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What you are parents

Parents love their children. However, the same love, turned out to be a big difference. Think about it, what type are you parents? At the time of children, but are you also ignored some important things?


Protection type:


Such parents for children is not assured, it was weeks comprehensive on everything, always worried about her slight negligence causing injury to children. But children often feel depressed, relaxed, no freedom of breathing space.


If you are such parents, in educating children note you custody of your children when you scale to relax a little, give the child a free play space, maybe he will make things in a mess, but remember, if you do not let him do it yourself, you may never have no independence day.


Spoil type:


Such parents for child very fond indulgence, whether children what to do, is considered to be right, and never harsh criticism. This type of parent training children seem happy, but on the contrary, their lack of tolerance and restraint, regular beer, avaricious, and do not love yourself, then he will become head, lower ability of daily life.


This parent should pay attention to strict upbringing children, in their daily lives, we must teach children right from wrong, to reject the wrong and developing the good. This transformation process to get a good grasp of, progressive changes.


Control type:


Such parents pursue \"Godfather of can\'t, teach not a severe teacher inert\" criterion, believe that children must comply with the rules established by the parents, not the slightest resistance. This high pressure education method to make children feel their parents care, from the bottom of disgust. They particularly want to communicate with parents.


Parents of children should be appropriate to consider requests and let him go, must believe the child\'s abilities, and do not save their praise.


Let type:


Such parents due to busy work, but also want to give children a free living space inside, so the General child children own affairs independent shots, never too much interference. However, due to less exposure time, cannot fully understand a child\'s thoughts, emotions and so on, easily makes children feel their parents neglect to take care of himself, and not highly valued.


Parents in the tolerance of children at the same time, he should be given appropriate guidance and constraints, children need parents actively correct guidelines.


Ideal:


All children want their parents are set over several types of benefits of good parents, parents to understand a child\'s idea of this type, also recognized his feelings and behaviors, and be able to communicate regularly with the children, closing the generation gap between the two generations. This parent-child relationship will be perfectly, the child can live independently, but when dealing with children, tend to show independent, organized, and other advantages.

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