Intergenerational support disadvantaged children psychology

Many parents are busy with work, no time with their children, according to the survey, currently about 20%% of China\'s one-child is growing up by their ancestors. TSO live, parent, child, children growing up mainly by the ancestors in China are more common. Child by grandparents raising children the parents has brought many advantages, but generational dependency also have disadvantages.

Intergenerational support compared to parents, easier to develop children unruly, selfish, and do whatever they like character. Old man\'s heart is good, plus the children are only children, really can be called \"in your mouth, holding in your hands are afraid of falling\". According to the children giving them everything. Children growing up in this environment, very easy to form bad character.

Generational raising often children\'s emotional needs cannot be met, resulting in a deviation of emotion and personality. Modern psychological studies show that children on parents \' emotional needs, are any other emotion cannot substitute for. Even if the child\'s grandparents, Grandma, Grandpa with all my heart all day in the children, all their own feelings into children, cannot replace the love of parents. Parents \' love of children missing flesh, most likely to be a child resulting from emotional lack of emotion and personality deviation, lead to such as mental and behavioral disorders, on lack of loving people.

Generational psychological variation may lead to child-rearing, resulting in many psychological problems and diseases. From a psychological perspective, intergenerational support will normally result in the following several kinds of mental problems and diseases.

Phobia because first of all, easy to produce communication likes quiet and mostly do not like sports and out of the elderly, children in the long term in such a living space and atmosphere, can lead to narrow the view of children, lack of vitality, is not conducive to open children\'s minds and lively, tolerant character. Children who grow up, small, poor and others.

Second child of weird psychological thought of the elderly is easily fixed, pattern of behavior, often shown stubborn, extreme, weird ideas and words and deeds. This training extremely detrimental to the child\'s character, which may lead to child psychology and behavior and personality deviate from, increased propensity for violence, and so on.

Finally easy to hurt children confidence elderly persons raising children, are often too concerned and doting, handle child of everything, the children have no chance to do their thing. Long, makes the children lack of independence, self-confidence and decisive force, psychological frustration and poor dependent problems. In the growth of the child in, a little setback, on their knees.

Therefore, the majority of parents, no matter how busy you have something more important, and should raise children yourself, place the child in their own home raising, growth of children with physical and mental health.