Independent living space for the pursuit of modern people, cause they choose to live with their parents will lower, seen from the findings, this concept of living apart from family is clearly has become mainstream. At the same time a survey has shown, many of the elderly in his later years mainly by child care, but because children work, residence much reason to care. Does not and the elderly live with their children, and most difficult not only to take care of daily life, is the home visit is not common. And the elderly live with their children, are in intense competition of the modern society, work busy, socializing, and not only look after the parents have difficulty, often need help look after the children of parents and family.
\"Live\" is to be convenient to both select \"cohabitation\" is of old age but
Peking University sociology Xia Xueluan Professor pointed out that: on live environment of requirements reflected out contemporary young people of independent value, young people think live environment only representative has \"form\", pursuit independent life, hope parents does not effect second people world of taste, fear because life trivia or life habits of different raised two generation people Zhijian of contradictions, and to a week or two week visit a times, such more can keep both of fresh sense. From the perspective of social development, \"Sub\" is certainly a trend, can live as independence, avoid conflicts, increase feelings of husband and wife.
Healthy parents, also do not like to live together with their children, which is be convenient to both choices. Select do not use the value judgments, to respect both choices, encourage independence. But if parents bad physical condition, housing permit cases, also encourage parents and children live together, to old-age, older or single parents should be even more so for the elderly. Needs more care for the elderly living alone, young people should also shoulder the responsibility and obligation in addition to the best of filial piety.
According to the Vice President of the Association of old Beijing Yi Mi pointed out that: improvement of housing conditions is a modern progressive and man \"separation\" of the most important objective reasons. Living space have a choice, is social progress in diversification, personalized selection of people\'s lives, is also a social material embodiment. Living spaces increases, also brought some problems ensuing. Such as cultural levels higher, better economic conditions of the elderly, after the out of the subject of social life, and is willing to have their own independent space, they feel that life with children, there is no convenient place. But when the old man entered the stage of old age, they want to live together with their children.
In the elderly in society for aging survey found that health of elderly people aged more than 60 bears responsibility of caring for the next generation for their children, children also need lots of help for the elderly, natural emotional support and mutual trust in the family into a home tie to maintain a close relationship between the elderly and children.
As children or third generation of growth, both are need own of independent space, this stage select separate live of proportion increases; elderly gradually elderly or body appears obstacles Hou, more think alone, in spirit comfort Shang more need family of concern, elderly elderly more hope and children with live, and third generation of growth also need more independent, at this time middle generation of people on regression to elderly elderly side for care, this is elderly and children in different stage different of demand formation of phase adaptation of live relationship, does not should General to comments with live in together \"good\" or \"bad\".
There is still a family-oriented commercial real estate for the elderly poor operation
Yi Mi believes that, as only children grow, \"Dink family\" the emergence of social labour of care for the elderly has been gradually changing, is also decreasing trend in the number of family care for the elderly, old-age pension more dependent on outsiders in the form of care. The United Nations in the \"old World Assembly\" proposed in the programme of action on \"return to the community for the elderly\" proposals, to promote \"community Endowment\" mainstream model has been developed. In a familiar environment for the elderly, provides a full range of open care by the community, at the same time can reduce the economic cost of old-age. Japan to promote \"a bowl of soup\" from the House, is the way of community. If in a real estate construction suitable for living environment of facilities for the elderly, than a separate isolated elderly, purpose-built apartments for the elderly to be more reasonable. Homes for the elderly or children psychological conflict, separate flats for the elderly to live full, the main reason is not adapted to the emotional needs of the elderly, elderly people do not like isolated their desire to live in a big community, to see middle-aged few generations, more hope from their relatives and friends close to the natural life. Old man old time more of a homeboy, proposed socialized more extensive social services.
Summer Professor, currently China\'s national conditions or family should be the major mode, promoting community providing socialized service. Current social welfare funds cannot ensure the implementation establish perfect social old-age, \"community\" can help to establish nursing home, but limited by the funds still fail to meet social needs. Shandong have done community in home mode, installing a unified call system, individual communities in the North and Beijing has a similar way, you can call the security and life issues, from the community professional services organizations to resolve, this mode is more suitable for Chinese society.
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