Intergenerational love

My granddaughter Ka Ka like degree, considerably more than the love for her daughter\'s father. It is said that this kind of generational love, now is a general phenomenon.

But with likes of, things that make people worry about. Little guy now has a big temper very, slightly heart, cross rolling on the floor, or she is going to throw a plastic tableware of all.

Bad temper is where it came from? recently, our family made a poll. Says public opinion actually investigated Ka Ka only one person. Grandmother: \"Ka Ka most afraid of?\" She said: \"my father. \"Grandmother and asks,\" Ka Ka most afraid of? \" She answered: \"grandfather. \"And then added:\" Grandpa most Ka Ka. ”

This opinion poll, all members of the family are said to be \"Grandpa spoiled Ka Ka\" Ka Ka what\'s poor performance, find the root cause is found on my head.

I\'ve seen a copy of the material: a school for students in Shanghai household survey found that the proportion of the doting family is 40%, and generational dotes on more serious.

A pre-school to early childhood education expert says: \"now for a pair of couples only one child policy, for each couple, are inexperienced parents, and grandparents generation cannot transfer successful experience, spoil, will give today\'s family MI-LAN-gold. \"Sometimes I calm thought, found in small Ka Ka, I give way more strict requirements, meeting the needs of her but the lack of proportionality, this generational love, MI-LAN-gold does in a child\'s education.

According to I of personally experience, produced isolation generation love has two a causes: a is Sun children generation baby born, makes own is real to experience to blood of continued, feeling to own raising children of success, to will produced a on Sun generation of precious psychological; second is own through thick and human vicissitudes, suffered sauce, in enjoy in his later years Zhiji, contact to innocent of Sun generation, on own soul is a comfort. So before you know it, the grandchildren from love to spoil, become extremely incompetent ancestors.

But my daughter\'s education Michael Suen, also to come up with a more scientific approach, but I think the future should be at least two, one is never dull, never pitching reached down to Ka Ka when riding a horse; second, it is not her daughter, son-in-law family MI-LAN-gold, so that they bring relief due to generational doting and confusion.

Recently, the Shanghai News newspaper a family tragedy: grandparents doting grandson, caress child violence, mother of discipline to the fist phase, bite is scarred mother\'s shoulder, mother of forbearance, he choked the natural son of the age of 7. Too shocking!

I secretly tell yourself, in any case, I have to do a good grandfather!