Intergenerational support unfavourable to children

Is part of China\'s one-child by grandparents or not Granny of the culture of dependency, while also reducing the burden of family and society, was played by elderly enjoying family happiness and more waste heat, but there are also three disadvantages.

The first disadvantage is that intergenerational support way old, easy to develop a child\'s wayward, selfish, and do whatever they like character. They say old kind, coupled with the children is the only child, grandparents is more caring and even doting. Sometimes children do something wrong, criticized the education of parents, some ancestors immediately accused the son or daughter, take small baby doesn\'t know any better. Ancestors of long blind shield, make children can\'t distinguish right from wrong, easy to form a wrong idea.

The second disadvantage is that intergenerational support often causes the child\'s emotional needs cannot be met, thus affecting the relationships between children and their parents. Modern psychological studies show that children on parents \' emotional needs, are any other emotion cannot substitute for, children without parents \' love of flesh, prone to problems such as mental and behavioral disorders, such as a cold shoulder to parents, who, for lack of love, easy to produce violence.

Third disadvantage is that generational upbringing and illiterate upbringing, may lead to child psychological variation, many psychological problems and diseases. Long in the living space of the elderly and the children in the atmosphere, see the language and the behavior of the elderly, have the potential to accelerate children\'s adult, a more serious cause of child psychology of aging. Body of the elderly is not very good, mostly like quiet, this may make your child\'s vision narrow, forming solitary, silent feature.

Immobilization of people old ideas are easy, pattern of behavior, thoughts and deeds easily stubbornness, extreme, weird, it could result in some children unhealthy mindset or way of life. Because of concern for children too, and in the elderly doting, lack of independence, self-confidence and determination of child, dependent poor psychological frustration and problems.