Baby lying on the ground spoiled child what to do

Q: my 2 year old baby lying on the ground spoiled now, whether coax, persuade, to no avail, I head to this problem, what should I do?

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Answer: almost all the children have been crying and act shamelessly, especially in their small, also when not talking much, because it is their only several methods for expression of frustration and anger. No matter how hard they annoying, parents should understand, children just want to be your reaction (although this is a cry and act shamelessly very important reasons, pupils are sometimes even crying to get parents \' reaction), which is also a way to release their emotions. Parents should allow children to express their feelings, we do not accept method of expressing their emotions. If the parents are angry because the child crying, shouting for the kids, then we are allowed expression by shouting their own anger, to suppress the children to express their anger. It is not fair, is also invalid. Shouting, threats, trick these tactics could only make your child more often in the future, more crying. Our purpose is not to suppress child angry or our own emotions, but instead, accept emotions and help ease to achieve constructive results.

First, recognized children of emotional (I know you is angry, we everyone are has does not happy of when), second, criticism children expression emotional of way (you such do I does not know you wants to what, no approach help you, if you has been such, I had to to do I own of things), third, told children should how do (good said you to what, why).

Children often make parents helpless, on both the child and the situation got out of hand. Is fortunate, as the child grew up to school age, they learn better ways to manage their frustrations.

Tips to reduce child is to eradicate it in the bud. If a child in public, don\'t worry about how others see you, take the boy into a corner, waiting for him to calm down. You can say to him: \"I sit here waiting, until you\'re not making noise. If 3, 4 minutes he makes, take children away from there.

If a child at home, you can say: \"If you don\'t, then we can talk about, what can we do? \"And taking the children to go to another room (if your child is too small, you can stay with him, if he is to hold you, you can hold him, but not to what he wanted until he calmed down). See what newspapers or do something else, let him know that he calm down, you did not notice him. In most cases, if the adults have no interest in children, they will soon be able to calm down.

Sometimes there are no signs in advance, child will suddenly make for all sorts of reasons: do not have access to what they want, do a bad thing, or just tired. However, you can avoid some occasion that raised the children. If a child only 2 years old, and he played in 6 year old sister crayon, it might be due to bad art and combustion, can you help him or on his attention to his toy.

Don\'t expect too much for the kids, for example, child care cannot be a long time their play, so you should avoid when shopping with children in the store people, children will soon be impatient when queuing. If you must take him to line up, ready for his favorite toys or food to his boredom.

When your children develop more self control, society in a constructive way to express his need and setbacks, crying, and other negative behavior will be less and less. Teach your child to tell you his thoughts and feelings, you and your children\'s communication skills can be developed, and to establish good communication, when your children enter adolescence, it is very useful.