Lifting the burden, so are rarely heavy topics associated with children and kindergartens. However, through the so-called \"quality education\" and a \"good child\", \"good boy\" ring, we cannot but regret to see that the current early childhood education to a large extent actually walked into a misunderstanding, innocent children carry a too heavy burden.
Mother, not on us to \"ganshang\"
June 3, a front of the cultural Palace in Jinan City, waiting for the child\'s parents look different. Journalists and who send their daughters to learn the organ\'s mother talked up. In addition to electric piano, she is 5 years old children have reported three other remedial classes every Tuesday night to study dance, on Thursday night to learn English, learn to paint on the morning of Saturday, schedule was full to the brim. Lady of journalists with the surname often have such a dialogue.
--Let the children learn so many things, not child tired tired?
--Could you not tired? Not to mention the children, that we have a little bear, her father and I took turns to accompany the child, evening courses, responsible for her father, accompanied by me over the weekend.
--Do not less to learn two? How poor children!
--(With a very strange vision looked at a reporter) small children, plasticity, and learn a little bit is a little bit.
--Your children so much class, do children like?
--OK, some do not like. As of today the electronic piano, she is not very willing to learn, every time, you\'ll struggle to do something.
Look at the professional, looked weary mothers refused to disclose, and then look at the look the same tired of her daughter, journalists feel a little sad: 5 years old children are the happiest and most to be happy, but how many children were pulled by their parents, were transferred in remedial classes, ignorant ignorance of age forced to stand in the fierce competition on the runway.
The morning of June 5, an interview with reporters in provincial women and children activity center, less than an hour of time, there are seven or eight parents called to ask various training registration matters, of which 3, children under 6 years of age. The Centre of the relevant official told reporters, because faster to the next training course registration time, so many parents to consult every day, they almost have a similar request, to consult the staff of the centres which class better, want to recommend some more classes. Staff said a few ten times a day so: \"you should be based on the child\'s interest to choose, see what kids really like, there is no need to learn sth everything\"
According to press reports, the units concerned survey in Beijing, Shanghai and other places with more than 80% child \"\" busy, which started 5 years ago to 87·1% of the children, for children learning voluntarily only to more than 30%.
If children share the burden of the family, then let the children received primary education kindergarten, can you give the kids a loose free growing environment?
Teachers, we had a very good hard
, On June 5, two days, reporter to the children of unannounced visits to the provincial capital of several kindergartens in the capacity of parents, turned out to pupils, and even adult standards to regulate these lovely children, has become the kindergarten of a fault. Art in a kindergarten, one responsible for the admission of a comrade, because it was too hot outside, who only a day in the morning between 8 to 9 points, let the children come out to play for an hour, the remaining time in addition to the lunch break, regardless of the size classes are the same as primary teaching indoor classes, every 40 minutes. Reporters from the wall of note a class timetable, from Monday to Friday, afternoon arrangements on 4 times a day, abacus, keyboard exercises, art, dance, general studies, singing, and other curriculum is filled.
Pushed the kindergarten classroom door and saw not naive children, but the formal sitting on a bench \"little adults\", one by one they cute eyes, not yet, but that of people heartaches. Interview, one parent told reporters that his small red flower in the hands of children in order to be teacher, at dinner time, every time the teacher asked who also added he had raised their hands, as a result, small red flower was, people make it worse, came home full-toss, strong and healthy for two days.
How can I get a small red flowers? Ask the class children and primary school students, their answers are surprisingly consistent: listening to the teacher, not naughty, good performance, and so on. Children\'s answers show should not have matured.
Small red flower becomes a \"spell\" that children from the first day of the Park, was told not to run, not to speak loudly in the classroom, are not allowed to play with toys, and so on. In assessing a good child, small excitations such as safflower, most children learn to take charge of your, did not say what teacher wouldn\'t listen to, do not do the things teachers not to do, every day in the \"how\" or \"no\" under the indoctrination of children in kindergartens has been difficult to find as a child feeling.
Families, kindergartens to the \"love\" to treat the children, our society has given them what?
Uncle aunt, we don\'t want to be props
This year\'s \"Liuyi\" during the Festival, in various kindergartens, halls, plazas, and always visible against the heat of the Sun, tension and difficulty in performances of the children. Such a scene not only children\'s day, on the other festivals, evening, also often see children difficult figure. In order to attend the leadership, for the kindergarten grades, to teachers and even the parents face, kids will prepare a program of the month or months out, mechanically doing actions like a puppet, and the number of people feel really ask the children to participate in these activities. See performances, the children performed very tired, people are very tired. If in the beautiful music, children free, or singing or dancing, free play, is no better than this uniform
Nature of action is more beautiful, more in line with the children do?At a press interview, many parents reflect, these performances have become for parents and children of a \"test\". Live community of Ms Zhang Shun jade says, this spring, her daughter\'s kindergarten, in order to participate in organizations active in the area, let the children rehearse was a green fashion show. As usual love to sing love jump, her daughter was taken as the main \"actors\", in kindergarten practice does not say every day, back home or to let MOM and dad when coaching and training. Press Conference of Mr LI have a distress, because her daughter is more fat, almost all decent performance without her, every holiday or usual rehearsal program, daughter wouldn\'t go to kindergarten. Mr LI asked to understand, kindergarten activities, performance is just another form of children\'s games, it is necessary to pick the fat and choose the thin, like actor performances, games the same?
Experts believe that in a person\'s growth in child care are affecting the quality of their character and important phase in the period. Whether you have a happy childhood, will have a very profound impact a person\'s life. Our parents, teachers, community is the love child, what to do to give the children a truly happy childhood, it is each of us must seriously consider problems.
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