How to communicate with adult children in early

· Transposition and respect
Most despite the communication between parents and adult children in early, but the effect is not good enough, there are two main reasons.
Are parents talking down, put yourself in the high status of the children first, said communication is, in fact, many are \"pass\" or \"training.\" Most adult children without a hard life in the early years, hardly like when their parents in early adulthood, both thoughtful parents a hard life, but also requested by the parents to do. Therefore the parents now to achieve the expected result of communication with the children, the first thing to learn empathy, to eliminate and reduce the generation gap. Second, parents are less respect for the early selection of adult children, easily hurt their pride, which led to antagonism of the child. Therefore, parents be sure to let your child at home enjoy full equality of rights, the right, right of privacy, dignity, so that communication barriers be eliminated in order to achieve the desired communication effects. In short, you want to beginning adult child communication of received good results, to be transposed, and second, we must respect.
Sinopec group Xuzhou, Jiangsu Bu Wenping

· More understanding
Daughter of junior middle school graduation, and students gather one day farewell, to also didn\'t come home at night. I was riding my bike to find, very much heard the daughter and student speech voice, I did not make a punitive expedition against, returned home and no blame. The next day, daughter talk solemnly to me: \"Dad, why don\'t you call me? Many of our students are parents called out. \"I said:\" my father also worked as a student, and students live together for a few years and now want to break up, both cherish the feelings, there is nothing to blame. However, if a call in advance, parents not to worry, the better. \"Daughter red with eye, she said:\" I\'m lucky, have you a good understanding of Dad. ”
Daughter is now the third-year student at the University, some people think it also excited. I think that, on the issue of communication with their children, parents to give them a little more space, more understanding and less blame.
Yangpu district, Shanghai sugar tobacco wine limited Zheng Zihua

· Less row misses
I know that parents love me. However, they sometimes say burdensome. For example, a disagreement with them, the mother will say: \"you have now wings hard, can not listen to the adults, but for me from small to big for you to worry about, you do sth today\" it with row misses her for a while though, but listened to very harsh. When parents in persuading their children, can the patient, peaceful, less row misses more discuss it?