Parents are always found their children grow up very quickly, changes in growth and development of children need a corresponding change in games, toys. Therefore, parents have to learn new knowledge and skills to meet the needs of their children grow up.
We often pay attention to is: children speech time; children walking time; children\'s appetite and digestive function; children\'s ability to identify people; children\'s safety and health; praise and praise children.
We often ignored of is: children creativity, and imagine force, and independence and self-care ability of training; children hand of fine action and limb movement coordination sexual of training; children of social ability of training and training; specification children language and personality training; children pride of training and training; encourages children established reasonable of expectations and target; parents personal behavior on children of effect; doting on children produced of potential harm.
We need to do and know is: we should continue to study child growth and development characteristics and needs of this phase to understand for children need toys and games.
Give the child time: we need to spend more time with the children, such as: stories, together with the children in the game, placed blocks, read books, play, and so on, in these common activities, we will surprise to find that children\'s capacity to improve at 1.1.
Observation, discovery, children: each period of this phase, children in language and expression, movement and co-ordination, imagination and creativity, independence and self-reliance, and so on, it is difficult to gauge the leap occurs. If we do not know or understand them, and limit too many children, creation and imagination tends to restrict children\'s future development, impeding the ability of action and coordination of child development, children future is difficult to stand or independent, character and expression ability of children may be distorted.
Subject to this stage of our toys inspire children and foster children: we often buy toys for their children, but not knowing what kind of effect it has on children. Parents usually give the child a pile of toys, let him play because we don\'t have the time. In fact, such practices are detrimental to children and we own, the reason is simple: we give up a chance to communicate with the children, guide the child opportunities, stimulate imagination and creativity development opportunities, and children of opportunities for Exchange of emotions.
Education stories:
I remember very clearly, when my son 2 years old, he is like a white motorcycle toy, I meet the requirements of the children. However, I ignored the use of motorcycle toy inspired imagination and judgment of his son, for example: differences between motorcycles and cars, trucks and other vehicles, or explain the General knowledge of the vehicles for his son. Me more practice but just let the child himself blind to play. Until my son at the age of 4, he said to me: \"MOM, you are not I clever, you do not know motorcycle, does not know what each part is used for the motorcycle! Look, I know them! \" Before my son, motorcycles have been broke, his small hands hold major parts of a motorbike, and began to give me the \"school\"! Face of my son I \"school\", I thought: two years ago my son should have \"school\", and I ignored, and gave up the opportunity to inspire children, even though he knew the difference between motorcycles and other vehicles, however delays a child two years of my time.
I believe that many parents have with me the same story and experience, we are guilt and regret. But we do not want similar \"story\" in those couples who planned pregnancies occurred again, parents of those children have infinite hope!
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