Parent-child attachment types

Parent-child attachment and mother or children under two years ago between the main supporter of the establishment of a special emotional link link. Mothers can not only meet the baby\'s physical needs and feelings of \"hunger\", and were children psychologically \"safety island\" and the source of happiness. As long as mother at his side, he can play with peace of mind and pleasure, explore the surrounding environment. And the unexpected arrival of a stranger, staring at him with eyes to see, from the mother in her arms to get close to him--this is a child of seven or eight months, mental stimulation, will make him feel anxiety, fear and even crying, screaming. Use the standard \"strange situation\" experiment, you can test and distinguish between three different types of parent-child attachment:

① security attachment

② resistant attachment

③ Avoidant attachment

Such infants and mothers do not actually establish a special emotional link, in the three attachment styles, secure attachment is good, positive attachment, revolt and Avoidant attachment is negative, harmful attachment.

Type of the parent-child attachment, is a product of mother-child interaction. Mother and infant temperament of the attitudes and behaviour, and the baby itself, are main factors affecting the infant form two different attachment styles. Responsible, sensitive, caring mothers, their children often secure attachment of infant, conversely, may be resisted or Avoidant.

Study found that baby\'s temperament is also frequent, strongly affects mothers \' attitudes and behavior: those people had to laugh, likes to be hold the baby more prone to get mother\'s favor and hold those who do not like to be, not easy to soothe babies less care by the mother. And mothers \' attitudes and behavior, which in turn affect the formation of different attachment styles.

Strong positive parent-child attachment relationship is the basis for children many of the modern quality.