How to grasp the scale of love?

Children of parents who do not pour a loving? who\'s never been a lovestruck ambitious for one\'s children? the end to make parents feel infinite comfort is of course a lot, but the contrary is more, this past bufaqili. Some parents take their children treated as eye, love and hope of all their hopes in all the children, excessive indulgence, accommodate and obedient to their children, lack of moral education, the child to be paramount in the family \"little Sun\". Over time, the child might be parents \"love\" in the arms of develop selfishness, does not respect their elders, don\'t take care of property, willful, arrogance and dependence and other undesirable characters, make things harmful to others, and some have even embarked on the path of crime.

So, how should parents grasp the degree of love for the kids?

1, to respect the child\'s personality, care for their kind and good heart. Parents do not always think of the children and foolish, ignored the due respect to their children, dull when happy, angry, you make perverse accusations. This will make children at a loss, children\'s self-esteem, so that they develop adverse psychological.

2, meet the legitimate needs of inhibition of unreasonable demands. For comments and requests made by the children, parents need to listen, if the need is justified, appropriate meeting, on the contrary, it should kindly refused, resolutely curb. Do not accommodate submissive because of the unreasonable crying of the children.

3, attention to children\'s behaviors and ability of daily life. We believe that the moment for the sake of the future of children, do not give conduct should teach children to do some of the best things in a timely manner. As a child comes after the toy was picked up by his own; meal back stool; slightly bigger children can teach him to wash his handkerchiefs, socks, sweep the sweep.

4, parent to the child\'s request to have the consistency and coherence. Parents both not a strict one wide, ask children to do today, also calls for children to do tomorrow, day alike, each singing their own ways, make children thinking not invited too, confused. This weakened the authority of the parents, for their children\'s bad behavior makes the \"shelter\".

In short, love children should proceed from the educational purpose on children made a reasonable request, \"love\", \"love\", correctly grasp the scale of love, this is conducive to the healthy growth of children.