Experts said that three major reasons for the child and parent communication

\"Children bigger is meaningless, little more fun, anything and I said, now, Catherine, and adults is nothing to say. \"Similar complaints from the parents, now prevalent in many of our families. Children grow up, are alienated from their parents, parent and child really have nothing in common language? Education experts pointed out that, in the absence of effective language communication behind, trouble is actually parents cannot ascertain children are inside.

Live together under the same roof, children and parents why is like from a different planet? Analysis of Tianjin Academy of social sciences researcher Wang Xiaobo said, one of self-protection of children, so as from parents of harm. Parents will excuse: I how can harm children, everything I do is for him. It is this \"good for him\", like a high school student wrote in the journal \"they looked after in every possible way of life to me, doesn\'t let me do anything, but I really want, want to do, they do not understand, nor interest in, they just want me to study, in addition to studying to do nothing. \"Children have grown up, with independence of thought, consciousness, desire, and parents \' ideas, practices often hold to disrespect, contempt or even berate, it\'s easy to hurt those who are growing up, longing for mature heart.

Second, children, the adults could not understand. Some parents are not good at learning, unwilling to learn new things, so keep up with the pace of the times, also had no access to your child\'s respect. In this era, the reality of the pressure was educated by parents deeply important, so simply asking a child to College chosen specialty, and kids learn life and emotional needs outside neglect, indifference. This attitude has gradually created a gap between parents and children is not available to fill. In some respects, children grow up, parents are behind: the focus of the new vocabulary, new interests, new topics, children excited about talking point, parents are lost and are still repeating over and over again every day, this will inevitably lead to no words between father and son, mother and daughter to talk about.

Third, new media age, popular Internet language. Internet parents certainly understand not what \"frogs, dinosaurs, prawns\" words such as, but are both garrulousness quack tongue, for its dismissive. And the children do? You think parents dull, nagging worry for nothing. Over time, would like to sit one place to chat, have become impossible. Children prefer to and user talk hot, rather than his relatives parents send a smiley face.

How to eliminate the gap between parents and children? Wang Xiaobo considers, first of all, parents to give children mental space, to learn about new media, new things. Second, to take the initiative and say mind relationship with the child as a friend. Third, as far as possible develop a family habit of chatting. Family chat not only can lead children to develop listening and talk habits, can also enhance the relationship between family members, so that each family member is better at listening, mutual concern and parents no longer feel that is a very difficult thing to communicate with the children.