Children will make all sorts of questions about the world, asking questions, they become more and more intelligent. Parents properly interpreted correctly, you can help children understand more--about happiness, freedom, truth and equality sth
People often say: \"learning, knowledge, studying asked. \"Four or five children, is what they keep\" q \"in learning more and more new things, experiencing more and more emotion, experiencing the spiritual growth of shocked and thinking about sth Their problems, may be naive, perhaps is very difficult, perhaps his questions you would like to ask, perhaps thinking of his problem is a kind of purifying sublimation or to you. Hope these children\'s problems, for the exchange of communication between you and your child, and thinking, giving some useful inspiration or tips.
Where is the end of the day
Five years of Sarah and her father sitting on the beach, take the castle in the sand. Suddenly, she asked a serious question: \"my father, \' \' what when? \"Her father, at first did not understand the question, and ask,\" what day, is do we leave? \"\" Is not, is that all of the \' day \'. \"Little girls to be serious. Sarah\'s father then explained that the end of the day is not, there are endless days and each day as long. Sarah thought for a while, and asked: \"when I go to bed, days are in the continue? \"\" Yes, the time in our bed time also continues to move forward, after we die as well. ”
Although Sarah did not realise that she referred to is actually a list of philosophical topics--endless. Division of time is difficult to limit, and difficult to image description. The fact is, regardless of whether people realize that rhythm of time is fixed, such as Sarah said when sleeping. Children to the magic world is full of curiosity, they want to figure out what those abstract things are \"things\". When parents when in answer to the question, don\'t answer it either perfunctory sloppy, and without too complex and give them some explanation of the facts, leaving his room for imagination and thought, which grew up he learned that before these things are meaningful.
Why I\'m not you
Put on four years of Ann\'s mother\'s skirt, brings her mother\'s hat and high heels in the foot to the mother\'s and her mother yelled with pride: \"today I am you! \"Mother retorted:\" you just dress up as my own way, you are your own, even though you\'re in mother\'s clothes. \"Ann\'s disappointed, sitting thinking for a while, trying to understand your own is always the same person, no matter what she is dressed like, she\'s just an an. Thus, her mother said: \"when I was a little baby when I was an an. However, when I grow up to when you do? \"Mother said\" you are still an an, just older than it is now. ”
Although in children between the ages of two and they began to realize the self. They increasingly understand that they are an independent life of the individual, have their own consciousness, and hope they wish. However, to the children eventually realized, in his life, he cannot leave his body, he has been and his arms, legs or of a nerve, it requires several years of time. When a child recognizes that not only is made up of a body of matter, and also have feelings, thoughts and consciousness, this in turn requires a period of time. Parents may already be adults also found that know themselves not simpler than to understand the world. From understanding the body\'s own children, to understand emotions, awareness of their own, that they can properly grasp their emotions, ability and potential and even the inner truth of the process that you want, that is, they grow and mature process. You want to help your child to understanding and correctly assess themselves, which is very important for his future independent taking the road of life.
Why has death
A topic of death began to be leaves in life. A few days ago, her good friend\'s grandfather died, the next door Ding Ding Bunny is dead, and her own in a corner of the courtyard and found a dead bird. So the 5 year old little girl said: \"I was a child, has been considered and all the animals will always be alive! Why do they go to die it? \"Her father explains to her:\" If no one died, the Earth will have a heavy burden, and finally goes down. Therefore, some people die, then heaven is the best. ”
Death is a melancholy topics for us adults. However, children are not aware of these, curiosity drives them to understand: when bird died when, what happened? What living means? Our life is long or short? Speed of life is fast or slow? In thinking about these issues when children get to know the life cycle. At the same time you have to tell him, life is worth treasuring, encourages him to live in happiness, progress each day.
The elephant is it real
Four year old Tim be in a sweat to cry woke up from a dream. He dreams to an elephant walked out from the forest, broken glass, kicked open the window, into the room, took his beloved toys and books. Even Tim\'s mother could not coax him, Tim continued to look to the outside, because he is afraid of elephants will come back again. Mother said, \"you\'re just dreaming, four feet of the animals do not come back. \"However, Tim was afraid, and finally only let him sleep with my mother and father. The next day, Tim was far from his dream, he asked: \"elephants just in my mind, isn\'t it? \"Mother nodded. Tim so conclusion: \"it simply did not go to my room, nor does it take my picture book. The elephant in the original reality, there are heads of elephants. ”
Children there are many incredible ideas, and it was difficult to distinguish between reality and fiction.
For small children, ideas, dreams and real-life experiences are as real. When the children to the age of four or five times, will ask, what is real? What is my experience, imagine what is my mind? Parents need to know, at this time the child has a wealth of imagination, do not put his imagination as it is not normal behavior. Creative open is in the \"ignorance\" of childhood. Of course, parents need to help your child to understand the real world, because the child not only emotionally, and mentally also need security and a sense of trust, so for them, and find out what is real, which belongs to the imagination is important. But this also does not prevent you to develop the imagination with them, to create new and better fantasies.Do blind girl happy
Neighbor\'s little sister is a blind girl. 4 Nana suddenly asked a question she has always wanted to ask: \"she don\'t see anything, as she and I happy? \"Mother asks Nana what makes her happy. She said that the mother with going to the Park and play with other children, receive gifts, to grandparents home, laughing, when go to the playground when ... ... In the process of listing, Nana also found little sister can do, so Nana is happy to come to the conclusion: Although people are not perfect, but also have happy.
From infancy, when babies need to be met, babies began to have a happy feeling. Just happy at that time was simple: sleeping, eating, hold, more they don\'t need. And then, happiness is complicated, like those just mentioned is a happy thing. They also began to understand the required happy, enjoying happiness. Parents need to let the child know, is to cherish happiness, happier experience for everyone is happy, make others happy is to make his own happiness.
When a child is to your question, you should note that these methods may crack his curiosity and creativity:
* Because he never tires of asking you the same question, and gross irritably refused the child.
* Use overly complex answer to answer his questions.
* Thinks his problems are purely fantasy, install didn\'t hear, ignored or deliberately transfer their attention.
* Rebuked him dreaming and that exposes children to very bad psychological suggestion.
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