Pace of life, increased competition, many young parents have to use more time and energy in their development and career. So, who\'s going to care, educating children? When when many parents feel overwhelmed, ancestors to the intervention of family education has become a helpless choice.
\"Generational support\" increasingly common
It is understood that currently 0-6 children under the age of my city, nearly half of mainly by elderly dependency. With the formation of social ageing trend, grandparents take on characteristic of the grandchildren of the family support is becoming a family education.
Journalists in an interview met a mother, her son every day stuff (5) send to Grandpa\'s House. After Tung was sent to grandfather\'s House, or rest and Grandpa, or a person playing, painting, base blocks, All in a day\'s work. Child\'s grandfather wanted to teach kids something, not body, secondly, knowledge is not enough. Now her son only willing to play in the home, mention of the kindergarten, his son would say: \"of kindergarten children will and I get to eat, grab my car? \"Her no choice but to say:\" too negative on children\'s growth. ”
And disadvantages of intergenerational support
In General, the ancestors have plenty of time and energy to accompany the next generation, than work in psychology far more young parents to calm tensions. Nonetheless, intergenerational support is obviously one education way of last resort, its negative effects are obvious.
A mother to urge sons get rid of careless habits, require him to down homework every day, went home to finish, and then check it again aloud. Grandma often go to school without his daughter-in-law copied topic, then quietly for the grandson to correct the wrong question.
Indeed, the old man is often a life of caring for the kids, most children do not want to communicate with the elderly, and they usually form a self-centered, capricious, effeminate: a personality characteristic. In daily life, they have been used to yilaishenshou, eat a ready cooked meal ready day concept of helpfulness, labor glory, collectivism, in their mind is very weak.
Intergenerational education not a substitute for parenting education
\"Generational education should continue? \"Many of the children\'s parents are confused, but cancel the intergenerational education, with children their own hand, young parents feel embarrassed. For this, some people in the education sector pointed out that intergenerational education and parent-education effective combination, we can achieve the best effect.
One kindergarten teacher believes that ancestors of high cultural level, intergenerational education was often successful. \"Success or failure of intergenerational education closely related to the ancestors qualities of their own. \"She said, in addition to cultural literacy, ancestors are known with the scientific concept of parental indulgence and pampered does not help children grow up, and careful observation of children, develop their good interest. \"Multiple communication and Exchange is key to resolving two generations to parental conflict. \"An education sector pointed out that, on the attitude of parents and ancestors in the education of children should reach a consensus, learn with each other. She said, parents are the child\'s first teacher, intergenerational education: parenting education cannot substitute for. Busy one\'s work, parents should also be efforts to create educational opportunities for children.
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