Special focus on children first resistance period

Child to make independent

Over the years, many parents to loom felt: the child is not very good with.

Indeed, with the improvement of motor ability in children, the expansion of the range of activities, his curiosity and new needs have become more intense, according to personal preferences and the preferences thing is growing. Follow is to resist the gradual emergence of. In fact, this is every child in the course of psychological development through trip.

After the birth of a child 13 to four months, soared at a rate of physical and mental development. When the children have the ability to walk freely after independence, enjoyed in are tired of the nascent, but dreaming alone way in the world. When he was able to understand and use personal pronoun \"I\" at that moment, will bid farewell to \"obey\", drafted his own \"Declaration of independence\". At this stage, he has stepped stubborn, headstrong, and even tougher. Grow in his dictionary, \"no\" to become the most frequently used words. At this time, we usually call \"first revolt period.\"

Conflicts arise from where

During this period, the children would like to know and want to try so many things. They are willing to more free adults in custody, the independent \"exploration\" in the environment every \"children should not be\" corner.

\"Anything\" is a lot of care under the Children Act people on this stage features the conclusion. Close 1 aged half of children increasingly keen \"raids\" and \"Qing wild\", he to test from adult of activities in the by \"see\" to of experience, he to imitation, and reproduction parents physical and mental inputs of \"game\": took up small hammer beat easy broken of glass coffee table, to eggs knock breaking in ground with hand smudge, standing on up toe moved pour desk Shang father common of ink bottle sth sth Due to the limits of experience, experience, often \"less than provocative\" ended.

\"Less to move\" is that many parents concluded that children and parents \"rival\" of basic features. He could put a roll of toilet paper dragging to the end, face is brimming with exciting; low, he opens the door, to empty all items complacent; he has climbed to the low furniture, pulls out of parents went out on the shelf baby joy; he can across people with disabilities, face the challenge power, gas cooker, water dispenser and no return to regard sth