in painting in the experience success of joy, and not non-forced with baby learn some parents think good of 4 General; if baby just like mess coated mess painting, but on painting lack feeling force, that let he mess coated mess painting good has, not non-forced with baby in accordance with the adults of requirements behave to learn painting. Baby, what kind of talent, create conditions were good in this regard by baby development well, why not to baby comprehensive development?

3, give baby set reasonable goals

To the baby not to raise expectations too high, has seen the baby after a certain effort can achieve good. If people feel that their baby is a more comprehensive, have the potential to become a dragon into a Phoenix, it may be with Jackie CHAN as a baby Phoenix standards to require, let him reach higher goals if found in the implementation process, the target for baby, too much stress, it may not achieve the desired purpose, then adjust education programmes as soon as possible, avoid harm the baby. I advocate education on baby should be \"let nature take its course, a little guidance, never pull up seedlings to help them grow. ”

4, let the baby a little progress every day

Parents do not take the baby with the weaknesses of other people\'s strengths

Than, the enthusiasm of this will virtually give up the baby, upset baby confidence. Smarter than to take the baby and the parents of his own, taking baby than today and yesterday, as long as there is progress, even if it is a little bit, but would also like to commend and encourage timely, so as to help baby to establish confidence, let him maintain a pleasant mood and positive attitude. The positive frame of mind, can have positive action. Some scholars warned us \"precious things grow slowly. \"Therefore, just try, try, try, never give up, you will be successful.

Parents experience: I want to talk to adults

\"Dreams of children is based on reality and close to the dream, and diverse. \"Then a long time I have been convinced that the judgment but some time ago to 2 and a half daughter the two observation records of my child\'s dream and a new understanding. I believe that children not only the dream of many short, there are always accompanied by the growth process of dreams.

Case 1

Daughter in bed, I sat at the bedside, we pulled one person to one edge of the book, I read the story, her page--this is told the story to her daughter at a time when we are most used gestures. But this day daughter changed her habits, and insisted on sitting in bed like me, than in bed. At first, I was just reading this behavior did not care about her. Until the daughter Yang splendid small face at his feet told me: \"mother, look! Look! I can see! \"I found, the original daughter\'s leg has grown long enough, when people sit in bed, two tiny feet as suspended above the ground not once, but you can have direct contact with the ground! This \"huge\" let her excitement and pride: \"I can! As well as adults! ”

Case 2

Help at a time when daughters wear trousers, I always make her into a leg kutong and then put another, but the day his daughter refused to my practice. Tile she put pants on the bed, and then hands hold trousers waist, kutong two legs at the same time to stretch. Not comfortable because, she always wears his legs in the same kutong, but she must adhere to me for help. Red with daughters face holding back, again and again to go wrong \"door\" leg out, even annoyed with her clumsy chubby hands under a few feet of the error. Finally, settled in two legs on where they should stay, daughter relieved, hold my hand stand up from the bed, referred from the knees waist pants, says: \"is this! I, like the adults! ”

\"As with adults\", whenever I can to be quiet when thinking, couldn\'t help thinking of her daughter\'s words, together with the action and look as she spoke. Turn, I and memories up many similar of behavior, such as she in 11 months large of when because must to like I as with Cup drink and refused with bottle; just will walk of when on like she father as to hand into pants pocket in; total wanted to sat in large Chair Shang dinner, until found is enough does not to table only does not reluctant to returned to own of small chair up; a has may on run to study, in computer keyboard Shang fast beat, and also from time to time mobile several Xia mouse; took up phone mess by these cities and placed in ear said some \"Hello\" \"can\" like words (has two times actually for the I made has each other see does not understand of SMS) sth sth

For these behavior, I has been are is in accordance with the textbooks Shang said of as, to they as is children on adults of imitation, and is observation learning to understanding of (occasionally also will in incurred trouble of when such as computer file was changes or delete to they qualitative for \"trouble\"), but daughter repeatedly reading about of \"and adults as\" is to has I a new of perspective: children these or \"imitation\" or \"trouble\" of behavior distinct is in shows we, children has a lasting and firmly of dream--that is grew adults! As well as adults! Life of nature features is growth, human difference Yu other creatures of highlight of Department is on environment and itself of control; young of children due to its in physiological and psychological, and self-care ability and social experience aspects are is development among, in many when without adult of care; adult of care while is children security health growth of guarantee, on the also for children of behavior established has many of limit, \"you also small, you cannot sth sth\" \", you grew up has, you on can sth sth\" similar of discourse and weekdays in cumulative up of on adult authority of respect, let children on \"grew up\" full has unlimited of looks forward to, that Dang they once found own can like adults as do a pieces own yiqian do does not to of things, on will was very excited, warm to greets you to see, and to concern they each a \"and adults as\" of behavior. More key of is because own is adults, in children seems very of things in parents of eye in and nothing great of, dang children shout and wrangle to report with they of \"achievements\" of when, parents is difficult to experience, and share children of that a copies joy and meet does not is, even some when because busy own of things and just simple to perfunctory a sentence \"good\" on to eyes steering elsewhere. To be honest, this is perhaps understandable from the perspective of parents, but are not ideal for children to respond to, not only to allow parents to see their growing up, and progress and looking forward to getting the recognition they sincerely, because that is what they are enthusiastic to dream about the things of sth

Thought here, I realized that they should examine how their daughter\'s education act--after the baseline is assured of the safety, health, helps daughter achievements during her dream, her development of scaffolding, mothers should be more critical duties.

Parents experience: my parents and decompression

In daily life, many children live with their parents often regular sense of pressure and anxiety, grief, fear, anger and other emotions. In this case, the parents do? Best way is to vacuum the child.

One of the parents and decompression call nice name

Home has a pair of twin sons, first born son I often call her \"great treasure\", and small, of course, is \"little treasure\". Regardless of the morning, or call us for dinner, with a nice voice called nice name, children of pressure naturally small. Who knows, when even the name carried the family name was called at that time, it is a time of trouble or suffer.

Parenting decompression method II: using music to replace calls

Wake up children in music in the morning rather than call up my mother shout and wrangle, pressure must be much smaller. If fine music before going to bed, a good start but a day. Timer is an easy to use tool, who does not like to suddenly be interrupted, telling children, after 5 minutes take a bath, fine timer, you won\'t have to bargain at that time, if the child can decide how long playing computer games, time to, they will be more easily observed.

Three of the parent-child decompression: time of quantity and quality are important

Concepts of the world, is family time quality matters more than quantity, is also called quality time: how long is the care and child together time and care about what to do with him.

In fact, this is a plausible theory.

United States of the tube and teach author Dr Dawson cites an example: there is a man to eat steak, for a long time, extremely hungry, finally waiters served a small piece of steak. \"Why so small? \"\" This is the most wonderful steaks. \"\" But I have enough to eat. ”

Children need good quality food, but fixed, a sufficient number of meals is more important. We can\'t all day at home, and give children 10 minutes of quality time, think he will meet. Quality time is when he excitedly school, you were there to hear him speak in high spirits; quality time, when is he depressed home, where are you listening, comforting, encouraging. If you miss, when we have time, and asked him \"how well today? \"He would only say\" Fortunately \".

We have several years to implement a \"tradition\", that children \"separate appointments\". Child one day belong to his special day every 3 months, and the father or mother to do something of their choice. Boss and father to the Confucius Temple, for example, eat, and then chess; the second platform and I bought a ticket, see the train at the station, he would not care to say, \"to see the column, Oriental, a list of red flags, you go! \"Although there are two children, we want them to feel that they are in the eyes of parents\" invisible jiaoer \". These are the real parents of quality time. \"Quantity\" accumulated is very important, occasionally a meal of steak, not a substitute for three meals a day.

Parenting decompression method four: listen, often hold

One educator said, to hug your children 4 times a day. I try to remind ourselves that when children listen or watch their eyes. Often, at this dedicated time, heart filled love for them, would naturally hold them. Hug, Kiss, praise, encourage, these never too much. When a child love trough when filled, he would only reveal love, rather than be a disgruntled child.

United States former President George Bush\'s wife, in Wesleyan Women\'s College graduation ceremony: \"wait for you at my age, would not lose a deal or less regret a customer, but if you do not have to spend time in her husband\'s children, you will regret. ”

Children, if usually not embracing habits, can also be patted shoulders, gently pinch pinch his arm. The best idea is to keep some intimate way, say to yourself, I would like to continue to do, because it is not so, suddenly, son than I have, not that I hold him, he bent to take up inferior jobs is me on the shoulder.

Think of a story.

A mother in the child\'s room, said: \"I have a lot of words to tell you, I\'m sorry, I\'ve been so busy. \"She has been saying, sorry, finally, the children put away suitcase:\" MOM, why say what I had to go to University tomorrow. \"Child in the US only about 18 years, take the opportunity to hug him.

Parent-child decompression v: let go

In fact, I learned the most difficult and most useful homework is: let it go! Let go!

Family pressures, in fact, whatever the pressure between the interpersonal, most expect-related. Inappropriate expectations create pressure to pull up seedlings to help them grow, against their fatal embrace. Proper expectations, people prosper, would bloom the flowers. We parents can only accompany them, observing their strengths to encourage, support, expected to lay down their own, so both can enjoy each other\'s relationship. I told myself, never on the child\'s homework, talent makes everyone cry crying. Children play the setbacks at a time, I said learn well, every time he immediately said, no, I still want to learn. As the child hour, I often say, eat stop eat, but no children to worry about at the dinner. Child wise very, cares where you matter, even if you don\'t speak up, he knew, and in that case, and against you, the more you let go, the more he knows not a threat, only you can learn responsible. When the children have a force from the inside, when the willingness, intangible is getting between parents do not need to exert pressure.

Parents sitting down and talking to children

A return trip the old teacher, said when speaking in Australia in: Australia squatting for parents and children left a very deep impression on me. See this scenario for the first time, was at a friend\'s House. One weekend, they had a young couple and the children to dinner, when the two year old child were filled, when you want to go under, the parents sitting down talking to children. At that time, he was surprised, thinking that it was her unique form of education and not ask. Another weekend, when a Secretary of the school mate pedicle I live to her home, to spend two days on weekends, I see this moving scene over and over again.

Mate pedicles with a pair of lovely children, when we are going to the supermarket, four-year old son was unhappy because of sister to get in the car. Mate pedicle in door of squat, two hand living son hands, back to back, face to face, eye face up to the child, sincerely say \"Luo Aimu, who to get in the car is not important, right? \"Luo aim land looking mother knowing nodded, got into the car and sat down next to her sister.

The next morning, we and our children to the Park, Luo Aimu and sister living, when the ducks to the Lake to see playing, tripped accidentally, tears in his eyes rolling in, to flow out in a minute. At this point, mate pedicle and naturally squat down, kindly son said: \"you have is not a small baby, do you? You\'re a big boy, stumbles that\'s OK, right? \"At this point, I also learn aside squatting down and faced Luo Aimu said:\" Yes, you\'re a big boy, right? \"The child was at once admitted in tears, were proud to play.

At this point, I can\'t help with the mate pedicle talked to their children\'s education. She said: \"when I was young, my parents was that talking with us. We believe that children are human beings, is also independent of the person, only because they are shorter than us, we should talk squatting down with them sth \"

Australia or what others think of the mother: parents sitting down and talking with children on the same height, talking to each other with the children back to back, face to face, eye, embodies the parents respect for children, things that embody the adult children or problem serious and cordial manner. At the same time, parents can whisper to patient persuasion and education, instead of from top to bottom, but don\'t have to loudly berate.

Use this form of education, will enable the children realise with the adults were equal, respected person, is conducive to training children independent of self-esteem personality childhood; using this form of education can help children to take their problems seriously disadvantage or; it also created a receptive to the good mood of education for children, rather than make children deaf ear or psychology.

I think this is a very specific education method, embodiment of the relationship between the parents about their children\'s education idea and also from one side reflects the child\'s capacity and level of education.

If we always stood facing a child, we distance the child, not only is the height of dozens of centimeters, but the distances between the generation and generation, is a heart with no communication between a heart distance. Squatting down, listen, on children, is a great of concern and understanding, is children to accept of a care; squatting down, listen, children away from we of distance on will shortened; squatting down, listen, is we concern children inside world of a way; squatting down, listen, create out of is a democratic, and harmonious of mutual respect of adult and children of relationship, then no than this more important of thing has.

Please help the children find a good friend

The saying goes: depend on parents at home, out of the House by friends. Could make some good friends, are helpful to children\'s learning and growth. In the psychological consultation, often parents talking about their children\'s personality will be isolated and a poor talker, difficulties will not turn to others, rather than active exchange with others, even with others meet a red, nervous. These kids have different degrees of dating disorders.

So, how can parents do to help their children make some good friends? In fact, the children\'s friend was almost a nature does not need to completely replace the child of parents, only need to correctly boot to. Specifically speaking, parents should be aware of the following aspects.

1. to teach children the independent way of life: this is the most important point. Is best developed when young children of parents living independently and independent thinking and problem-solving skills. If a child from childhood dependence on the parents, then also get used to the teachers, students and their friends, do not own.

2. should pay attention to small children generous, gregarious, outgoing personality, parents should pay attention to the children of these qualities.

3. respect for the child and the child\'s friends: every child hope in front of your friends a little \"face\". Parents should meet this simple wish children, please try not to short of children\'s friends before opening them. Some parents intent are good, want to educate their children in front of other children to make him \"a little ambitious pressure\", everyone knows if this persists, it is a child in front of your friends not lift your head, gradually inferiority, self closed character.

4. not too much demanding: many parents hear their children make friends will certainly ask: \"so (referring to children\'s friends) you learn? Is the class do? \"And so on, if the child\'s friends are not the so-called\" good student \",\" good boy \". Parents: \"such a friend to what! \"In fact, parents are caught in a real all-rounder omnipotent child misconceptions--is not, if simply pursuing child must reach all very good friends must be realistic. Moreover, children are intended to make friends and play with children of the same age, just like people are good friends, but also to make your life more fun. Parents intentionally asking a child can only be \"better than his\" friend, which is to let children develop large people practices of snobbery, and makes the children experience the fun of friends was not originally.

5. actively found children of friends of advantages: no that parents hope own of children xuehuai of, but for \"good\" of meaning, many parents is just one-sided to think \"learning good, has courtesy\",, actually, \"good\" has many of aspects, such as Ken suffer, and ready to help people, and eloquence good, and imagination rich,, actually are is own of children by need training of skills, key see parents how to boot own of children, parents should actively to found children and he of friends between of differences, and guidance children learning he of friends of advantages.

6. do not excessive interference in the child\'s freedom to make friends, this is the aspiration of every child. Please give the children a little time and space, can let their children downstairs and friends a good play on the lawn for a while. Don\'t see your children on the ground floor \"mad running\" put his homework, not a child and female classmate when school walk shoulder to shoulder so much of tension, not to let the children should have happy childhood memories they will dare to nightmare of sth

Children make friends, learn from their parents, practicing in childhood but enjoying life, from childhood, parents can help their children develop a good social good habits, future children could benefit life; if a child within has been lonely and dependence on parents, selfishness, indifference to people, to work in the future, its drawbacks will affect the future of children in all areas. And then the price of lust for life, why not take advantage of the attention to the children\'s character now?

Zhu Shimao: I almost spoilt son

One day in 1992, my son Yang Yang comes alive. I swear to be a good father, the ability to do my best to give him happiness, let him grow up happily.

I may be crazy son, so as long as he wants, I will try to meet.

I am one of the most memorable, was neighbor children bought a small car battery, driving about, particularly listless. Envy is not my son Yang Yang, follow others cars running behind to catch up with there crying. I see the mind quite uncomfortable, just bought a car for my son. Look at satisfaction of Yang Yang, and my heart was so comfortable.

Child was a child of poor health, his wife asked me, with his swim time not too long, but children like water by nature, not willing to go on a, don\'t hesitate to swim for an hour, but were not able to play at a time. Sometimes children are sick, I will regret not. But the next time my son and I forgot. With son how many coins are playing video games is also a good buy, but I always secretly giving him over.

I don\'t know why, Yang Yang was born and frail, a sweeping changes to catch, a cold and asthma, and breath shortness, small face was ghastly pale, particularly scary. Xiao Yang Yang fall ill at a time, I personally hold him to hang at the hospital emergency room, as each check has to be followed, even trust a wife. Child isn\'t better I step does not leave, sometimes with a few days do not sleep a wink.

To give Yang Yang to be cured, I have traveled the country\'s largest hospital, visiting the Western doctors. In those years, home is always floating taste of traditional Chinese medicine. Because every time I tasted the son for the drug, so my son and I were bitter torment of traditional Chinese medicine are suffering. When it is called \"child King\" when the old traditional Chinese medicine on Yang Yang also helpless, I finally accepted the recommendations of the friends: to let the children grow up healthily, let him leave dotes on his environment, get him off the aura of celebrity father, let him not want to have any.

In order to do that, me into really cruel---sent his son to the United States to read.

Yang Yang was 9 years old, I gave him to wife, she made a special trip to the United States by peidu, I remain in the country take care of advertising companies.

Xiao Yang Yang to the United States to name himself after Franca. In yiguotaxiang, he became one of the most common immigrant children. Maybe California sunshine and mild climate played a role, flanka soon recovered, and more robust, is not only the master swimming, also started to learn karate. Flanka piano is also very good.

7 practices for respecting the baby emotion

1. selection of the wishes of the child, respect for babies

Many parents have recognized that in deciding whether to let the baby when learning talent, as well as what kind of talent, to respect the choice of baby. According to the investigation of the parent-child, 68.8% MOM and dad believes that baby want to learn their choice of talent, because of inherent interest is the power of learning.

Step 1 when the baby is not yet time to learn about the various art activities, do not directly asked whether he wanted to learn.

If you are not sure whether the baby is willing to learn, and only you-on impulse-see colleagues reported interest in the child class, immediately asked the baby \"do you want to learn to paint? \"\" Do you want to learn the piano? \"Children and effect your mood easily baby around, he would say that want to learn. You need to provide your baby with a variety of talent perceptual knowledge and experience to watch his wishes. For example, it is free zone activities of him some talent, interest classes, describes what they are doing to him. If friends have children attending schools talent, you can take the baby to his home to play, and enjoy other people\'s talent works, try to play a play, as in touch on the piano, ballistic missile.

And baby talk to separate skills

Time to talk, first helps babies remember all he saw art activities.

For example, \"last Sunday, baby saw what teacher Wang with children playing in the children\'s Palace? \"\" Yesterday, we play in the monthly home to what? \"When baby 1.1 point recalled he met art activities, then asked him what fun, interesting. If he says more interested in the art activities, be sure to ask clear reasons, to determine if he was interested in art activities itself.

When determining the baby does for certain activities after the favourite, you try to use the baby understand language told him to learn the skills needed to pay the price, such as the piano every day keep practising. You can reference the baby know examples of children explained to him, although he does not fully understand the costs, but still want to say. This number can help the baby to decide whether he is to learn this art. If he wants to learn, and when the break in the future, just to remind you before he talked, gradually develop decided to have a sense of his own.

After many conversations, if you feel your baby what kind of talent and not particularly interested in, then don\'t because their urgent heart, let him to go to the select a class. You must relax the heart, because the baby is not talent, he will have more time to enjoy other free play activities, and the intellectual and emotional development is resulting in the game. If the baby wants to learn a lot of talent, you have to tell him you can select only one of them. You like him of the benefits and costs of art activities are explained again, let him choose. Once you have decided, establish agreements with him, such as how long, how long does it take to practice every day, and so on.

2. interest in baby care and training in the first

If you decide to let baby talent and identified learning project, purpose of training talent, you have to be very clear: to respect and protect the baby\'s interest in art, through the process of learning made him more love this talent.

Development of preschool children are not mature, attention cannot be focused for a long time, easily distracted, finger muscle development does not fully mature, and so on, and talent and learning has a lot of skill and attention to health requirements, so baby in skills may not meet the requirements. In addition, preschool is a baby during the rapid development of intrinsic interest, they are curious and love to many new things, these seeds of interest if you get good care, babies can get a lot of fun, even becomes the driving force of his future career and life. So you will not haggle on the talent training in skills requirements and would kill him valuable intrinsic interest. Natural intrinsic interest, once lost, it\'s hard to make up for.

You need to select a talent of importance to the protection and interest in training baby teacher or teaching talent. Professional standards of teachers is important, but the teacher\'s teaching approach and whether it can protect your baby\'s interest is more important. If teaching ignores the baby feel, baby began to appear are not even interested in straw, you need to communicate with the teacher. In the case of a last resort, would rather see the baby stops this talent and class.

3. look baby mood changes in the learning process

When the baby for talent and learning, you need to observe the baby\'s emotional, after each lesson exercises before you go to class and what are the emotional changes, and not just concerned about his learning content.

Many parents have this experience: baby at first always enjoy going, then slowly cooling. Therefore, when you find baby appear reluctant to learn when, consider what factors affect his enthusiasm to learn. Is practice time after class is too long? Exercise which requires more frequent rest periods? Course remained at the level he acquired that became boring? Or is it because he does not meet the requirements, no sense of accomplishment and a time to lose interest? Special event had hit confidence in the baby? Baby talk to the teacher of his classes, gradually find out, make timely adjustments to avoid his interests completely lost.

4. free time and study with baby

And the baby alone time is very valuable. MOM and dad to be bent, as large as a baby and kids, learning, practice with baby. And you learn, will let the baby but also enjoy the learning process.

Whether you are proficient in all you want to start from scratch, and baby synchronous learning. Not being taught role, humble attitude along with the baby to learn, even to the baby ask for advice he learned every day, and he is doing the same work, discuss with him how can do better.

And babies learn the most common problems are: MOM and dad always like the finger next to point. Pointing too many babies are confused, distracted, tired of learning. If you treasure and

Po learning process with recorded, you will be surprised to find himself from beginning to end is constantly talking, release the baby cannot understand, accept instructions. In fact, how do you like to be patient, often to shut up and keep quiet. Even if the baby is doing wrong, he corrected himself, he will have more active study harder, otherwise too much of the blame, he will feel terrible. Less pointing and criticism, baby will feel that they are trusted by parents, he is capable.

5. do not take the baby with someone than

MOM and dad often learn motive power in order to make the baby more, a common trick of Chinese parents to motivate him-took the baby to learn to be a good comparison of children, this will let the baby be pressure.

For instance on the baby said, \"you see xiaoqiang now will play a full piece, you quickly catch up with him\", \"Lily\'s brush is neatly written, why are you still writing crooked? \"Over time, some babies will avoid learning; combative heart strong baby will focus on the competition with others, in no mood to enjoy happiness of learning and talent, will eventually lose interest in the art itself.

6. let baby from in their efforts to find a sense of achievement

Learning skills is often a process of continuous exercise, test of the baby\'s insistence. If you want the baby keep practising talent, MOM and dad need to adhere to the time to note the efforts made by the baby, constant feedback for his efforts, help him from every last bit of efforts to find and give a sense of achievement.

For example, together with the baby, his calligraphy, art paintings, hanging in the House decoration. Regardless of the level of the work, as long as the baby the effort can be. When babies learn new words, new painting, must be kept up to date on the wall of the old works. Made character sets, collected old album, gift for friends and family. If the baby is learning piano, you can record music he played, when you do the housework or chat the break with my family, do the background music. Babies will feel his effort is successful, and joy unlimited for your family.

Parents experience: my son when students

Son had four grades, I learned from the teacher, son weak, this can be good. I had an exchange of views with their teachers, learned that his son\'s trouble is not the General Assembly an attendance. How does not hear the law? I would like to know the details. Think of this and that, only when back for my son \"classmates\" to find out where the problem lies.

Of course, I can\'t really run to affect the normal teaching in the school. I made a circuitous tactics-and Cambridge young learners \' English class teachers explain the seriousness of the situation, hoping to listen to half day course with son. English teacher to special support told me, he also found his son classes there. So, I entered the classroom with son, sitting at his side.

That afternoon when talking about now. I note that the teacher teaches while quietly observe the son. I find that students in the class is required to read and write project son was to concentrate on, when the teacher told separately, he is not as focused. After school, I told him the day\'s lessons for questioning, some simple examples in the book, basic grasp; another sentence, is a little vague, nothing else, does not listen on the external training less. I pulled out my class of grammar notes for my son, son was amazed: \"school, how do you remember so much? \"I told him:\" to listen in class, the teacher what is focus of, what is regular General thing, listen carefully. Of course, to do this, it is best to prepare before, for he knows not where an idea that classes can be targeted. \"I told my son, mother unit also engaged in tutoring, mother learned things like primary school math, English, almost forgot, are available for you to help me!

Under this, son feel that have the responsibility to help my mother, had begun to seriously listen. I do, every day \"consult\", and son felt really well, or can\'t for MOM as a teacher.

Now, a year later, son already understand, mother says tutorial lessons in primary schools is just a ploy. Often great pride in his son but said to me: \"don\'t teach me, you would still be when my classmates and students. ”

I think the relationship between parents and children are mutually reinforcing, as the ancients said, and learning. Parents if you can use a variety of ways, understanding your child\'s weaknesses, to help him corrected in a timely manner, it is a step towards the standards of qualified parents.

Kangaroo care method: close to the parents of premature infants chest

Colombia scientists in the latest issue of the United Kingdom Journal of Medicine published an article called, some developing countries has been taking care of premature infants \"Kangaroo care method\" worthy of promotion in the world.

Approximately 20 million premature birth in the world, hospitals in developed countries at the time of taking care of these babies cannot itself regulate body temperature, how are they placed in the infant incubator. However, 1978 Colombia newborn surge of doctors in the country and therefore invented a new method of insulation for preterm infants, that mimics the way of the Kangaroo mother care. In the implementation of this \"Kangaroo care method\" Shi, neonatal preterm infants 24 hours throughout the day with a mother or father \"intimate\". Wearing only a \"urine is not wet\", close to the parents of infants wearing a little hat bare chest and fixed with special harnesses or old clothes to the children.

Colombia haweiliyana University researchers pointed out that in the article, in General, ended after other medical treatment in preterm infants, parents can start this \"skin on skin\" parenting methods. Typically, the accepted birth in preterm infants after 9 months of this approach will be able to regulate body temperature. Research shows that the \"Kangaroo care method\" as safe and effective as the infant incubator. This method can also increase the proportion of breast feeding in preterm infants, reduce the chance of infection and strengthen family ties between parents and children. At present, this approach has been promoting in 25 developing countries. Researchers urged developed countries to implement this in the article natural method of effective parenting.

United Kingdom comments neonatal experts nier·maluo, University of Nottingham said, \"Kangaroo care method\" to consolidate family ties between parents and children, and can improve the effect of breastfeeding and shorten hospital stay. In an interview with New Scientist magazine, he said, \"this approach can eliminate the fear of preterm infants to mother, you can make the mother-child develop a healthy relationship.\"

Family values a new role: full time dad

In the traditional notion that father in front of the children always maintains a serious image of indifference, giving children wash diapers, feed, look after the children, such as housework or contact with the father of the man\'s image not together. Today, however, a new role for subversion of the traditional family values--\"full-time father\" began to appear. They in order to support the work of love, they make career sacrifices in play to their intelligence, in family life, busy and happy.

\"Full-time father\" appears

\"Now, by father families with children have more and more. \"Introduction to Tianjin infant education expert Jianguo Guo, a few years ago on Beijing when tracking a 1000 families with infants, only three or four families with children by the father, nearly a year, an upward trend in the number of the groups, about 2% per cent of families with infants selected by father look after the children.

\"Full-time father\" 5 reasons

\"Full-time father\" select \"return\" the family, on the whole, there are 5 reasons: first, their work prospects are not very good, and good working conditions and income of his wife, so choose a back service families. Second, their success can temporarily get out enjoying family happiness at home. Three female job-seekers is considered to have the so-called \"35 years Gates\", wants to help his wife of 35 years ago somewhere in his career. Four I think my life really stronger than wife, wife more fit to be a strong woman, on the role of the family so two-for-bit. Five is his job to Home Office, work childcare instead of compromising. All the \"full-time father\" had expressed confidence in themselves, they believe that when children enter kindergarten, and then return to the workplace, they still could have done a good job.

\"Full-time father\" face test

For \"full vocational father\" this a family role, different of people has different of views, author in some 30 aged around of married crowd in the do has random of investigation, found although has 80% above of people does not agreed traditional of \"men main outside female main within\" of life concept, but, only 10% around of people can accept own or lover do \"full vocational father\".

Full time dad to pass psychological level

At present, the community on \"full-time father\" have different views on the \"full-time father\" is also a test of their psychological endurance capacity. Has done more than a year \"full-time father\" Mr Chan said: \"some people think that men do \' full-time dad \' very face, so to do \' full-time dad \' first of all, is to overcome their psychological level. Then I told myself this obligation of a father can do, and so love no worries focus on work, both as family best. As long as the psychological obstacles to overcome, family harmony and happiness. What people say is in fact nothing. ”

Wife: family stronger

\"I do husbands family reunification is hopeless, his sacrifice was a great help to me. \"This is a mother to do the\" full-time father \"affirmation of love. The majority of \"full-time father\" have access to support and praise of his wife. Work of these young mothers are very valued now, therefore, the husband would like to thank. Because her husband has contributed to the family, family structure is more solid, more harmonious relations between husband and wife, also reduced the nanny of the family and other expenses. Most wives believe that children grow up, love can also play their abilities in his career again.

Baby Hugs four attention

Embrace mother released an irreplaceable vectors of the mother and babies feel the wonderful world, shower mother love, obtain mental development needs. In addition, the findings of a study abroad, embracing also promotes the body\'s immune system, lower blood pressure, heart rate, ease the nerves of the people, neither the mother nor the baby, embrace the positive effects are obvious.

However, only how to embrace science reasonable?

First time embracing the baby: baby birth within 2 hours, feel the touch of mother hugs and caresses, skin on skin, this is the first step in a lifelong attachment relationship of mother. Mother put the baby in her arms, so that he can hear MOM heartbeat, smell her mother\'s taste, and accompanied by the call of mother baby friendly, sufficient to keep baby safe and relaxed.

Intimate support the baby\'s head: little neck of newborns is not born to stand, when a mother holding a baby, make sure has relied on his head. Gently into the cubital Fossa in the small head, small arms and hand hold the children back and waist, with the other hand hold up small butt, hold hold transverse or oblique posture, making his waist and neck on a plane.

Vertical hold for only a short time: baby smaller, shorter vertical hold time. Method is a hand hold his hips and waist and back, head and neck of the other hand to hold the baby or let him down in his mother\'s shoulder, the first control in two or three minutes, otherwise the baby will be overwhelmed.

Don\'t shake the weak baby: baby brain myelin not be equal protection of the head, holding baby shaking can cause head capillary rupture, or even death. So even if you shake the baby should be very tender.

Parents of wisdom wise discipline methods

Parents of wisdom wise discipline methods

Do you often discipline children and helpless? Whether you are going to convince or yelling commands, children completely ignored. Ever, you get an education?

Children are naughty is normal, you do not want the child prematurely mature, polite like a adult.

But sometimes they cannot grasp the sense, for instance, he seized the children themselves by the hair, or will you need hiding, watching your fire or Liao and chuckling. Sensible mother they have anger when washed, simply punishing not approach, discipline requires appropriate manner, think, do what they did wrong.

Like most parents, we all hope that our discipline can give a child the next time when you do the same thing again, will it not, so it is not to do. Even more trust, because he knows is wrong to pull their hair and thread the needle, and not because he was afraid of offending mothers anger not to do. But most of the time, today we stop his bad behavior, seems to also want to block him tomorrow do worse there is no help. When can children learn?

Childcare expert pointed out that: children can learn to listen, to learn, but this process requires some method. We must teach them. This requires that we do take precautions, persistence, and to keep a cool head at any time. Following talks about the six secrets to be very effective. Although it cannot prevent a naughty children occasionally make mistakes, but it can help you use love and patience, the naughty and the book which you gave me child converted from the trouble with this role.

1, when it comes to

Childcare expert pointed out that: If representatives from 1 to 10 correct principle of educating children of important degree (the higher the number the more important), the word, and words can be expressed in 12lai!

Why do you want to do?

When it comes to doing less, deeds will turn children into speculation caused by campaigners. Because they know they can get away with, they are trying to do all we can do this. But when they knew what would you do, or make a mistake when what happens, they can predict that consequences of their choice, let them learn to control yourself.

How to do this?

When it comes to the most critical part is not in love, not to give in once and for all before. Summarizes the most important of your rules and consequences appear whenever they break these rules. Then, these were all told your child.

For many parents, control yourself not to criticize children is difficult, therefore, think twice before you speak, you use different tone and wording, effect difference will be very big. Like saying: I love you, but I cannot accept your behavior. That preliminary hearings very hard, but later, children would naturally know what you mean.

In other cases, you would expect as they must be explained to them. If you want to take them to visit the supermarket, told them not to tamper with and merchandise, and warned that if the consequences of the violation is.

When it comes to ask you to follow-up from beginning to end in the end, no loud threats.

Good dad using line color on education

Human archives interviewed father: Zhou Gaofei

Graduated from Central Academy of fine arts, current cultural communication company artistic director. Son: Zhou Chen

Code name code, 3 and a half, lively curiosity, like all types of cars, bigger is better, so Earth vehicle, road rollers, large buses into their favorite.

Into the goofy, pile high on the sofa cushion has attracted our eyes immediately. It was built code code \"cave\", used to play the game of his favorite cars pass through a tunnel. Terrace filled with color, large and small on car toys of different brands and different functions along the different lanes crowded towards the same direction, relies mainly on removal of a picture depicting common traffic jam scene of miniature landscapes on Beijing streets. Code code a little gentleman\'s manner, but who wants to move his \"cave\" or disrupt traffic jam-style of his paintings, kid that does not enjoy. Goofy to say he\'s not a good father has been very modest, however, as the talk in depth, I found surprising, this so-called \"bad\" dad was there are too many shiny things. Code code out there eager to communicate with children and fear was rejected by children, wanted to press the button code code in an elevator and carefully observe, code code do not want to go to bed and try to toss, all of these scenarios is goofy describe the delicate and vivid. A hard father how to do this?

Warm punished goofy believes that appropriate punishment is necessary. But punishment not to abuse, or baby skin, punishment will lose significance. When the wrong code code when goofy often acts as a role of sanctions. Occasionally, goofy also play code code of small cold buttocks. But he will notice of propriety, achieve the purpose of a warning to others is sufficient. Each time the punished son, goofy is code to code around patiently asks his son what exactly made a mistake, until the son is said to be fined reason, makes him willing to accept the punishment. Sometimes code code realized his mistake, goofy believes that to achieve the aims of education, also abandoned the intention of punishing him. Code as code grew up day by day, he day many petty at up. Sometimes, he would have their faults are, pick some irrelevant things to prevarication father.

Goofy must not relax, be sure to let him know he had a chance to act shamelessly to escape, he must admit his error. Goofy stressed that the punishment should have a strong sense of focus, purpose is to allow the baby knows where the error, so be sure not to baby by surprise and give him punishment when at fault, but we should let him understand that they went wrong to punish, but also for baby to realize that making mistakes is something that everyone will experience, change is good. If some acts of radical corrective baby, may be counterproductive and even strengthened his behavior. In front of the baby, when parents have made a mistake. Goofy realized he was wrong at a time, he also admitted to baby errors. Thus, the so-called a hard father IE one who treats his children severely in the eyes of code code is no shelf. Goofy good flower, code code catch opportunities will give Dad a horse Wei: \"Dad, you do not move those who took, then I will beat your ass. ”

Size fans goofy was a fans of the game, each time driving out code to code something on the car thing. Perhaps under the influence of father, code code on vehicles for the bright lights that he 1 year old can sit in his toy car, very skillfully from any narrow regional xiangmoxiangyang to the car out. Code code like reading, like father comic, likes to play with he saw and heard various scenes of the game, which all are vehicles for the header to all to end. Code code like the bus, so goofy a often in order to meet the requirements of code code took a taxi to him like a bus station, sitting on a bus on a circle. Back home, in his golf clubs will be plugged in to the sofa gap significantly open the bus game. See traffic jam outside, cars were flooded by water, have a traffic accident, code code is in the interpretation of those involved in the House scene, and police, ambulance, fire engine to the rescue, the situation as if he is an expert in dealing with incidents of very seasoned. Code code very hope that he would create game scenes were destroyed. High sensitive observation to it all, he begins to respect the outcome of the game of code code, no longer compelled him to toy structured to a location. When you have time, goofy will accompany code code driving a toy car and play cops villain of the game.

Thorough Cool Dad

Cool Dad series comic inspiration mostly from code code, son nuanced observation of goofy\'s knowledge of the child to enter a new level. Goofy is a thinking and very heart\'s father. He believed that children may have a lot of very deep cause of the problem is not as simple as just the face of it. Therefore, whenever code code was what he always likes to curiosity: why is that? He had encountered any problems? What he was thinking? How can I solve his problem? How do I solve the problem and will not constitute harm to him? Numerous problems plaguing the goofy, makes him a father heart can\'t calm. However, in any case, he has to try to find sources, and start with the reality of the baby from the root security solution to the problem.

Beauty of delay of gratification goofy to buy toys for code code is very rich in dramatic. Every time you go shopping with son, eye when a toy code code, he must have no money with me with code under various pretexts, such as code return empty-handed. Afterwards, he then itself run shopping mall who are sons toy to take home. Goofy does not claim to buy those expensive toys for baby, he believed that baby toys are equal no concept, as long as the baby game can meet the requirements on it, but for the baby\'s safety, goofy never buy poor-quality toys. This delay of gratification approach on the one hand to hone the code code of self-control, and satisfy his desire, he meets and therefore do not because their desires are repressed and inferiority.

With regard to education, goofy has many original ideas. \"Baby

Also need to have their own space, so when baby himself had joined not to bother him, only is necessary when he invites you to participate in his game. \"\" Baby, when I was young, safety is first, so don\'t let him undue harm. Exploration on cultivating the spirit of the can make up for it he is slightly bigger. \"\" Young not too much concerned about his baby, and should be fully independent of him. Otherwise, he grew up, less attention to him, he will be even more helpless. \"Goofy\'s conversation with a strong speculative color, goofy also in reality and the image of Cool Dad wants.

Code as code grew up day by day, his perplexity and worries more and more. He continued to explore, learn, still constantly adjusting their form of education, he allows his lines and color must be increasingly skilled strokes to provide parents with more caution, more deeper concepts and methods of education.

Home How to layout the game environment

Family environment, including creating a learning environment for kids, living conditions and environment of the game. First two has now been the limelight of the parents, and the game environment is also not of general interest. Playing games is the nature of children, develop children\'s intellectual, the game is the best means. Only provide the right environment of the game, children to full play to the imagination and enrich the game content. Parents in the game environment can also be a variety of learning activities into one of the game with the children, entertaining way.

Parents how to use the existing arrangement of conditions for child game environment?

Housing spacious family for children provide an \"game room\", where the establishment of different game areas for children. For example, \"natural areas\" for the children on a cake, and planted with a broad bean, making a plant and animal specimens, let the child observation and simple knowledge and understanding of the plant\'s growth process; otherwise family area, construction area, dining area, intelligence, and so on, are starting to cultivate their solidarity and ability of spatial imagination, functions.

Housing of tight family may make a corner for children in the bedroom or the living room, separated by cloth or waste material arranged a special gaming environment for their children. Packaging large cardboard boxes of appliances available for children to build a House, dug a door open a few Windows, items needed when kids games on display in the room, around a small house allows children to beautify yourself. Or children in the small world of laying a carpet or cloth pad on, needs of the child according to the game, lie down, sit, kneel, all on the ground, avoid dirty clothes or cold children playing sick. Parents should also be provided for children and the collection of materials of the game, game content, enriching children\'s small world. At the same time, Church child finishing their small world in a timely manner, habit of cultivating his sense of responsibility and labor.

With my father created the Sun child

With my father created the Sun child

Transfer Chair

Write to father: in General, children like to play with those speed, rotation, you can control the body balance games, such as playing swing, to sit pirate ship playground and so on. Now, father using his tall body to act as a child of \"physical gaming machine\". Because the game can use the rotating Chair, father will not be too difficult, Oh!

Environmental requirements: a computer Chair can turn around there are no obstacles.

Dad Manual: ★

Game play:

1, Dad can turn computer chairs moved to Central or where there are no obstacles around the living room.

2, father sitting on a Chair, picked up the child, to let children feet stood on the father\'s thigh.

3, the father lets the body rotation with the Chair, slightly hard Chair will go soon, children will be very exciting.

4, the game play to a high extent, Dad can suddenly brakes, change direction immediately go Chair. This \"surprise\" action will often let the children laughing.

Cartwheel

For Dad: before you know it, children had been so heavy. Not only can play a cartwheel and the child in touch, you can also let the fathers to the children \"weighing\".

Environmental requirements: bed, carpet, as long as you can let the father lie down to the place where you can.

Dad Manual: ★ ★

Game play:

1, father lying on the face, let the child lying face down on the dad\'s tummy.

2, the \"cartwheel! \"My father said, feet lift, children at once turned gendou. Dad\'s hand happens to catch small ass over to children.

Play 3, ripe, Dad can accelerate the speed of lifting a leg.

For children opened \"green prescription\"

Concluded a semester intensive learning, children temporarily from the long-term status of fast paced, high pressure release, even if usually energetic, healthy children, often with varying degrees of extremities in whole body fatigue, muscle aches, fatigue, mentally depressed and feel sad, can\'t afford interest on external things and even distracted State. This is actually a mental fatigue caused by the accumulation of adverse psychological effects.

Mental fatigue is a neurological, is a manifestation of the central nervous system dysfunction, is due to fatigue. There are many reasons raised, such as long-term monotone machinery of life, the spirit of continuing tension, living in polluted and noisy environments, and so on. Usually due to concentrated heavy learning, psychological reaction of this feeling less or not at all obvious, once when it is in a relaxed state of mind, neural dysfunction began, thus causing physical and psychological discomfort.

At this point, if out of the outdoor, nature\'s arms, blue sky, mountain, blue water, green grass have fun flying soul, relax the body, will receive good results. Contained in the fresh air on human health of very useful content of negative oxygen ions to city dozens of times higher, per cubic centimeter of air negative oxygen ions to nearly 20,000. Negative oxygen ion after inhalation human lungs, can improve the hematopoietic function and improve respiratory functions, increase of body volume of inhalation of oxygen and carbon dioxide emission. At the same time can also promote gastrointestinal digestion, enhance the body\'s metabolism, regulation of excitatory and inhibitory State of central nervous system, improve the physiological functions of cerebral cortex, is called the atmosphere of \"effects of longevity\". Inhalation of negative oxygen ion-rich air, makes one feel fresh and cool, relaxed, refreshing, rest in the Middle here, to let people have fun and enjoy fun with nature, restoring physical and mental fatigue as soon as possible, so as to improve one\'s physical quality and efficiency, while controlling a wide range of diseases. In addition, the field travel vent is also depressed, an effective means of regulating mood. Especially psychological fatigue of students, often is by long-term spirit height tension, and psychological pressure too large caused by, can using field tourism of time, to wilderness, and Bush, and forest, and hillside, and grassland, and beach, to, release throat, enjoy to shouted, let heart of worries, and anguish, and anxiety, and depression, with ROAR dispersed in nature, may can a solutions heart of depressed, catharsis inside of bad emotional.

Therefore, the parents taking holidays, for the children to open a \"green prescription\" let the children travel to the field, in the embrace of nature, get rid of the stale and take in the fresh, conditioning of yin and Yang, regulating body wash past tired, for intensive learning in future refueling charge.

Father\'s love: how much father to baby love

Overtime, travel, socializing, and have a crush on personal taste, not realizing the importance of getting along with baby sth

In this increasingly competitive world, more and more men did not get along well with baby time. Because less and less chance of contact with the baby, they know nothing of that baby and baby met with father as strangers, not too much emotion. Father were lost at the same time perhaps very few people would have thought that because a parent loss of love, baby can experience how painful psychological process.

United States psychologists discovered through investigation, who did not receive enough parents love Baby affective disorder is very prominent, appear anxious, lonely, wayward, hyperactivity, rely on weak, low self-esteem, self-control, aggressive behavior, such as defect more widespread, and even the baby bad living habits of the adults have some relationship. Psychologists accordingly proposed a \"lack of father love syndrome\" that concept. Suffered from \"lack of father love syndrome\" adult baby appears nervous, mental illness or personality disorders, mental illness and crime at the rate of suicide rates are higher than other baby and adult baby may affect the right to deal with gender relations, resulting in an unhappy marriage life.

Desire for love, this is the most deep and compelling psychological needs of boy. He long for a robust and rich in humor, rugged but gentle, confidence and love, wisdom and humility of the man beside him, injecting real to him \"the man\". With boys need to be with his father, help him establish a sense of security and self-confidence of the surrounding world, learn how to do a man from the father. Girl you need to understand men through the father and learn tips for getting along with men.

In General, baby attachment object is its dependency, such as mother, Grandma and Grandma, and honour of the father is often not the case, so people often mistaken for baby attachment father, looking after the baby is mother\'s things, has nothing to do with his father. This error resulted in the concept of \"lack of father love syndrome\" is gradually increasing in children with, had to cause his father\'s attention. Educational baby just the mother\'s responsibility, is also a responsibility of the father. Busy is not a reason, and certainly not an excuse to escape. If you put your heart, no matter how busy I am, father can give baby love by some way, influence on the growth of the baby.

Travelling together in a unique manner and baby world

Mr Wang medical experts

Daughter 1 years due to pressure of business, approximately six months of my time abroad, and daughter get less and less time. Most of the time only by overseas on the phone with her daughter says a few words. Time is very busy at home, in addition to the scientific research work, also need to constantly flew around, participate in academic conferences, or go out to teach, when rare accompanied her daughter. Daughter is my father\'s past lovers, this experience I have. Because few and daughter together, so each to accompany his daughter play, I can see from her surprise. She changes so it is clear that each of her progress made me drunk and proud. I think that fathers need to give the baby the first is security. Sense of security of access to baby and does not depend on the time to get along with, and depends more on getting along with his quality.

Each time you return, as long as there is a bit of free time, I will push out all socializing wholeheartedly accompanied her daughter, together with her mad play. When in a foreign country or in the field, I always carry a camera and every one, I will look for opportunities to capture local customs, send an e-mail to his wife, and separate her daughter wrote a few words, even though she can\'t read. Daughter see my message at a time, will be very happy. Those messages, and then take home bunch of film into the best media to contact me with her daughter. Through these messages, I gave my daughter a sufficient sense of her daughter understand, no matter where his father, she is my favourite little baby, no matter where his father, no matter how long father needs away from home, I will go home, no left, no matter what. By email, and photos, daughter without having to follow my travels half the Earth, so I became a daughter hero. Daughter mentioned the father, is the pride of face, it makes me very happy.

Love fusion in a children\'s animation

Mr LEE IT elite

Son 3 years just like me playing (IT) people work is often of apology right and wrong, therefore, sons grow up to 3 years old, I almost have no time for him. Occasionally had a difficult weekend without overtime, I\'d bring my son to outdoor on the mad one, with sons fighting game, catches his son at a time, I stand him up, or will he carried on the shoulder, top head, let him fully experience differentiators of a man. Son liked this game, and very like was I caught and I kept all sorts of ways a toss pattern. Of course, my wife such acts were often severely scold, but I measured myself, that I will not hurt the baby.

In many cases, I do not have time with her son, although live in a room, but the son rarely has to see when I open your eyes. So I thought particularly interesting trick, that is, doing animation for my son. Because of their work to facilitate, I collected a lot of interesting pictures, I put these pictures together, and then accompanied some text, and then made into animation, represents male power son needs to experience some of the things in my animation, reflected. Unexpectedly, the tactic was to recover his son\'s favour. Sometimes, I was asleep, suddenly being son pulling woke up early: \"Dad, I like your animation! \"Every time this time, I was always sleepy and certainly very gratifying. I love the son, and then continue to lie down to sleep.

Don\'t let business obstacles to become a parent-child relationship

Mr civil servant

Son 3 years and 9 months due to pressure of business, my socializing a lot. These entertainment seriously affecting my relationship with his wife, but

Regardless of how the wife protests, I one \' s cricumstances or characters remain unchanged. Socializing for me is more of a psychological need. Son 3 years old that day, because socializing, I did not attend his birthday party, which made him very sad. At 12 o\'clock that night is the night, son still refuses to sleep, wait for me has been sitting on the sofa. A meeting, he would cry into my arms-bashing: \"Dad, are you not me and Mommy? \"That night scene deeply engraved in my mind, is as clear as the film so far. Since then, I make a determined effort to turn over a new leaf, unless you have to attend social engagements, I declined. Friends joke I to his son lived. In order to achieve a balance between the son and friends, I came up with a good way to compromise. It is often a family party, this party is to contact a feelings with friends, I am not ignoring his wife son. Makes me happy is that this party gave his son a lot of opportunities for exercise, let him become more lively, cheerful. Because socializing to the neglect of her son, it would not pay. What\'s more, said socializing how sometimes just an irresponsible excuse of a man.

New Dad a happy life

New Dad a happy life

Baby\'s arrival disturbed all: woman as mother, men have numerous questions, purchase list longer, shorter nights sleep sth But it is no time to be thrown into confusion. Following 5 tips to make young dad happy to enjoy the first few months after the birth of the child.

1, do not drown in the frustration of the new mother

\"The child is two of us have wanted. \"Elvey told road,\" Philippe millier pregnancy went well without any problems, experienced a normal delivery, our daughter is terrific! However, since my wife out of the maternity homes, as if to a person. She is very depressed, closed. There is no desire. When I tried to cheer her, she accused me of not understanding her. I really don\'t know how to be good, I start sparkling. \"The young father admitted that he don\'t know what to like a man of many faces frustrated wife.

Woman such a moment of frustration status typically occurs in the 3-10 days after childbirth, intensity, or large or small. What is the reason? Hormonal disorders and psychological factors. Psycho-analysts, even if their very wanted children, but to become a mother to certain crises.

How would you help his wife through this period? \"Should recognize and understand the new mother\'s frustration, but not disoriented. \"Psychologists, mental analysts Pori stressed. Husband he should be shown to be the wife of relying on, with their love and tenderness for his wife at ease, at the same time with the delicate and subtle ways to transfer his wife\'s attention. Her husband\'s role is to help wives rejoin the construction of the relationship between husband and wife.

Give an example? Daughter of just over 1 year old young mother Anna tells us: \"my daughter was born, I had a lot of negative thoughts, on the direction of their own situation completely lost. Fortunately, her husband is very considerate, we have a successful exchange, he said to me, I can count on him, I am not alone in the face of this, I have confidence in him, we did a lot of things together. He found the language of most on my mind. \"This approach is suitable for Anna. But a new father, you know, there\'s no real panacea, every one to subtly to adapt.

Of course, there is a problem requiring attention, postpartum depression lasted for several weeks, that it is not simply depression, postpartum depression. If the new mothers suffering from postpartum depression, while her husband was filled with love and attention, but he alone cannot solve the problem alone. Intervention of postpartum anxiety need psychologists suppression, even drug therapy.

2, recognition of its concerns, and said it

In fact, after the birth of a child\'s frustration is not unique to new mothers, some of the new dad is depressed, worried, and even some lost.

Faced the expenditure growth, sleep well at night and excessive fatigue conditions, men may feel that they fail to grasp the wife. Some will be fear of the future, even in the face of new responsibilities have desire to escape.

\"The birth of new life, when his identity will have a profound shake. \"Psychologists said,\" since then, two transition to the new family model of the world. In the new structure, their father or mother, while continuing as the son of man or woman, and maintained the role of husband and wife. Fathers and mothers to help each other to consolidate relations between husband and wife, find the location of husband and wife again. Brought to attention is, if the grandparents have a tendency to interfere in their own family, and is also a good opportunity to let them keep a certain distance. ”

When experienced child was born the \"earthquake\" Shi, experts believe that the relationship between husband and wife, husband and wife Exchange is critical. This Exchange is not just to stay in Riverdale next breastfeeding time, or tell someone to buy a new diaper.
Baby\'s arrival disturbed all: woman as mother, men have numerous questions, purchase list longer, shorter nights sleep sth But it is no time to be thrown into confusion. Following 5 tips to make young dad happy to enjoy the first few months after the birth of the child.

1, do not drown in the frustration of the new mother

\"The child is two of us have wanted. \"Elvey told road,\" Philippe millier pregnancy went well without any problems, experienced a normal delivery, our daughter is terrific! However, since my wife out of the maternity homes, as if to a person. She is very depressed, closed. There is no desire. When I tried to cheer her, she accused me of not understanding her. I really don\'t know how to be good, I start sparkling. \"The young father admitted that he don\'t know what to like a man of many faces frustrated wife.

Woman such a moment of frustration status typically occurs in the 3-10 days after childbirth, intensity, or large or small. What is the reason? Hormonal disorders and psychological factors. Psycho-analysts, even if their very wanted children, but to become a mother to certain crises.

How would you help his wife through this period? \"Should recognize and understand the new mother\'s frustration, but not disoriented. \"Psychologists, mental analysts Pori stressed. Husband he should be shown to be the wife of relying on, with their love and tenderness for his wife at ease, at the same time with the delicate and subtle ways to transfer his wife\'s attention. Her husband\'s role is to help wives rejoin the construction of the relationship between husband and wife.

Give an example? Daughter of just over 1 year old young mother Anna tells us: \"my daughter was born, I had a lot of negative thoughts, on the direction of their own situation completely lost. Fortunately, her husband is very considerate, we have a successful exchange, he said to me, I can count on him, I am not alone in the face of this, I have confidence in him, we did a lot of things together. He found the language of most on my mind. \"This approach is suitable for Anna. But a new father, you know, there\'s no real panacea, every one to subtly to adapt.

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Of course, there is a problem requiring attention, postpartum depression lasted for several weeks, that it is not simply depression, postpartum depression. If the new mothers suffering from postpartum depression, while her husband was filled with love and attention, but he alone cannot solve the problem alone. Intervention of postpartum anxiety need psychologists suppression, even drug therapy.

2, recognition of its concerns, and said it

In fact, after the birth of a child\'s frustration is not unique to new mothers, some of the new dad is depressed, worried, and even some lost.

Faced the expenditure growth, sleep well at night and excessive fatigue conditions, men may feel that they fail to grasp the wife. Some will be fear of the future, even in the face of new responsibilities have desire to escape.

\"The birth of new life, when his identity will have a profound shake. \"Psychologists said,\" since then, two transition to the new family model of the world. In the new structure, their father or mother, while continuing as the son of man or woman, and maintained the role of husband and wife. Fathers and mothers to help each other to consolidate relations between husband and wife, find the location of husband and wife again. Brought to attention is, if the grandparents have a tendency to interfere in their own family, and is also a good opportunity to let them keep a certain distance. ”

When experienced child was born the \"earthquake\" Shi, experts believe that the relationship between husband and wife, husband and wife Exchange is critical. This Exchange is not just to stay in Riverdale next breastfeeding time, or tell someone to buy a new diaper.

Lawless new dad

No matter what time, throw some rules and restrictions, give children a free, unfettered or \"lawlessness\" childhood, is the best thing you can do for children.

When the wife is pregnant, my dad was Dad\'s friend informed by some people: \"after the father, only way to maintain sanity is the initiative to reduce child discipline standards. \"Lower standards? I have so many things to think my son or daughter is going to do, and my wife and lists almost a list of baby things we cannot do anything, something our baby to eat, what has our baby could not say, even what we treasure would not want to! We have long thought out. But after the father of the first five years, I was no longer the ambitious visionaries, I began to realize that some rules can be broken, and some imprisoned there is no need to exist one day!

So which rule should exist? He should have gone with the wind about the what? It depends on you and your children, some of the children more than other children need to shape and limit, as some of the adults. But there are also those cases put down your discipline, then you will be much easier and pleasant family atmosphere. Your child will have a new childhood.

Furniture on the first, not channeling I don\'t encourage you to encourage your child to destroy furniture or his legs. But have a jump on the couch, or walking on the table is sometimes attract you looked up from the newspaper or to look good way to transfer from the television, doesn\'t it? This is a way to consolidate parental relationships with children, because in these activities, your continuous attention to the children, he and others such as work or other obligation no longer competing for you. Therefore, open music, pounded the rhythm and enjoy this special time with your children.

Second, don\'t play with your food, of course, we all want to teach children the proper table manners, but at the same time, there\'s another important course to learn. A two-year old boy put his hand into the bowl of noodles that he do more than spend yourself into face, he is also on the shape, texture and temperature have a certain understanding. \"Food adventures is a very good course, playing in the seemingly familiar children can learn a lot.

Third, you can\'t wear that I have a four-year old son loves rain, because of his love, he would wear his match with any clothes from his little dresses to pyjamas. Though he dressed like a model, cool, but when you see other children screamed out loud \"to see the big boots\", my son will surface the proud smile on his face, so I decided: let him express themselves more important than getting what upright with his instrument. As someone who grew up in a harsh tutor, I am well aware of the children in their right to life decision is very small, or no. This often gives them a feeling of frustration to a large extent and indecisive weakness. Dressing strength is small, but very much encouraged by the child\'s confidence. What if your children have to wear Superman costume, then go with him, of course, in addition to schools or take part in important activities. Maybe he sometimes looks very funny or crazy, but so what? More important is, like their choice of clothes, this experience will help him grow up and become more confident, resolute man.

Four, to go to bed on time of course, the children to have a sufficient and regular sleep. Once in a while but fixed the sleep time for a small deviation in children, and will not disturb his sleep system or affect his health. Sometimes enjoy a special moment is much more important than go to bed on time, I\'ve never met a child because sleep 20 minutes late and what injuries or damage. I told my 5 year old son, if he could give me a sufficient reason for late, so I can allow to give him 10 minutes. Doing so causes a lot of beautiful stories, son is trying to defend himself, perhaps he will from time to time, less sleep for a few minutes, but his leap in imagination cannot be measured by time.

Five, not allowed to forestall other speakers open any book for parents to see, this section is visible: let your child says he wants to say it. But usually contrary to people\'s minds is: argue should not let the children and adults. I am not advocating connivance child back. But it should give him a chance, so that he can air their views, which let him learn to calmly discuss and resolve contradictions. Next time that you kid when things are not willing to do anything more, and listen to his views, and then discuss on an equal footing with him. In this way, regardless of when the game was later in school, he learned to confident and elegant.

Six, a family business we recorded phone message is my son, when he was two, three years old. Recorded sound mess in our House: the cat in the trash, dog took a waste. But everyone who heard this message very much, this message we spent more than a year. Children cheer would seem a bit silly, this time if you pleased with him, he will think you understood him and appreciate him. If a child had a crazy, laughing with him. Don\'t be so worried about its image. While the children were angry, in a humorous way to easily resolve. Don\'t always high above, don\'t forget, toothy was also curative medicine.

Parents bed on seven, don\'t we all know that children sleep are important, but family tension troubled life aside for the time being, is hung on the bed with good and relaxed. On Saturday morning to watch the cartoon or cover quilt at night, eating popcorn, Movie Marathon, so enjoy.

Eight, not to play those dirty things do remember scenes of pile of sand? This game is so interesting is because he is able to stimulate children\'s creativity. Don\'t worry her dirty clothes and home work of art, it\'s just him costs of imagination. Children playing a dirty, never mind, do you not have washing machines, and why not to play with

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Nine, don\'t make up when I go to school, have a fixed time every day, everyone came to show themselves in rotation, that is my favorite time of the day. Some people bring their art of art, some people singing songs, and some people just enjoy the feeling of being whole class attention. This is not to let the children in front of people to show off, which just makes the child feel he should be the concern of others. More attention to his small achievement, it may be a painting or a perfect cartwheel, encourage him to face greater challenges.

10 or one day or absence from school while the school is not a serious thing, but he learned to feel life is also very important, because there are so many wonderful courses outside of the school. One morning last year, are catching up with my cat just birth the kitten that day, we didn\'t go to work, children did not go to school, we stay at home taking care of the mother cat. If the child had to go to school, can learn to pronounce and arithmetic, but seize the rare opportunity, he might learn more.