Children often imitates adult behavior test of their inner thoughts. Small boys often try to imitate father shaves, little girl tries to follow the father stood for a pee.
On the relationship between learning and cognitive, maybe some parents knew. If a child from the parents of training received in the attitude to be \"dirty\" information, it will inevitably affect the development of his mental.
Admittedly, most of the parents when a child is preschool will bother, because they found that children often undress each other, mutual observation of genitals, or \"playing doctor\". To adult standards, this kind of behavior borders on harassment. But we forget that child odds on the interpretation of such acts and adult. Preschool children for themselves, so people are curious. Differences of this kind of observation of each other, but their development \"sex\" understanding natural phenomena.
We advice to parents is: don\'t overreact. Because of \"excessive reaction\" will make the activity a harmless, gradually adding \"sin\" and \"shame\" component. In fact, when the child\'s curiosity is satisfied, they tend to give up that kind of exploration activities.
\"Sexual\" stubbornly interested children may hide the inner meaning of a silent protest. This response can be effective in preventing, for example: seizing the opportunity to leave, inadvertently pointed out that the genitals, say the name of it, and they explain different from boys and girls of reproductive organs.
Many parents believe that the three-year old child cannot understand the differences between the sexes, so do? based study found that at this age, he (or she) has begun to surprise and distress to gender issues. I mean, you dare to tell the children to explain, for example tells the little girl, she has no penis is normal; little boy also should understand that gender difference is has a purpose. Transmission of this information, and basically no porn, it should be, like skin color and hair, eyes, or easier to discuss.
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