Even if the door is open, many children will consciously stayed in the room. They did not \"escape\" attempt. However, some children are not \"arrested\". They kept running out of the room, resulting in closed rooms null and void. If flight is smaller, you just stood in the doorway, blocking their way shot. They jianshibumiao, will be relying on to return to the room. For older children, you can take the doors close. So several promptingsfrom, look out, once in closed rooms and never run out without authorization, can only honestly \"sentence\"--this is a \"closed\" in the past. If you do not close the door, child repeatedly escapes, you got them to go back, the two sides would be in \"see\".
In this case, not closed, of course, to what effect. You train and constraints child\'s effectiveness, will be greatly diminished. There is a way, is outside the door fitted with \"closed\". So, even if the children can open the door, \"closed\" will cover the child\'s way (\"closed\" are usually on the door frame. You should do some strong. If child a foot can kick it, and you might as well not loading at all). There is a way. Children dared to run out of the confinement, you increase the number of closed. Or, you can take the confinement time increased by 1 time times again.
Of course, if the object is 2~3sui of closed child, both of these methods may not be much, because they are difficult to understand your intentions. For older children, this method is effective, because they do not want to just ask for it. Some parents ingenuity, room door into the closed \"half\". (They can from this \"half\" above the monitor the situation. ) This \"half\" features, is the bottom half of the door is locked, and can be opened in the upper part. You may be seen in the comedy film \"half\". Some children like this \"comedy of\" means of punishment. They are happy to accept such a train, and can well reflect on their own. Children may take advantage of you do not back up, and walked out. This is the case, you can also use a plastic spherical door knob. This handles reverse, considerable effort is required. Children\'s strength is not enough, there is no way the door open.
There is a way more simple: to lock up. Some parents worry about in this way, children may suffer from \"claustrophobic\". This concern is redundant, unless you put the kids to be closed for months and years. Some parents think the children locked in the room, is a serious criminal act. As far as I know, in the United States in most places, this approach does not conflict with the law. You can clearly tell the child: as long as obediently accepted the closed, doors can be opened or closed. Once they run out from the inside, you will lock the door. So children will realize that as long as their obedient, you can ensure the confinement room door open. It was their welcome.
From the child\'s nature, they always try to escape confinement (including many people with \"ADHD\" children). Therefore to close the door in a certain way, of course, is a necessary practice. If the doors can be opened at any time, children can go out at any time, and you had to follow their buttocks behind Eagle catching chickens like to catch up with the past, forcing children to return the room--so, implementing magic significance, is gone. You will be very passive, for kids, nor is there any benefit. As a parent, you have to let the child know, closed doors, is an insurmountable barrier. Unless the closed end of the time, otherwise they can only stay in it, reflect on their own. Closed period, if you\'re worried about your child\'s safety, it stood at the door and secretly monitor and wait. Trying not to let children know that. Some parents for confinement time, performing a \"child for a few years, it closed a few minutes\" principle. This is a good idea.
Parents should not be a bad mood, is free to extend the confinement time. Only children do too out, can only be appropriate to extend the confinement time. When children understand the rules you know \"just ran out of the room\", you will give up the fight, start short and quiet of \"reflection\".
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