Parents fear that children considered poor, always in a hurry to lessons taught to their children. While this proven experience is way good medicine, but ignoring the feelings of the child, children are not prepared to accept that the bitter medicine. If you impose on children, may not necessarily conducive to the line. Brother was clear and I said: actually, it he knows, yes no song he also judge about, know parents for his advice is useful. But he wouldn\'t listen, fighting with you. You say the East, he went to the West, is to do nothing more than a back to the primary. After shots and lost, is not important to him, he cares about is himself can decide for yourself.
In fact, the reason is simple, we complicate it. A rebellious child in the family do not have to panic, to educate his life experiences, lessons learned. Facing modern youth dyed hair, tattoos or reprimanded curse. Told him some of the traditional idea of insinuating. He would be better to judge the good and bad. Liu Yong has a program to teach parents resort: face of dyeing the hair children first \"praise\" (Oh! Where it was dyed? Dad to dye a come back. ). Children may be anxious to stop you, say some hair dyes does not look like. So he is aware of the effect of hair dye. And your purpose is achieved. This indirect guidance were much better than direct foam with rage reprimanded.
Appropriate delegation of authority to the child, let the children really do back home! Fails, he will understand. Parents not to let the children, of course, its no matter regardless. Or should the side Guide, just to note that skill. Love does not have to occupy children there is no need to treat him as a child. Face in a rebellious period of children as mountaineering encountered on the way the wind and snow, you are running to the mountains, or to the Hill running under? Mountaineering experts will choose to peak running, despite the greater wind and snow to peak, the resistance is also unpredictable. But much safer than that of mountains runs under. Because mountain feel more safe and reliable, in fact hide huge risk. Mountain run is likely to encounter such as debris flows and landslides and risk even more. Baby treason, do not have to rush to control him, when sharp turn risk will be very large. Parents in the treatment of rebellious children must choose a good skill.
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