Human archives interviewed father: Zhou Gaofei
Graduated from Central Academy of fine arts, current cultural communication company artistic director. Son: Zhou Chen
Code name code, 3 and a half, lively curiosity, like all types of cars, bigger is better, so Earth vehicle, road rollers, large buses into their favorite.
Into the goofy, pile high on the sofa cushion has attracted our eyes immediately. It was built code code \"cave\", used to play the game of his favorite cars pass through a tunnel. Terrace filled with color, large and small on car toys of different brands and different functions along the different lanes crowded towards the same direction, relies mainly on removal of a picture depicting common traffic jam scene of miniature landscapes on Beijing streets. Code code a little gentleman\'s manner, but who wants to move his \"cave\" or disrupt traffic jam-style of his paintings, kid that does not enjoy. Goofy to say he\'s not a good father has been very modest, however, as the talk in depth, I found surprising, this so-called \"bad\" dad was there are too many shiny things. Code code out there eager to communicate with children and fear was rejected by children, wanted to press the button code code in an elevator and carefully observe, code code do not want to go to bed and try to toss, all of these scenarios is goofy describe the delicate and vivid. A hard father how to do this?
Warm punished goofy believes that appropriate punishment is necessary. But punishment not to abuse, or baby skin, punishment will lose significance. When the wrong code code when goofy often acts as a role of sanctions. Occasionally, goofy also play code code of small cold buttocks. But he will notice of propriety, achieve the purpose of a warning to others is sufficient. Each time the punished son, goofy is code to code around patiently asks his son what exactly made a mistake, until the son is said to be fined reason, makes him willing to accept the punishment. Sometimes code code realized his mistake, goofy believes that to achieve the aims of education, also abandoned the intention of punishing him. Code as code grew up day by day, he day many petty at up. Sometimes, he would have their faults are, pick some irrelevant things to prevarication father.
Goofy must not relax, be sure to let him know he had a chance to act shamelessly to escape, he must admit his error. Goofy stressed that the punishment should have a strong sense of focus, purpose is to allow the baby knows where the error, so be sure not to baby by surprise and give him punishment when at fault, but we should let him understand that they went wrong to punish, but also for baby to realize that making mistakes is something that everyone will experience, change is good. If some acts of radical corrective baby, may be counterproductive and even strengthened his behavior. In front of the baby, when parents have made a mistake. Goofy realized he was wrong at a time, he also admitted to baby errors. Thus, the so-called a hard father IE one who treats his children severely in the eyes of code code is no shelf. Goofy good flower, code code catch opportunities will give Dad a horse Wei: \"Dad, you do not move those who took, then I will beat your ass. ”
Size fans goofy was a fans of the game, each time driving out code to code something on the car thing. Perhaps under the influence of father, code code on vehicles for the bright lights that he 1 year old can sit in his toy car, very skillfully from any narrow regional xiangmoxiangyang to the car out. Code code like reading, like father comic, likes to play with he saw and heard various scenes of the game, which all are vehicles for the header to all to end. Code code like the bus, so goofy a often in order to meet the requirements of code code took a taxi to him like a bus station, sitting on a bus on a circle. Back home, in his golf clubs will be plugged in to the sofa gap significantly open the bus game. See traffic jam outside, cars were flooded by water, have a traffic accident, code code is in the interpretation of those involved in the House scene, and police, ambulance, fire engine to the rescue, the situation as if he is an expert in dealing with incidents of very seasoned. Code code very hope that he would create game scenes were destroyed. High sensitive observation to it all, he begins to respect the outcome of the game of code code, no longer compelled him to toy structured to a location. When you have time, goofy will accompany code code driving a toy car and play cops villain of the game.
Thorough Cool Dad
Cool Dad series comic inspiration mostly from code code, son nuanced observation of goofy\'s knowledge of the child to enter a new level. Goofy is a thinking and very heart\'s father. He believed that children may have a lot of very deep cause of the problem is not as simple as just the face of it. Therefore, whenever code code was what he always likes to curiosity: why is that? He had encountered any problems? What he was thinking? How can I solve his problem? How do I solve the problem and will not constitute harm to him? Numerous problems plaguing the goofy, makes him a father heart can\'t calm. However, in any case, he has to try to find sources, and start with the reality of the baby from the root security solution to the problem.
Beauty of delay of gratification goofy to buy toys for code code is very rich in dramatic. Every time you go shopping with son, eye when a toy code code, he must have no money with me with code under various pretexts, such as code return empty-handed. Afterwards, he then itself run shopping mall who are sons toy to take home. Goofy does not claim to buy those expensive toys for baby, he believed that baby toys are equal no concept, as long as the baby game can meet the requirements on it, but for the baby\'s safety, goofy never buy poor-quality toys. This delay of gratification approach on the one hand to hone the code code of self-control, and satisfy his desire, he meets and therefore do not because their desires are repressed and inferiority.
With regard to education, goofy has many original ideas. \"Baby
Also need to have their own space, so when baby himself had joined not to bother him, only is necessary when he invites you to participate in his game. \"\" Baby, when I was young, safety is first, so don\'t let him undue harm. Exploration on cultivating the spirit of the can make up for it he is slightly bigger. \"\" Young not too much concerned about his baby, and should be fully independent of him. Otherwise, he grew up, less attention to him, he will be even more helpless. \"Goofy\'s conversation with a strong speculative color, goofy also in reality and the image of Cool Dad wants.Code as code grew up day by day, his perplexity and worries more and more. He continued to explore, learn, still constantly adjusting their form of education, he allows his lines and color must be increasingly skilled strokes to provide parents with more caution, more deeper concepts and methods of education.
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