Before the age of five or six children for babies get into the mother\'s belly, perhaps not as curious as the later, so explain about sexual intercourse can be as brief as possible. Includes the concept of love and care of sexual intercourse, do not just carry it. However children\'s interest in these explanations, and not as strong as thought, is like an eight-year-old told a child psychiatrist: \"I had no time to think about how people with children, because I have a lot of other things to do!\"
Child\'s problem is that you can imagine in advance, so many experienced parents usually on some of the most predictable problems in advance, do formulate preparations, this is really quite worked. I also believe that as long as there are ready, not overwhelmed. Following are two children frequently asked questions, and parents may answer:
\"Why can\'t I stand and pee like a father\"?
\"You\'re a girl, later grew up to become a woman, like MOM. Father is a man-a boy who has grown up. Boys and men have a chicken, and their urine-real name is \"urine\"--out from their penis. We women and girls have a vagina and another small opening called the urethral orifice, our urine out from the small opening, because it is between the legs, so we sit to urinate. ”
\"Why is that woman\'s belly drum to be so big?\"
\"She is going to baby, every woman has a special place in the body, called the uterus. Before you were born, you grow in mother\'s womb, at that time as big mother\'s belly with the woman. ”
In addition, all children 3-6 years, are likely to be asked the following questions:
\"What it is?\" (Pointing to father\'s penis)
\"Penis. ”
\"Why me?\"
\"Because you are a girl, girls have the uterus and vagina, man and boy did not. ”
\"The two is what?\" (Boy or girl at mother\'s chest)
\"Breasts. ”
\"I will have them?\"
\". ”
\"Baby come from?\"
\"When the father and mother wanted to have a child when he put his penis into her vagina, and affectionate with each other in a special way! but then they don\'t want to have other people in. ”
\"Baby how long will you stay in the mother\'s womb?\"
\"Baby in the mother body of a special place called the uterus--is not in her belly – growth, born after nine months. ”
\"How could he?\"
\"After a special channel called vagina. ”
\"Baby born feel do? will the pain?\"
\"Baby pain, muscle twitch of the mother is very ill, sometimes she would have temporary pains. ”
\"I can see you talk father baby?\"
In these issues, perhaps only the last one will make you a loss. But for kids, this fact and ask \"why mothers have breast\" no different, you just briefly answer is enough: \"no, I\'m afraid not. When dad and I made a child, we are alone--all the parents – do not let others see. Do you want to know of any other baby questions? \"
In order to survive, children need \"knowledge\", sexual curiosity, only a fraction of their curiosity. Curiosity could not be met, like yangchu General was not scratched, will not be able to help children colorful life in the future.
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