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9.3.11

Family education \"excessive\" hazard

Excessive tutor present in many families, its healthy growth of children is often good more harm.


Excessive protection of the child survival capacity. As a child, many parents fear that their children eat well, wear well, all care for the kids, round the child turned round. Too many, excessive protection, between the child and society put up a protective wall, the child away from the community, brought up to the age but always make people feel he is not independent ability to act is getting worse.


Excessive interference in children at a loss. Curiosity is the child of nature, is the power of driving children to understand the world and transform the world. Children\'s active, will inevitably face some risks, if only for the children\'s safety, interfere, restrict children activities everywhere, not only detained children intellectual growth, and put a stranglehold on the child\'s personality development, easier to let the child prematurely aborted creative nature.


Education enables children who are tired of too much. Many parents are keen \"early education\", \"ambitious for one\'s children\", \"looking woman into Phoenix\" often consciously or unconsciously to all kinds of pressure on the child, child small age we should learn a foreign language, back learning typing, painting, poetry, learning piano and so on, that many children do not go to school on the school is full of fear, say learn heart given meaning.


Effects of excessive indulgence love child. Parents on their children excessive effects of love, a prominent manifestation of which is dull, so easily to children unruly, selfish nature, and that parents love is cheap, is taken for granted. Parent-child of love should be bi-directional, while parents in the effects of love should also let your child know how to return. If a child had a reverse psychology on effects of love, parents may turn to using \"slap education\", power politics and doting, while extreme, is reaching, are detrimental to the growth of children\'s physical and mental health.

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